I really like this guy that I'm friends with already. He was dating my friend, but she broke up with him and said she wouldn't care if I asked him out. So I did, but he said no. I was heartbroken! Should I still be friends with him even though he broke my heart?
karenR answered Wednesday June 1 2005, 8:03 pm: Sure! doesn't mean he doesn't still like you as a friend. Time does change things and he make like you as more in the future. For now just hang in there and set your sights on someone else. :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
xoxo*london answered Wednesday June 1 2005, 7:50 pm: yes! it's just a good thing that this did not ruin your friendship with this guy! watch out though and if it get's to be weird than just take a year or two off from being friends and try to pick it up after a while..who knows, maybe he'll realize that he really does like you! good luck!! :)
orphans answered Wednesday June 1 2005, 7:14 pm: i think you should stay friend with him because you never know why he said no. maybe he said no because he didnt want to complicate a wonderful friendship between you and him. just think about this what if you went out with him and then you broke up. then it would be hard to still be his friend while he goes out with other girls. also cosider this, maybe he thinks of you more as a sister than a girlfriend. just dont end a wonderful friendship over a little bump in the road [ orphans's advice column | Ask orphans A Question ]
xluvinux answered Wednesday June 1 2005, 7:10 pm: Yeah, you should still be friends with him! The closer you get to him, the better chance you have that he might start to like you as more than a friend. Give it time and get to know each other better. Don't give up on him yet! Only fate will tell if you end up together. Good luck with him!
SummerLovingXo answered Wednesday June 1 2005, 7:06 pm: try to still be friedns with him. at first he might ( or actually probably will) be either A) a jerk B) kinda weird or C) normal around you but hell get back to norm......guys are like that [ SummerLovingXo's advice column | Ask SummerLovingXo A Question ]
xGAWSHNESSx answered Wednesday June 1 2005, 6:57 pm: yea! that would be relly sad to lose a friendship over that! and who nos, maybe if yall hang out more he'll realize he has feeling for u as more than just friends...
hope ive helped in sum way plz rate me [ xGAWSHNESSx's advice column | Ask xGAWSHNESSx A Question ]
therocketsummer answered Wednesday June 1 2005, 6:44 pm: You should try and be friends with him even though he shattered your heart. Just because ya'll aren't boyfriend and girlfriend doesn't have to ruin ya'lls friendship. Try and make it work out from a friendship stand-point and then maybe try later on to work your way up to girlfriend. Who knows, maybe he thought y'all would ruin the friendship that you once had. Just because he broke your heart, doesn't mean you have to break his heart by not being friends over a decison he made. He obviously thought it was the right one, so try and stand by his side.
x0xdReAmEr answered Wednesday June 1 2005, 6:43 pm: YES! dont let a think like that get in the middle or way of your friendsship and you never know if you guys are friends and become close and closer he might go out wiht you! G00D LUCK X0X` [ x0xdReAmEr's advice column | Ask x0xdReAmEr A Question ]
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