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my name is cOlleen. im 13. nd i lOve spOrts.. i lOve tO listen tO peOple`s prOblems sO lemme knO ure's nd i`ll try tO help yOu! xOx`
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Can i simply have a yes or no answer to this question:
My brother used to put his hands down the back of my trousers and grab my butt and stuff like that, i told him to stop but he wouldnt. is this abuse?
it`s not abuse, but it is sexual harrasment. tell a parent asap. good luck. hope i helped.
hi my name is jess ive been going out with my boyfriend for days so far. But today when i was at my friends house a kid in her neighborhood said he was going out with this other girl to. How can i find out with out hurting our relationship if hes cheatin on me.
Ps. he does have a history of cheating when he was going out with my friends.
luv jess
heyy. i would ask a couple of his friends nd a couple of ure friends to talk to him nd see what's goin on. if they tell you that he is, go up to him and ask him. tell him that you heard he was cheating on you, nd ask if it's true. it may be difficult to go up to him nd ask him but relationships take honesty. so good luck. nd i hope i helped.
f/14
I like this guy and we are already friends. I don't have many classes with him but I sit right behind him in the one class we do have. He always turns aroud at me and tries to make me laugh. I told one of my friends who hasn't told anyone. He's really cute but i don't want to tell him. It might ruin our friendship and i don't want anything like that to happen. I just really like him. Help, i'll rate low if you tell me to tell him because that won't get me anywhere
hey--> this happened tO me befOre, nd i never like it when i dO fall fOr a realli gOOd friend, i think yOo shOuld stay friends nOw, nd just wait.. maybe have a cOuple peOple yOo can trust talk tO him. nOt telling him yOo like him but asking him if he ever thOught Of yOo twO being mOre than friends. . nd depending On what happens.. maybe he will end up asking yOo Out.. gOOd luck! i hOpe it turns Out gOOd!!
xO` cOlleen .
Hi everyone, I'm 14/f and I was j/w if it would be bad if I eventually went out with a 19 year old guy. I'm going to be 15 in May. I've been talking to this guy for a year now. He seems really really sweet, but we haven't met yet. I just feel like I'm starting to like him now. We were going to go see a movie one time, but we didn't end up going because it was really late. I decided not to go. He always used to say I'm too young and everything, so he was afraid to meet me, but then all of a sudden that one time he was going to go somewhere with me. He doesn't seem to care about my age all that much now. I'm not sure if he likes me or not, but I'm just saying if we met and everything, would it be wrong for me to be going out with a 19 year old? In my opinion, it's not that bad. I know we could both get in trouble, but he's really sweet. I've talked to a lot of people that I don't know on the internet, and he doesn't seem like one of those guys that only cares about sex. He never tries to talk about it with me like other gross guys do. I was also wondering how I could maybe hint to him when I'm talking to him on the internet again that I like him. I'll probably be talking to him tomorrow night. If we ever met also, what are some suggestions as to where we could meet and hang out since it'll be the first time. If anyone can, please answer! I just want a few suggestions. I'm soo very sorry that this question is so long. And I also know that you'll probably tell me it's a big age difference, but age shouldn't matter if you really like someone right? You could always keep the relationship a secret, and not do anything illegal with that person until your old enough and you know you won't get in trouble. If your nice when you answer, and you give good advice I'll rate you a 5!!!! Thank you so much again, and sorry about the length. :-)
sOrry hun, but that's illegal. yOu bOth can get in alOt Of trOuble. yOu dOnt even knO him. but yes, yOu can still talk tO each Other but try just being friends. yOu can never have tOO many friends. and plus One that is Older, is mOre experienced & has delt with mOre prOblems than yOu. sO yOu shOuld be able tO gO him fOr help.
hOpefully i helped,
_ cOlleen *
I have only been in one relationship before, and that was with a guy who was completely clueless about everything. That relationship really didn't last long.
But now there's another guy on the scene, and I am aware that he is a little more experienced.
I am very self-concious, I am not happy with my lower body (from the hips down really), and I'm not sure how comfortable I would be doing things with this guy. I really really like him, but I have never done anything beyond kissing before and I think this guy would want more.
What should I do? The relationship is in its early stages and I have made it clear that I want to wait, but for the time being it would be nice to have an idea of what I should do.
There is also the problem of me not knowing WHAT to do, which also contributes to the problem.
All advice welcomed.
i had this prOblem befOre. same exact thing. i had a bOyfriend that was twO years Older then i was. just make sure yOu talk tO him abOut hOw yOu feel. talking wOrks. make sure yOu tell him that the reasOn isnt him yOur just nOt readii yet. what dO yOu mean nOt knOwing what tO dO. my b/f helped me with that One tOO. ask him abOut things. im shure he will be glad er happy tO talk tO yOu and help. tell me hOw things end up nd if yOu need anything else write back.
hOpefully i helped yOu sOme what,
- cOlleen *
today im goin to watch a movie with my boyfriend and some friends. i want to wear a thong with the pants in wearing but im afraid that the pants might slip and show my it while im sitting there. im not a slut so i dont want him or anyone else to see it. i dont know if they would tell me if they saw it since most of them dont even know i have any. any pointers?
Ok.. this happened tO me befOre, nd my bOyfriend wants me tO wear a thOng thO tOmOrrOw when we gOt Out.. wearing a thOng dOesnt mean yOur a slut. if they dO happen tO see it & they start acting different ask them whats gOing On. if they dO tell yOu they saw it- just laugh it Off dOnt be embarrassed. it happens tO many girls. well gOOd luck, hOpe i helped,
_ cOlleen *
I am not overweight, but I have a problem in that my thighs and ass are quite flabby and I would like to tone up. I feel very self-concious in swim suits so I would like some exercises to tone up or help lose weight ready for the summer.
Suggestions not involving cosmetic surgery would help!
14/f
i suggest that yOu dO sit ups, (chrunchies), run/ jOg, run up & dOwn yOur stairs at hOme. alsO watch what yOu eat..
hOpefully i helped, lemme knO hOw it gOes
_ cOlleen *
The boys at my school always make fun of me b/c i masterbate with a stuffed animal. and i always say it feels good and that the should try but they always make fun of me and say that my PENIS is really small but they have never seen it. Should Stop masterbating or should i keep doing it. Thanx a whole lot
Kevin H.
7th grade
Mcgugan JR. High
dOnt listen tO what Others think.. if yOu think what yOu are dOing is fine Or yOu like it then keep dOing it. dOnt let Others pressure yOu intO dOin sOmething yOu dOnt want tO Or tO stOp yOu frOm what yOu want tO dO as lOng as it is right.
hOpefully i helped, lemme knO hOw it gOes.
_ cOlleen *
Hi im vanessa. im 14 years old and i am in 8th grade in ohio. My qwestion is that i dont really have any frends in my school. school will be over in 3 monthes so im kinda happy. all my friends go to the other school acadamies so i see them on the weekends. i dread going to school without friends. sicne the year is almost over should i just try to get through it? i will be seeing my other friends from the other school in my secondary school (highschool) so i am excited. Help?
yOu shOuld talk tO peOple frOm yOur schOOl nOw.. get tO knOw them & let them get tO knOw yOu. then they will see whO yOu are and what yOu are like. dOnt try tO impress them Or anything. be yOurself. then they can see the real yOu and maybe they will start hanging Out with yOu at schOOl. nd see what happens frOm there.
hOpefully i helped,
-xO cOlleen *