Okay, my boyfriend and I broke up about 2 weeks ago but when we started going back out again. The deal was that I had to give him time to do things he loves to do like basketball. I know I said I would give him the time but I want his time too, ya know? I thought he only meant like a couple hours after school 3 or 4 days a week but it's been every day, every week for at least 5 hours. I never get to talk to him anymore. We don't live close together either. We live 30 minutes away so when my parents are willing to take me over there, we used to both jump at the offer. He rarely gets a ride to my house because his family is in a tight financial situation. The only day that I ever get to see him is on Sunday for sure. Sometimes I see him on Saturday but not a lot. I love him sooo much but I'm just not sure if he has the time for me or if he still loves me?? I want him to be happy and have time to himself but I mean, I want him to spend time with me too since I never really get to see him. All I want is an hour or two every once in a while. Is that really too much to ask? Does he still have enough time for me and does he still love me?
orphans answered Tuesday April 19 2005, 7:15 pm: I think he still loves you and all but i he needs to spend just a lil more time w/ you...
and this is how you get him to! ok you ask your folks if they can take you over there and if they say yeah then you call him and ask him if its alright and if he says yeah then when you get over there then find something to watch on T.V. together and sit on the couch and watch a long movie, or listen to music.
karenR answered Tuesday April 19 2005, 12:33 am: No it's not to much to ask...but he's 15. 15 doesn't always equal someone who has mature relationships. You'll either have to put up with it quietly or find a new guy who isn't into sports. sorry. :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
suzbird answered Monday April 18 2005, 7:09 pm: Alright you are both young and the prospect of love might seem like it is everything in the world... but it is not. You need to talk to him. Maybe break it off unitl summer, when you might be able to spend more time together. You have a life outside of him, as he does outside of you. Just relax.. [ suzbird's advice column | Ask suzbird A Question ]
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