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I like this guy and we are already friends. I don't have many classes with him but I sit right behind him in the one class we do have. He always turns aroud at me and tries to make me laugh. I told one of my friends who hasn't told anyone. He's really cute but i don't want to tell him. It might ruin our friendship and i don't want anything like that to happen. I just really like him. Help, i'll rate low if you tell me to tell him because that won't get me anywhere
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i have the same problem and they haven't answered me yet i'll relay the answer to you when i recieve it thanx bye
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advicehotti21
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Well, umm i read in a YM magazine that you should just like slip it in there. Be talking about something and just say "I like you." It can be after he makes a joke and while ur laughing. Now, this is what it said, but I've never tried it. So MY advice is to wait it out until you think he might be interested. I guess "flirt" with him and maybe he'll get the message. Good Luck!
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hey--> this happened tO me befOre, nd i never like it when i dO fall fOr a realli gOOd friend, i think yOo shOuld stay friends nOw, nd just wait.. maybe have a cOuple peOple yOo can trust talk tO him. nOt telling him yOo like him but asking him if he ever thOught Of yOo twO being mOre than friends. . nd depending On what happens.. maybe he will end up asking yOo Out.. gOOd luck! i hOpe it turns Out gOOd!!
xO` cOlleen .
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Can your friend find out it he fancies anyone at the moment? The best thing to do is to hang around more and try and incluse him in the things that you are doing - not just the two of you -like you and your friends and him and his. Is there a party you can organise or something? By becoming better friends with him you will find out more about eachother, become more relaxed around eachother and then you will find out if you truly like him and want to be with him, and by being with him you will probably be able to guess if he is feeling the same way through what he says to you, body language etc! Good Luck!
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tell him you want to bang him.
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If your not gonna tell him keep flirting!
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maybe u should just try to stop likeing him. I know what you are thinking i can't or what the hell?? but the same thing happened to me. there was this one guy that was like my best friend sincelike 2nd grade and i started to like him alot and i was so scared to tell him. but i got the strenght and i told him and it turned out that he was thinking the same thing and now we have been dateing for 4 years and it is going great. so just try it but u don't have to>
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dont tell him. if you think it will ruin your friendship then say nothing. you either tell him or you dont. you already told us you wont, so your question was pointless. if being his friend means hlding your feelings in, and it means that much to you, to just be at least his friend. then say absolutely nothing. BUT you'll never know what could happen between the two of you if you dont try and make an effort. if hes really your friend, and hes worthy of your friendship, he'll still be your friend even if he finds out you like him. PLUS if he finds out and it does mess things up it will only be because hes akward, because you like him. so all youll have to do is act sad for a few days then pretend to have found someone else you like. he'll then see that youve moved on and things wont be akward anymore. You dont exactly get your guy, but you dont lose him either.
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heyy .. in a situation like this there are too things you could do:
1. send him signals like eye contact or just simply smiling and then he may get the hint
2. tell one of your friends to tell him that you think he is cute and then he will ask you if it is true nad then you can just say yes and you didnt have to tell him your friend did it for you
i dont know what one you wanna do or if your even going to do one
i hope i helped
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Okay, so talking in class is a good start... but a real friendship (or any sort of relationship) isn't going to happen until you take it beyond school. Do you ever see him in the halls? Do you know where his locker is? Do you have the same lunch? Try to make a point of talking to him (or at least smiling and saying hi to start) outside of class.
You could also ask for his phone number or sn as a way to talk to him outside of school.
Do you know any of his friends? Getting to know them might be a good idea- being friends with his friends is a great way to get closer to him.
Now I know most of this is the same sort of tips you might expect for just forming a friendship... and they are. I'm a big believer in the "friends first" theory- in my opinion, pursuing a relationship the same way you would a friendship, instead of just jumping in with the awkward "I like you, will you be my boyfriend/girlfriend?" is much more likely to work. Good luck!
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hey! i'm in the same situation as you are...i havn't told him and i don't you should either well not yet atleast...you should keep flirting with him and talk to him more and see what happens...xoxo!
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Flirt with him and hint to him that you do like him. Wait for him to tell you that he likes you first! GOod luck.
-Brianna
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maybe you should just take a little more time and make him like u and then maybe he will ask you out...and then it will all be great! hope it workes out! =)
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