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Well, this is my first time asking a question on one of these things, but I'll give it a shot. Er, female, 13.
So, I've got a friend at school who's a guy, and I'm starting to think I might like him... Like, romantically, or however you'd put it. Anyways, I'm not really sure if he likes me back. At times I think he does, but then he turns around and just acts like his normal self. He's a really nice guy, but he's kinda defensive and doesn't tell a lot of people what he's feeling. I really like him, but I wouldn't want to wreck our friendship... Advice? (link)
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If you think he's worth it, tell him you like him. If he's your friend, things won't change if he doesn't too much. Just say "Okay, I have to tell you something and if you don't feel the same way it's okay, but I have to know" If he does, awesome!! If he doesn't, well it sucks, but just say "okay, well I had to tell you. But I don't want anything to change now." If you don't you'll probably end up regretting it. I'm speaking from personal experience. Okay well good luck!! and God bless! xo*Jesuschick
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im so depressed. im 13 and ive never had a bf! most of my friends have. i have golden blonde hair and crystal blue eyes. no guys like me at all. i really want a boyfriend. at this point all i want in a guy is a pulse. my friend, i personally think shes gorgeous(not in a lezboe way) she has a boyfriend i can understand that. what i cant uderstand is that my other friend, not appealling at all, yellow,crooked teeth,chubby. shes had like 3 in 2 years and guys are all over her! i dont get! please help! (link)
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You're thirteen!! You have plenty of time to find a guy as you get older. If you stop worrying about it so much and gain more self confidence, guys will find that totally attractive. You sound really nice and I'm sure the perfect guy is out there somewhere, you just haven't met him yet. Don't settle for just anyone, that could be bad. Just be patient and try to have fun while you're still young!! xxoxo*Jesuschick
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recently i had a cast on my leg because i broke a bone in my ankle. now i have a splint on my ankle and i look like a retard. I know people at school will make fun of me. What should i say back to them? (link)
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Tell them that if they don't leave you alone you will karate chop their ankles and then they'll all have splints too. Lol... but seriously... who cares what they say. You got hurt and this is the only way to heal, so just be thankful you still have a leg and they didn't have to amputate it or something. If other kids think it's retarded, oh well. Good luck and get better!! xoxoxo*Jesuschick
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2. I want my braces to not stand out so much (right now I have hot pink rubberbands) and I was thinking about getting either clear or white rubberbands. But I heard that the white rubberbands make your teeth look yellow. And I heard that the clear rubberbands turn the color of whatever food you eat. Is this true?? Does anybody have clear or white rubberbands that could give me some advice?? Help!! Thanks!! (link)
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Don't get clear, they will turn the color of what you eat after having them a bit, and yeah white will make your teeth stand out more. I've tried them both before. Your best bet is to get a light pastel color that won't get too stained or stick out too bad... maybe a light blue or purple? Good luck xoxoxo*Jesuschick
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I'm holding a handful of pills. I want to die so fucking badly but I'm afraid of destroying my family. They know i've tried to kill myself before*but endd up making myself just really sick* n havent let me see a shrink, i have absolutly no reason to be feelng this way. i had a fine day n now im looking at these things wondering what do to. i've taken a few, slowly. counting. but i jsut wanna fucking go but i dont wanna hurt people. i need to get the fuck out. can i run away for a bit w/o being arrested?
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Suicide isn't the answer. I know how it feels to just want to ditch your life, feeling like you don't really have a purpose and that you're being suffocated. It really is hard and I understand that but things change so quickly in this world, especially emotions. You could feel depressed for 6 months and the next thing you know you're happy again. At this age things are just so unpredictable. Please do not do this. You need a break, so just try to chill out and pray about this. Even if you don't believe in God, even if you think this is stupid. From the bottom of my heart I encourage you to ask Him to reveal Himself. If you are genuine and you truly are seeking, you will not be let down. What is the harm in trying? He is the only one that helps me get through my rough spells, and trust me, there have been more than a few. Good luck &God Bless xoxoxoxoxoxoxo*Jesuschick
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Recently, I've been acting so annoying. It's starting to irritate all my friends and my boyfriend and I aren't getting along because of it. I just moan, whine, repeat myself and act stupid all the time. I can't help it, I never used to be like that. How do I stop? (link)
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As for the moaning and whining, try to to help other people out. See what situations other people are in and a lot of times you start to see how much better your life is compared to others. As for everything else, you have to think about stuff before you say it and really just try to think of why you could be acting that way. If you can figure it out, you can try to fix the problem. Other than that you just have to stop acting this way. Plain and simple. Okay well good luck and God Bless xoxoxoxo*Jesuschick
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my nameis antionette and my boyfriend called me a bitch.I want to break up with him because i'm such a bitch to him.I love him so much but he called me a bitch and he thinks its so funny.What should I should I break up with or try to make the relationship last.I need your help!
