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Okay, so one of my friends is having a B-Day party on Friday. She's inviting a bunch of people. She claims that she is my BFF, and she loves me as a friend so much. The problem is that whenever i go to her parties, she ignores me and hangs around with her other friends, and NEVER talks to me. Should i go ?
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Real friends don't act differently in front of other people, but talk to her before you make any assumptions. Tell her that if she's not even going to bother talking to you, then you don't see the reason of going if it's her birthday party, and you're there for her. Tell her everything you feel. You could also talk to your other friends if they're at the party also, and try to keep yourself busy.
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hang out with other friends....she probably doesnt do it on purpose so dont take it personally.
hope i helped(and have fun!)
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Yeah dont let her ruin the fun..talk to the other people there..become the life of the party..then if she comes to hang out with you..brush her off a little..show her how it feels...i wouldnt be too harsh because its kind of messed up on her bday party, but i would go and still have a good time.
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GO AND HANG OUT WITH THE NERDS!!!!!
NERDS WILL RULE THE WORLD!!!
until then, lets party it up, I'll buy the beer?
*Trisha
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I think that you should go still. When you go to the party, just kind of hang around everyone, not just one person. Also tell her that you are feeling left out if you are still feeling like that...i think that she will understand. hope i helped...
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You should still go. Just make more of an effort to talk to her. Get involved with other groups of people that she might hang out with. Maybe you could even talk to her beforehand. Tell her you tend to feel a bit left out at her parties. That way, you two can have an honest talk about what's going to happen. Good luck! ♥ Kristen
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When you guys are alone before the party, say, "hey, I really liked to be called your best friend, but I don't feel like I am at your parties, I really want to hang out with you and your other friends, if I'm really not your best friend, just tell me, because I at least want to be treated like a best friend." Talk to her basically, don't wait until the party comes and not go without explaination, at least tell her you aren't going to the party if this happens again during thevparty, but also, you could try hanging out with other people, maybe theres a lot of people to hang out with that she can't do it all at once, I'm not sure, but leave the party if you just don't feel ok.
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Yea you shold go. If she ignores you then you can just talk to other people there. She will come back to you or just tell her to stop. If I was you I would tell someone beacuse I wouldnt really care. Just tell her to stop because thats mean. x0
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First, See what happens when you get there if she ignores you then go talk to someother people and hang out with them. Then after there party as her why she always ignores you and never talks or stands with you.
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Sure you should. You and her know you are best friends. Knowing that, she gives attention to those who she doesn't hang around with often.Probably thinking that you understand this. Tell her how you feel, but don't make a big issue of it. She can't ignore the others who came to the party. Help her out keeping them entertained, it's a big job.:)
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yea you should go.. even if she does ignore you who cares.. talk to other people, you dont have to have her attention to have a good time
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go and hang out with other people dont let her bother and if things get bad just leave
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tell your friend how you feel. She shouldn't dump you for her other friends. If she still ignores you or doesn't accept what you are feeling, then ask yourself, is she a true friend?
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I go through the same thing with my friends. She probably values your friendship a lot, but she doesn't want to be with you ALL the time, she wants to socialize with others, since you guys aer probably together a lot. But she also needs to know that you feel neglected, so maybe casually bring it up sometime.
As for the party, I say you go. It's her birthday, and I'm sure she'll really appreciate having her best friend there, even if she doesn't show it.
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I guess if you really want to go, and she CLAIMS! that she is your BFF , then you should go. If you're going a little topsy turvey with her, then you shouldn't. Maybe give her another day to straighten up her act. =P
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