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It is important to have goals in life. One of my goals is to help others. I love listening to people as they pour their heart out. I love even more when I am able to help them and they truly appreciate it. Seeing a smile on someone else is a greater joy to me, than smiling myself.

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My friend has a disease called fits/fhits. Does anyone know anything about it or can talk to me or explain anything because I cant find any information.

I knew someone that had it when they were younger.
You spell it like this, fifth disease, and it can be serious, but most of the time is isn't.
It is pretty much a rash that is formed on your face, "trunk", and arms and legs. Don't jump to conclusions about the exact diagnose for your friend until to speak to them. For your own general information, there is a great site,

http://www.cdc.gov/ncidod/diseases/parvovirus/B19.htm
I hope that your friend is okay. I also hope that this helped your situation.
If you have any other questions, let me know and I'll try to help!
~Bluentriste

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k.. there's this new girl at our school named jackie.. i introduced her to all my friends.. including one named kaci. kaci's been trying so hard to make her jackie's best friend or whatever.. but anyway.. kaci says she tells me everything.. and she will always tell me anything that's bothering her.. well jackie was over at my house today and kaci called her.

you see. . kaci went out with my best friend's boyfriend like a year ago.. we all think kaci still lieks him but yea.. eric (ex) has a rep on being disloyal.. he called kaci telling her to come over anytime and he's sure his mom won't mind.. kaci goes "jackie, don't tell jami (me) or i'm gonna be mad at you".. i feel like i have to tell my best friend but i don't want jackie mad at me and kaci mad at jackie.. what am i supposed to do? help!!! sorry if it's confusing.. but i'll rate for anything

You should definetly ask Jackie if she has ever been lied to, and she will most likely say yes, then tell her that you feel that not telling your best friend would be like a lie to someone very important to you. As long as you ask Jackie about it first, you should be in the clear. And by the sounds of it, Kaci doesn't seem too nice...Keep me posted on the outcome! Good Luck!!!
~Bluentriste

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Needless to say, I'm the beast. I'm in love with this great girl (a whole long story) but she's absolutely beautiful. When I first met her, she was a loner as I was, and we connected intellectually. Now, she's a lot more popular, and is hanging out with people just as beautiful as her. She's kinda forgotten about me. I know that looks aren't everything but it is important. I'm trying to improve myself (6' 3" - was 280lbs (used to play football) and now down to 240 lbs.) I can keep losing weight but I have other defects that would require major surgery- I have a huge underbite which to fix they would have to break my upper and lower jaw to re-align it, which means taking bone out of my hip - side effects may include loss of sensation to my lips, tingling down my leg permanent- and not to mention a long time to heal). Also, I had a bad skin infection when I went abroad for a year which left my face scarred and pitted (another surgical procedure to maybe fix). So my question- how far would you go to be more acceptable to the person you love? Thanks for your help >

Don’t refer to yourself as “the phantom” it puts doubt in your mind that you can be loved. As far as the surgery goes, you need to do what you feel is right. If you want the surgery, then go for it. If you are just doing this for one girl, then I wouldn’t recommend you doing that. Honestly you shouldn’t be worrying about all these ‘imperfections’ you will find someone that looks completely past everything you think is wrong. Losing weight is a good idea because of health purposes, but if you are doing this for someone else that needs to change. You should be focusing on your own choices in life. And don’t forget… “There are more fish in the sea!” I hope that you are able to see the true beauty lies within… Good luck with everything and anything that you choose to do.
~Bluentriste

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Ok, My computer has Windows XP on it and I just started useing the computer i'm on now and well the problem I cant figure out how to fix is..Everything on my computer is Huge and I was wondering how do I make them smaller I know theres a way I just dont know how to do it, if anyone can help me with this then I will Rate HIgh!! Thanks!

Okay, what you have to do it go to your desktop (lower all of your browsers) then right click on the mouse and select properties. Then go to the tab up on top that says settings and click on it. Where it says Screen resolution is a “slide” move the pointer to the left to make it bigger, and to the right to make it smaller. Then click apply and continue on. Let me know if this helped you, and if any additional help is needed just ask away!
Good Luck!
~Bluentriste

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How young do you think is too young to be having sex? And whats the youngest person you actually know who has had sex and how did they get treated?

The answer to this question is very simple…everyone should do what is in their hearts. But, you should know that there are repercussions to every action you make. Some people wait until they are married, and some have sex really young. I know someone that had sex when they were 14 and they were happy…for the time being. Now they regret what they have done, and they are 17! For years they have regretted having sex with someone that wasn’t their ‘true love’ possibly just their ‘first love.’ No one treated her badly except for herself, she was a mess. I think that the appropriate age depends on the person and how mature mentally they are to take on such a huge step. Ultimately, it is your own decision, but consequences are applied to every action! Think wisely…
Hope this helped…

Bluentriste

P.S. what ever you do, don’t be pressured into it, either way…

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OK-- I have a few midterms coming up. I already did one (English) and that's out of the way. I'll specifically focus on SS- since that's the next one to come up. Well, Im really nervous on how my grade will turn out on my Midterm. What are good study tips that will help me be prepared? What are ways to make myself crack down and actually study?? How can I make myself go in feeling confident?? There is a website that the teacher made with several 'midterm' quizzes, and I use that sometimes but it doesn't always help.

P.S. I really don't care for the teacher!!
Thank You!!

Okay, first of all, breathe in, and out...
The best way for you to walk in confident is to think positively. If you don't care for the teacher, then channel that ‘negative’ energy into 'positive' energy. For example, think of the teacher’s face when then see that you aced the test! You also should be getting a good night sleep, it might sound like something that your parents would tell you, but it is true. Your body needs a full nights rest (if you are a teen about 8 hours a night) to recharge its battery. Also, DO NOT cram all of your studying into one night, study everyday but not like five hours at a time. And finally, pace yourself during the exam, just relax and tell yourself you will do fine, and you most likely will. It is all up to self-assurance and preservation within your mind. Do good, and hope that these tips helped!

~bluentriste

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