antoinette
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Any guy who calls you that and is serious is not worth your time. If he was seriously just kidding then you need to let him know that it's never appropriate to be called that by him and that it upset you. If he really did mean it though, dump the jerk. He is a loser. Good luck and God bless...xoxo*Jesuschick
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theres a guyat school name mitch. A lot of people hate him. But when you get to know him he is really nice. He asked me out. what should i say? I need help!!!!!!! (link)
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If you like him, go for it!! If everyone else hates him who cares? They just haven't taken the time to get to know him like you have... good luck!! xoxo*Jesuschick
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ok well this is kind of embarassing(sp)but i have sweaty arm pits..even when im cold..i no i should see a doctor so i can get some med. but i dont want to tell my mom cause its embarassing(sp)should i tell her?im going on vacation in feb. and i dont want that problem to effect my good time because its going to be hot there..and in school people always ask why im always wearing a hoddie..and i dont want to tell them..but i want to tell my mom so it will stop but like i said it embarassing(sp)...please dont respond if your going to make fun of me
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Put baby powder and an antiperspirant on. That will probably help a little bit. And there is a really good deodorant called certain dri...try it!! Umm hope I helped, good luck and God Bless!!
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A couple weeks ago, I had a dream that my guy friend kissed me. I woke up not wanting it to stop and I was really mad that it was just a dream. I started to think that maybe I had feelings for him just a bit and when I saw him a few days after that I was acting all weird and shy. I dunno what I should do. I'm too scared to talk to him!
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You should just talk to him. Maybe tell him something like "Yeah I had this dream the other night, and..."explain the dream..."and I woke up and I was kinda like, oh dang." It's casual but let's him know how you feel. You sound like your crushing...and who knows.. maybe he is too!! Good luck xoxoxo*Jesuschick
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Im not so sure what topic this would be placed under but...
i recived a phone call 2 nights ago on my cell phone and this guy keeps calling hes tried to have phone sex over the phone with me but i refused and i dont no who he is but he says he nos everything about me he has told me my address and street city state number of siblings and so on.. and he called me again yesterday telling me if im shy again that he is going to f*** the hell out of me till i am dead and i dont no what to do he told me i better not tell anyone because he said he would make my death more pain full... could this be a prank? or serious... im confused and dont no what to do PLEASE HELP ME ASAP
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It's probably someone you know if they can tell you all that stuff about yourself but if I were you I'd talk to your parents and tell them what's going on. I know it's embarassing but they will have a better clue of what to do. Maybe you should also get your cell number changed. Make sure you at least talk to some adult about it because that is the kind of stuff that leads to getting out of hand. Good luck God bless xoxoxo*Jesuschick
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I found out yesterday that a good friend of mine was killed at a party. Someone had slipped ecstasy in her drink and then she was brutally raped while she was passed out. I feel like this is all my fault. The reason being is because I always went to parties with her and I would always tell her "Beck, don't drink at parties". She'd always yell at me and tell me that I acted like her mother. But I knew I was right, I don't trust the drinks that people hand out at parties. The guy that raped her was my ex-boyfriend. I still feel like this was all my fault because, had I been there, he wouldn't have done anything to her because he's afraid of me. I'm sure by now you're all probably thinking "This is a load of bull" but believe it. This actually happens to people. She was my best friend. I knew I should have gone with her to that party. I'm completely miserable right now. She was my best friend. I always figured that nothing like that could ever hit so close to home. I'd always see stories like this on the news and I'd think to myself "How could they be so stupid?" Or, "That would never happen where I live." But it has. I don't know how to handle this. My ex boyfriend was arrested and my friends family is waiting to go to court but in the time being, I don't know how to handle myself. I don't even have the courage to go to her funeral tomorrow. I need help getting through this. Please help me... Thank you for those who take this seriously. I would really also like a non-sarcastic answer because this is a touchy subject for me. Thank you.
