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I like this guy and we are already friends. I don't have many classes with him but I sit right behind him in the one class we do have. He always turns aroud at me and tries to make me laugh. I told one of my friends who hasn't told anyone. He's really cute but i don't want to tell him. It might ruin our friendship and i don't want anything like that to happen. I just really like him. Help, i'll rate low if you tell me to tell him because that won't get me anywhere (link)
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If your not gonna tell him keep flirting!
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All my friends have had a boyfriend before except me. I really want one, but there is no one that seems right for me. A few guys have asked me out, but i have refused. I am more obsessed with school than guys, but sometimes i wonder if i should spend more time trying to get a boyfriend. I also find that most boys i was attracted to had been my friends. I am not sure why that is. Maybe because i knew them so well?
~Wondering (link)
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I've never had a boyfriend...and I have a TON of guy friends, which is what you should have right now! I have been asked out 3 times and I turned down all of them. The right guy will come along someday! And keep focusing on school! It will get you farther in life than any boy could!
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okay..this is going to be long, but i really need help. Ok, my (old) best friend is bipolar. She is really a hard-to-handle person. I dont know what to do cuz lately weve been getting into fights because im so sick of her bitchy-ness. I have no clue on what to do with her, shes like, starting stuff with her one other friend (cuz thats all she has) with me, so now were fighting too. This girl also walks around and shes all quiet and she thinks shes ugly and EVERYONE is out to get her-when really nobody knows her. If she were louder and had more friends-i think shed be happier. What should i do? PLEASE HELPP!! (link)
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Take her to church where she can get to know people, and hear God's word!
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This morning my boyfriend is being a major jerk. I don't know why, but it's like he doesn't even care how I feel today. I wish he would just talk to me. I am trying to send him hints, but it's not working! How can I get his attention? (link)
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Send him a note and tell him wut u just told us.
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I have this guy-friend that I've hung out with since 5 grade (I'm in 9) and he is really smart and nice and funny, but not all that cute. I really like him (like, I want to date him and such) and I think he likes me because he always comes over to talk and comments on my outfit or my latest quilt design, and today at lunch my friend Tai said he was staring at me, but he might just be acting that way because we're friends. Does he like me like I like him or not? I'd like some input from guys on this one. (link)
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I personally think it's his way of flirting! Guys are weird like that...they find kinda weird ways to flirt...especially in young teen ages! And if you like him, and with the way he's acting I'm sure yall like each other but are a little scared to tell each other. Talk to him about it. Not his flirting but you liking him and if he likes u in the same way! Hope I hepled!
***Katy***
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I'm going to camp in the summer for the first time in my life. (I'm 14) I've known my friends for 3 years and they've never known me without makeout. I don't use alot but a little bit of eyeliner makes a hugeee difference! Anyways, I don't know what I should do because I don't want my friends to see me makeup-less...I mean, with makeup, I look "decent" but without, you won't even recognize me on the street. I look horrible! Please don't say..your friends should love you for you..I'm very self concious about myself and I really want to know what to do. Thanks in advance-I rate! (link)
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Ok, makeup is makeup! I admit I look better with makeup on, but I'm not to bad without it, which I'm sure you are too, but you are self consious. And what girl isn't.But honestly if they're focusing on whether u have makeup on or off they are not very good friends. Just don't even act like u don't have any on. It feels better without it on too! Hope I helped!
***Katy***
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ok, here's the story: i liked this guy (let's call him Bob) and my friend likes (or liked) this other guy (let's call him Bill). well, we told each other during spring break about who we liked. and we promised not to tell. and neither of us did.
But now i don't like Bob and i think she still likes Bill, because it's really obvious (she flirts with him and stuff), but now that i say i don't like Bob, she acts like she doens't like Bill and if i tell her it's really obvious, she threatens to say that i still like Bob to one of the school's blabbermouths.
i know she still likes Bill and i'm getting sick of agreeing that she doesn't like him.
