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Q: my computer that i have saves everything that i look up on any search engine and i don;t know how 2 delete it. even if i delete the web history it doesn't go away and i tried right clicking sum of the stuff i looked up and it wouldnt delete. i really want to know how to do this because 1. i don't trust my brother and i think he goes onto my account and i look up girl stuff and weightloss and stuff and i dont' want him blabbing 2 my parents. and 2. my friends wanted me 2 find out for them. so thanks in advance.
if you have interent explorer
go to the top, it is the th icon, a clock with a counter clockwise green arrow. then choose each catergorie right click delete HOPE I HELPED!

Q: I love making up my own songs and singing them..the problem is, when i write them down, they look so retarded and then I forget the tune and everything screws up..my question is, how do you write lyrics that match with the tunes? I would love to be a singer one day but that won't happen because I'm asian, but whatever..um what are some tips for writing song lyrics and thinking of tunes? Thanks..I rate
Asian girls and guys can be singers....!

Q: hey well me n this guy started going out and he broke up with me cause I guess he just tstpped likeing me but we wer going out for like 3 weeks and I had liked him so much to the point where when it came to him asking me out.. I cared soo unbelivably much for him! after we broke up I still cared up for him and still do what can I do that will get him back or help me get over him because I am really heart brokenn.. and is this like weird?
a big bowl of ice cream
a bunch of chick flicks
a weekend with your girlies
and it will help....ALOT!

Q: 15/m ive been feeling really mean and nasty lately. it seems like i get upset over everything. one day, my friend even asked if we were still friends because she thought i wasnt being nice. im not sure what it could be. im taking my finals this week and its also the last chance ill get too see my friends until next year so maybe that could be it. please help. i hate being like this
one sucky word
s-t-r-e-s-s
youll be fine when soummer comes around

Q: Does anyone know a really good site to get MYSPACE layouts and if so will you please let me know of it? Thanks everyone!
on myspace! go to tom and make one
or if you dont wanna
try
www.soupfaerie.com

hope i helped!

Q: today my brother held my arm so tight i have a bruise, yesterday he hit me over the head with a phone, and the day before he repeaditly hit me with a key board. other times he punches and hits me, i tell my parents and they never do anything. yet when i do something to him i get in trouble immediatly. it isnt fair and it hurts me that he practically abuses me and that my parents dont care. what should i do?
tell a teacher, guidence counsler, etc...immely...obviously your parents think that you are A dramaticising(Spelling?)/ overreacting, or they think he really isnt....dont be mad

Hope he stops hurting you

Q: hey does anyone know where i can get some good jeans? but not like hundred dollar ones lol
try abercrombie or abercrombie and fitch, TILT from Pacsun, from american eagle, UHMM, hollister jeans....just to name a few~ also try Macy's junior department....they have Guess and DKNY and Tommy Girl...stuff like taht!

Q: I gave this girl perfectly good advice and I got a one!! Why are people so rediuclous??? Can people please be reasonalble for once??
people are out there to give bad advice...or annoy people..they think they are funny...like drphil### (dk the numbers) others too, just ignore them they are stupid

Q: Okay, On This latley i been hearing alot about "MYSPACE" What the heck is it???? Help im confused!!! Maybe teach me a easy way to do it too? THANKS!

-Xo-Thank-You!-oX-
Sry i didnt know what category to put this under..
ok myspace is a place for you to like have a blog.. i had one.. i highly suggest not getting one though. at first it is great....(you have to be 16 but everybody lies) but there is a lot of sketcy stuf and supposidly a gril in a town near me meet a guy on myspace and he raped her...our schoolk banned us from having htem..so i dont htink you should get it but its your call...hope i cleared it up


PS the TOM person is your first friend...he is the owner of the site so he is everybody's friend....if you go to his site, you can make cool backrounds and stuff!

Q: K, so theres these kids thta always calls me flat, my crush hears that. Ok so i bought this bathing suit thta has padding in it, should i waer it even tho thye will now theres ometihng in it not noticeable but the bathing suit just makes me look big


Thnakyou
And any helpful advice ill give a 5!
haha i am flat too. I have a Billabong suit that has LOADS of padding and i am going to leave it in, and if it bothers you that much, take it out/ get a bathing suit with removable pads so that you can take it out around them but put them in when your on vaca or something so you cam\n meet guys....OR you can get padded bras and after teh summer pretend you have grown...then the next summer you can wear those paded suits! hope i helped...send me feedback!

