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Question Posted Tuesday January 25 2005, 10:39 pm

k.. there's this new girl at our school named jackie.. i introduced her to all my friends.. including one named kaci. kaci's been trying so hard to make her jackie's best friend or whatever.. but anyway.. kaci says she tells me everything.. and she will always tell me anything that's bothering her.. well jackie was over at my house today and kaci called her.

you see. . kaci went out with my best friend's boyfriend like a year ago.. we all think kaci still lieks him but yea.. eric (ex) has a rep on being disloyal.. he called kaci telling her to come over anytime and he's sure his mom won't mind.. kaci goes "jackie, don't tell jami (me) or i'm gonna be mad at you".. i feel like i have to tell my best friend but i don't want jackie mad at me and kaci mad at jackie.. what am i supposed to do? help!!! sorry if it's confusing.. but i'll rate for anything


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TheTeenGirl answered Wednesday January 26 2005, 5:41 am:
Kaci said she would tell you anything, and will always. She betrayed you, so I think its safe to tell your best friend. And as for Jackie, you should warn her that you're going to tell her, because you don't like the fact that Kaci would do this to you, plus, she told you something Kaci told her not to tell you, (I hope I've got the story right, lol) so I think you can do the same. Plus, its not like you're doing this for entertainment gossip, its for your best friend. So tell Jackie that telling your best friend is omething you'd feel better about and if you're that afraid about Kaci being upset with Jackie, just both of you get together and tell Kaci, that you overheard what she said or heard it from Eric. I really hope I got this right, lol. If I don't, I'm sorry.

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lildiamyn_69 answered Tuesday January 25 2005, 11:02 pm:
you are in a jam. sorry if ANY of this sounds rude, but if you and your best friend(who you wanna tell) are really good friends and you trust her, then i believe you should tell her because it sounds like kaci likes to hide things. But just make sure no one gets hurt.
hope it works out!

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Bluentriste answered Tuesday January 25 2005, 10:47 pm:
You should definetly ask Jackie if she has ever been lied to, and she will most likely say yes, then tell her that you feel that not telling your best friend would be like a lie to someone very important to you. As long as you ask Jackie about it first, you should be in the clear. And by the sounds of it, Kaci doesn't seem too nice...Keep me posted on the outcome! Good Luck!!!
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