(by the way, we're only in junior high) (link)
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Just let her flirt! It's fun! She might be to embarassed to say she likes him now since you don't like anyone. Don't tell her it obvious...it will piss her off more. She's a girl...in middle school...shes GONNA flirt a lot! And if she does threaten to tell ppl say if I haven't told anyone bout you ever liking "Bill" so why tell ppl I ever liked "Bob". Besides they wouldn't even care!
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Okay, my boyfriend and I broke up about 2 weeks ago but when we started going back out again. The deal was that I had to give him time to do things he loves to do like basketball. I know I said I would give him the time but I want his time too, ya know? I thought he only meant like a couple hours after school 3 or 4 days a week but it's been every day, every week for at least 5 hours. I never get to talk to him anymore. We don't live close together either. We live 30 minutes away so when my parents are willing to take me over there, we used to both jump at the offer. He rarely gets a ride to my house because his family is in a tight financial situation. The only day that I ever get to see him is on Sunday for sure. Sometimes I see him on Saturday but not a lot. I love him sooo much but I'm just not sure if he has the time for me or if he still loves me?? I want him to be happy and have time to himself but I mean, I want him to spend time with me too since I never really get to see him. All I want is an hour or two every once in a while. Is that really too much to ask? Does he still have enough time for me and does he still love me?
I'm 14 and he's 15... (link)
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Hunny your 14...you don't know wut love is yet! Your in "puppy" love!
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I am soo confused I cant figure it out...how would you know if ur bi or straight bc i thought i was straight but now im trying to find out bc i dont think its wrong to be bi and theirs nothing wrong w kissing another girl to me that is so please answer back ill rate also (link)
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Go to the Bible...it can tell u EVERYTHING!
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okay ... you see lately my mom has been getting me all these babysitting jobs that i really dont want. i've asked her to stop and she has, but one mother wants my to babysit on a regular basis! she has three kids(2, 4 and 6) and i really cannot handle them. the middle child is pretty good, but the 2 year old cries a lot and the 6 year old is always being mean to the middle one and i cant take it! can someone please help me find a way to tell the mother i cant babysit for her regularly. thanks so much! (link)
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Tell your mom the truth and talk to this mom who wants you to babysit regularly. Tell them there is too much on your plate as it is with school and that you simply cannot handle all of this and keep your grades up....they should go for it!
Hope I hepled you!
***kt***
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I don't really have a specific question I just need some advice on what to do because I have no idea.
Background Info:
Jon and I have known each other and been best friends since we were 4. Our fathers own a law firm together so we're together a lot, obviously. I've only had one real relationship. I've had many boyfriends but only one serious one. Same with him. We're both 17.
Early Jan.:
My parents threw a big block party which Jon and I both attended. I wasn't feeling well that night so we left the street (were the party was) and went to my backyard and just hung out. Everything was going fine until he told me that he wanted us to try to be more than "just friends". I was completely blown away because it came out of no where. At the time, I didn't see him in that way so I let him down. It was weird between us for a while but eventually, things got back to normal. Around early Feb. he met a girl who he claims is "absolutely amazing" and they started dating. I was fine with it.
Now, my real problem:
About a month ago I started to realize that I want to be more than friends and that I do like him. But, he now has a girlfriend in the picture, so there's a problem. I'm not the type to break up a happy couple so I tried to forget about it. But, I couldn't. A friend told me to talk to him about it (she though he still might feel the same way). So, I did and it went horrible. I don't think I've ever known a guy that ever reacted the way he did. All he said was, "I asked you before and you said no. Now you're too F*king late. I like Lauren a lot...you should have F*king said something sooner I can't F*king believe you" and then just stormed off.
