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I dont know what to do. My dad lives in Georgia, and I live in Mass., with my mom. Ive been thinking about how much i miss my dad, and how i want to live with him. But, I dont want to leave my mom and my friends here. How should i bring this up, and what should i do?! PLEASE HELP ME!
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Spend some time at home some time with your dad, Tell your mum that you miss spending time with him, and she should understand and then you can work out some sort of plan to help you see your mum and dad on the same amouth of time.
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Summer is coming up. Why don't you go for a nice long visit and see weather or not you can live without your life in Mass.? Good way to find out and not permenant! :)
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maybe you could explain to your mom that you really miss him. Ask if over the summer or when you have off if you could visit him for a hwile or even all summer. That way you wont be leaving your friends for good, but you can spend time with your dad..
..also if your father has no family or very important job where he is you can talk to him and see maybe he can move closer to you so you can see him on weekends or more often...but the first adivce probably will work as opposed to this one will be harded to "pull off"
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Why don't you try a trial visit? See if you can arrange a one to two week visit between your mom and your dad; you don't necessarily have to live with him, just visit him once in a while. Technology today has made it much easier to contact our loved ones, so during those times you can't see your dad (or your mom if you decide to move) you can always call, email, or write.
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Before taking the extream and completely move, why don't you take an extended visit. Maybe spend the summer with your dad.
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You could go down to your dad on Spring Break and summer. Just ask your mom, and she'll probably agree. You can even ask if you can drive (( if you're old enouhg))
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ask your mother if you can visit your dad and take a flight to see him for a week or two
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since all your friends and mom live in mass. i think you should stay there and just visit your dad when you have vacations off from school. if you move with your dad eventually tou will just begin to miss everyone back in mass. if visiting is not enought maybe talk to your dad about him moving to mass. explain to him how much you miss him. and how much it sucks to be so far away.
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Well, you are most definately in a predicament. My parents are divorced too, so i know how you feel. Luckily, my parents both live in Mass, so its not a big issue. That decision has to come from you. You can't ask someone else to make it for you, or you won't be truely happy. Why don't suggest taking a trip during the summer to visit your dad, that way, you will have an easier time choosing and get to see yboth of your parents. During the school year, write or call him often, so that you still talk to him. Or maybe you can just live with your dad during the summer if you decide you like it there! Let the decision come from your heart. Let me know how it turns out!
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