Q: is there anything wrong with a bi racial realationship
no if its love than nothing matters.

Q: 16/f
ummmm...like the subject says, i've never been kissed. and it gets to me. everytime i think about it, i get all depressed and start to think that i'm ugly and that no one will ever like me and i'll never be loved. how do i stop thinking about this?! i don't wanna feel like this anymore....

thx in advance
i rate high for good answers!
its ok...i know im only 14 but im still a makeout virgin...lol thats what some people call it...uhm..and i have had like 4 BF's.... try to get your miond off it...write poems! GO SHOPPING!! play sports! eat ice cream! do SOMETHING! volunteer!

Q: ive been talking to this kid for like 2 weeks now an di think i kinda like him i met him once and we hung all day and night and we had so much fun but he doesnt live in my town he lives like 10 minutes away and i dont think goign out with someone and/or liking someone from another town never works out what should i do? just forget about it or what?
Lisa! lol ok
i sent it to you via im but....
yea,,,go for it! youu never know!

Q: I was a cutter... im not anymore. I did it for about 2 months and finally my boyfriend got me to stop on my own. So, i made some pretty interesting designs when i cut myself... I cut in the middle of my forearm and i made shapes like hearts and stars and stuff and ive quit back in February. I wear a wristband now, but, my parents haven't found out that i used to cut myself. So, what my question is, is there a way i can get the scars to be not very visible for summer? Because i know that i will be swimming a lot and be real active... help is appreciated and im getting sick of wearing a wristband all the time...
ok its good you stopped cutting...CONGRATS!
lol ANYWAY!......hm. keep them out of the sun...they wont necissarily be ready this summer but just keep it out of the sun and put sunblock on it. i had surgery on my back and thats what my dr. said for my scars. OHH and buy Palmers Cocoa Butter Scar Serum.....its really good i think it is helping my scars heal....and it smells like chocolate MMM!
hope i helped and good luck!

Q: i have no idea what im going to do with her. do you have any ideas what we could do? also how am i supposed to get her in bed? i have only babysat once..and that was with my sister. im going to babysit from 7 to 11. what time do you think she should go to bed? i just really need some ideas on what we could do. and do you have any tips? also...how much do you think ill get payed for 4 hours?
she probably should go to bed around 8 or 830 but her mother/fatehr will probably tell you what time. You can also put on a movie, even though that is kind of "lazy" But sometimes the kids likes that. You can also play dolls, barbies, color, play dress up, things like that.Maybe give her a "makeover" like a fake one and play house and ;et her be the mommy or play work let her be the boss ansd boss you aroound but still keep in control
play dough always wroks,
board games....hope i help!

Q: ok...this question is not for people who will say dont give this guy a note for asking him out...ok...would making a question sheet like "would you go out with blahblah? _____" or something be...a bad idea? cuz i want to try that but will *he* get mad or something?? He doesn't get mad easily...:-p well, thats about it.

i rate high
i dont think he would get mad. Just keep in minde other ppl might see it.......try something creative to catch his eye..hey you never know~!

Q: I really like this guy that I'm friends with already. He was dating my friend, but she broke up with him and said she wouldn't care if I asked him out. So I did, but he said no. I was heartbroken! Should I still be friends with him even though he broke my heart?
try to still be friedns with him. at first he might ( or actually probably will) be either A) a jerk B) kinda weird or C) normal around you but hell get back to norm......guys are like that

Q: ok well i liked this boy for a really long time, and my friend told him i wanted to talk to him. Turns out he has a girlfriend but what got me was what he said. "I have a girlfriend now, but maybe when we break up." ok who says that? am i overreacting or something cause now i dont even wanna talk to him. Who thinks about when theyre gonna break up with the person they're with? does he think hes a pimp or something? ugh.. i jus wanna see someone elses view. thannks!
alot of people think about when they are going to break up.,..its just natural otherwise how would people break up? they would be together forever or just in the middle of a makeout go i htink we should break up...its better if you think about it...!

Q: I'm really bored, and sick of the websites I've been viewing. Does anyone know any cool websites that I can go to? Thanks! I rate 5's for helpful answers!
if you like shoes go to

WWW.zappos.com

they have great and cute shoes for ANY budget!

Q: wheres a good place to get cute cheap underwear [if u can list the styles they sell too thnx]
i got 4 thongs for 20 dollars at LaSenza there comfortable too!

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