That happened 4 days ago and I haven't had the nerve to talk to him since. I don't know what to do. Any advice is appreciated. Thanks
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If he honestly liked you he would have waited! And if yall are "best friends" he shouldn't snap at you like that. Talk to him again and tell him that when he told you that he wanted to be more than friends it took you by suprise...and later on you realized you really did have feelings for him. If he still yells at you like that again then say, you know what you might not have to like me in that way but you can atleast treat me like a friend! Hope I helped ya!
***kt***
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theirs this boy in my math class and we are friends sometimes he flirts with me and i do it back sometimes i think i like i do i let him know i like him with out lettin him know i like him if any one can relate to this please write back
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Same exact problem...math class and everything...cept I was stupid and told him straight up. What I would do is talk to him and get to know him and shove him signs but not too obvious because guys like to play hard to get. Find common interests, if hes showing signs like u...more than likely he likes you, but DO NOT come straight forward and tell him cuz he will not admit he likes u! lol. been there done that!
Best of luck!
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ok so, im friends with these people, and they were always cool with me, but then they like their group split in 2 and i was still friends with them but now they're mad at me cause im friends with who they hate. i cant be friends with both sides, what can i do?
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Tell one side or the other that whether they like it or not ur not just gonna stop being friends with another. If they can't accept you because of someone else their not ur TRUE friends!
Best of luck!
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A bunch of my friends cut themselves..but for no reason..they just do it because they want attention and they want people to feel sorry for them. They always talk about how depressed they are and how much life sucks for them, and it's not true at all. Because one friend started to cut herself, the other friend started too as well, and now another one is on the verge of cutting herself. They all do it for attention and I'm positive of that, and they drive everyone crazy. I'd like to just not be friends with them anymore but I don't want to see them get hurt, and they won't listen to anyone when theyre told to stop. What should I do to make them realize how stupid they're being without actually giving them the attention that they're cutting themselves for? If they're given the attention they're cutitng themselves for, then they'll just do it again. If we all just ignore them, they could seriously hurt themselves.. please help. Thanks. (link)
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Well first don't stop being friends with them because it will make them more depressed and stuff. If I were you I would talk to them bout it and say, "I really care about you guys and I don't want you to get hurt." And tell them how dangerous cutting is and that it doesn't solve anything. Also tell them to come to you if their depressed instead of goin to the kinfe or shaver!
Best of luck!
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ok so i really like this guy and i have liked him for a long time. and at one point i know that he liked me but nothing happened and the christmas break came but the only time i really get to talk to him is in the morning when i go to church before school and i see him at school and all he really does is aknowledge me with like a smile or a nod of his head but i hardly ever talk to him at school. but i do talk to him at church and he is always looking at me during church and then when i look bak he says something like he has been trying to get my attention the whole time. i wanna ask him to the saddie hawkins(spelling?) dance. should i? my best friend thinks that i should?whats ur advice?thanks (link)
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OMG I am the EXACT same way! Cept the church thing, but your should definatly ask him and if he says no he's missing out on having a lot of fun. The Sadie Hawkins is coming up at my school too and I told myself if the guy I'm gonna ask says no then I have 2 others good guy friends I can ask! Go for it!
Good Luck
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my boobs are uneven one of them is smaller. i have to wear padded bras to make them even! is this normal?thanks appriciate it (link)
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This is very normal and you shouldn't worry about it!
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My friend is a horrible singer and he wants to be fameus and sing on american idol but he sucks really bad.. i dont know how to tell him
PLEASE HELP ME !
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Even though he's terrible, let him dream on! haha! He will soon probablly realize that he isn't very good, and its a dream more likely not to come true!
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I'm not a sloppy eater- it's just I drop stuff a lot. I have this dinner at our country club and it's very formal. I'm wearing this pretty dress along with all the other girls going and the guys wear suits and stuff. So, is there any way that I can try to eat neatly so I won't get junk all over my dress or embaress myself? (link)
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HAHA....me too!!! LOL! Or atleast I used to...all I gotta say is eat very slowly..and sit closer to the table with a napkin in your lap. Plus eating slower causes you to fuller easier so you don't eat as much!
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