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confusing!!!
ok, here's the story: i liked this guy (let's call him Bob) and my friend likes (or liked) this other guy (let's call him Bill). well, we told each other during spring break about who we liked. and we promised not to tell. and neither of us did.
But now i don't like Bob and i think she still likes Bill, because it's really obvious (she flirts with him and stuff), but now that i say i don't like Bob, she acts like she doens't like Bill and if i tell her it's really obvious, she threatens to say that i still like Bob to one of the school's blabbermouths.
i know she still likes Bill and i'm getting sick of agreeing that she doesn't like him.
(by the way, we're only in junior high)
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Just let her flirt! It's fun! She might be to embarassed to say she likes him now since you don't like anyone. Don't tell her it obvious...it will piss her off more. She's a girl...in middle school...shes GONNA flirt a lot! And if she does threaten to tell ppl say if I haven't told anyone bout you ever liking "Bill" so why tell ppl I ever liked "Bob". Besides they wouldn't even care!
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well listen there are better things in life to argue about. just try not to bring up her liking bill or you not liking bob. if it comes up change the subject. if one of the blabbermouths find out i hope bob is hot.
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What a friend you have blackmailing you. Even though you know you know she likes Bill and she says she doesn't just let it go. It's obvious that she does. Don't let it ruin your friendship!
-Brianna
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YOU LIKE BOB!!! AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHA.
too funny. I heard he smells.
*Trisha
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Just start changing the subject when she tell's you she doesn't like Bill. I don't know why she finds it so important but she must, so just ignore the subject for now. :)
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Just try not to bring it up, because she's clearly defensive about it. Maybe she's embarrassed about you knowing who she likes when she has no idea who you like now. You can occassionally make a joke about it, or just let her know that you really don't care about who she likes and stuff, and just have her know that she can trust you and you won't go blabbing about her liking Bill.
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let her pretend not to like him and wait until she admits she likes him still, or likes him "again"
or tell her its ok if she does like him....thats ok.......
hope i helped!
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dont chnage your mind about whether she likes bill or not and just tell everyone before she does that you dont like bob and then you tell the girl that she can tell anyone she wants and then everyone will believe you and not her
hope i helped
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This is VERY typical of a junior high friendship. She doesn't want to feel "left out".
This friend sounds like she definately does still like Bill, even if you don't like Bob. Tell her that she shouldn't threaten you because that is not what a BFF should do. If she is persistent about telling you she doesn't like Bill, then just learn to ignore it. It is her fault for not admiting to it.
~oxkatekaylaxo
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