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guys always use me and then dump me! i am sick of it, i can never have a real relatioship! they just like my looks! what should i do? its not like i give them any sometimes only
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whoa! geesh well don't go out with them then DUH! i mean if they are using you and you no it dump them or just don't go out with them... you dont always have to be going out with someone i mean wait 4 the rite guy and don't wear like short and tite clothes just dress normal...hope i helped
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umm.. drop a piano on urself? make urself less sexy.. dont wear slutty clothes all of those things can make a difference.. dont brush ur hair.. dont wear makeup.. eat greasy foods... then you will end up with someone who truly loves you... oh... and you may also be shallow.. has anyone who is not hot.. or good looking ever asked you out? coz those are the ones who love you for who you are!
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Ok im a guy and ya many guys are jerks. But thats not all guys. Maybe try getting to know a guy really well before going out with him. That way you will have a better understanding of what he wants. Or you could just askim out front what he wants out of a relationship. And tell him to be honest with you. Hope i helped good luck finding someone.
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Well, one thing you could do is play hard to get. If the guy really likes you for you, he'll wait the extra time. If he's only in for your looks, he'll give up and move onto someone who's easier. My best advice is don't be too easy, give these guys a chase!
JyNxiE
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Ok, hun, what you need to do is as soon as you get into a relationship, you have to explain to the guy if he's just with you for looks, you're not gonna give him anything. Of course, he could just lie, but what you have to do, is wait awhile before you do anything. It'll ensure that he really likes you, and not just for your looks. If he pressures you to do anything, don't do it, because he's after your looks. Dump him. Good luck! And don't worry, you'll find that someone!
Hope I helped!
~*Erin*~
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Well, my advice is don't go out with just any guy. Wait for one that you really know and that you know wouldn't use you and then dump you. Watch how he treats his family and close friends and how he talks about other girls, that's a good indication of who he really is... It's hard to find good guys out there, but I assure you that there will be someone out there who likes you only because of your dazzling greatness and not just your looks. You'll just have to wait to find him, which may take awhile, but he's there and he'll be worth it!!I'm still searching for mine too, so I know how you feel! The best of luck & God bless!! xoxo*Jesuschick
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not to be mean, but it seems like you are making yourself a lil bit too availible. if you talk to guys first to get to know them before you fully flirt with them, you might find someone who acually likes you for you!hope i helped!
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Wel they probably get what they want from cause you give it to em then they dump you.. or your not givin em wha they want and they get mad cause you did wit other people you might be rep'd as a hoe hunny....... and you goin out wit assholes it sounds like too sorry if was mean ~*DEZ*~
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If you are giving off the impression that youar easy try not to. Dont flirt as much. If you wear low cut shirts. DOnt as much. Just try to be more careful. Some guys are like that. But the ones that arent are hard to find so keep your eyes open! good luck! plz rate-trix
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