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I am so sorry about your friend!! My best friend died a couple years back and I know how badly it hurts. I also blamed myslef, and the reality is that placing the blame on yourself is easier than admitting that this was out of your hands. But that is exactly what it was. Out of your hands. You can't blame yourself for something tragic that happened. It was random, unexpected, and totally horrible but NOT your fault. You warned her before. You were a good friend to her by just telling her that. Please get into grief counsleing, it was the only thing that worked for me. Not going to the funeral might be something you regret later. She would want you there, and no it isn't fun, but you should go. I didn't go to my friend's funeral and I really regret it. I'll be praying for you!! Good luck, God Bless, and this wasn't your fault!! xoxoxoxoxo*Jesuschick
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ok...for the last day of school, before break, i wore white pants...because they were white, i work a thong...im not a slut, so i dont let it hang out, and i usually wear a belt with my pants, but these were nice pants that i didnt need a belt for...well during lunch, i was walking up to my friend and my guy friend wanted to hug me from behind, but ended up steping on my pants adn everyone saw i was wearing a thong. he didnt pants me, but some people saw the string...i know its not bad to wear thongs, but that was a pretty embarassing situation, and i didnt want everyone knowing. tommorow i go back to school, and i dont want everyone laughing at me...what do i do? (link)
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Just brush it off... people probably won't even remember... just act like it's no big deal and go on like always. We all have embarassing moments! Good luck and God bless xoxo*Jesuschick
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Well i was on the computer and i met this guy and we talked for a while and now we are going out but i have not even seen him in person and we both know we are the one for eachother but will this work out not seeing eachother for a while??? and will it work if you talk everynite 2 eachother and stuff ????? NEED HELP FAST !!! THANX (link)
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I have a friend who thought her online boyfriend was perfect, and then met him and he was nothing like she ever wanted. This also isn't very safe; I mean how do you know he isn't some like 50 year old disgusting guy named Crusty? My advice is to end the relationship, because it will probably end up hurting you a lot, and no one wants that!! Good luck and God Bless xoxoxo*Jesuschick
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My dad is very protective of me and it seems i cant go anywhere specially with a boy.I am a female 13 teen year old and i dont go out with boys because i cant go out on a date or even meet them alone. I have a cruch on a boy i know but i am scared to ask him out becuase my dad wont let me date!? (link)
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I know how that goes, both of my parents were that way when I was thirteen, too. The only thing that worked for me was being so responsible that they had no reason not to trust me, I mean I kept my room spotless and kept my grades up and did things without them even asking me to. I also spent some time with my parents just talking... I mean if they feel like they know you then they're much more likely to trust you with boys because they know you're judgement is good. Once you do some of these things you could say something like, "Dad, I know you really love me and don't want to see anything bad happen to me, but I feel like sometimes you don't quite trust me with guys. I just wanna hang out with a friend, and not being able to is hurting me because I feel like you don't even trust your own daughter." Keep in mind he's not trying to be mean or anything. I know it gets frustrating but all those things sure worked for me!! I hope your dad will let up a little on the boyfriend thing! Good luck and God bless!! xoxo*Jesuschick
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guys always use me and then dump me! i am sick of it, i can never have a real relatioship! they just like my looks! what should i do? its not like i give them any sometimes only (link)
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Well, my advice is don't go out with just any guy. Wait for one that you really know and that you know wouldn't use you and then dump you. Watch how he treats his family and close friends and how he talks about other girls, that's a good indication of who he really is... It's hard to find good guys out there, but I assure you that there will be someone out there who likes you only because of your dazzling greatness and not just your looks. You'll just have to wait to find him, which may take awhile, but he's there and he'll be worth it!!I'm still searching for mine too, so I know how you feel! The best of luck & God bless!! xoxo*Jesuschick
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My best friend has OCD... and she reminds me of it like 24/7. Whenever she leaves the house she asks like over and over if she left sumthin on and such. I keep reminding her that OCD is just that she is detailed and stuff like that (my parents are both doctors and explained it). It's driving me NUTS! help! what do I do?
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Wow, that's a tough situation! Well, I'm sorry about your friend, I know OCD is hard to deal with for the person who has it, and the people around them. Basically, it isn't her fault, and it seems like you understand that and everything. So I guess you just have to be patient with her and support her because this is a tough time for her and she really needs a good friend when so many people are probably annoyed with her and walk away. Just let her know you're there for her, but if you start to feel like you're going to explode or something because you're annoyed or whatever, just take a break from her for a day or something. I can totally understand where you're coming from. Just remember she needs you!! Hope I helped, good luck, and God bless!! xoxo *Jesuschick
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What are the signs that let you know that you ARE ready to have sex for the first time? (link)
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When you're married. It probably wasn't the answer you wanted to hear, but it's true. I mean when your married, you know the other person is committed & not using you for sex & is really in love with you!! Respect your body and just wait... it's hard but totally worth it!! xoxo*Jesuschick
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ok what should you do when you have parents that buy themselves alot of things but nothing for you (link)
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That's your parents money, not yours. So they have a right to spend it the way they want to;after all they did work for it most likely. If you have your necessitites (and by this I don't mean the new Underoath CD or w/e kind of music you like; I mean clothes, food, shelter...etc.)then you shouldn't be upset. It would help if I knew how old you are, because if you're over 14 and your complaining about this then you need to grow up and get a job. My parents don't give me any money at all for extra spending and I get by just fine working at a local music store!!
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My friend is a religous Christian, and most of my friends hate him when he goes to into "prophet" mode. Lately they've been extra mean. They threw him out of the group, and swore if any of us talked to him we'd get out of the group. I'm still friends with him, and I talk to him. They havent found out but I'm planning on telling them cause they control my every choice.
But there's one draw back...How can I be friends with him, and like my best friend...(whos a guy)....how can I like a guy who trys to control me?? how can I still be friends with the christian even though I like my best friend? (link)
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I'm a Christian, and I know how your Christian friend probably feels. We just want to help people, and we're really trying not to preach and go into "prophet mode" as you say. Sometimes it's really hard not to though, because like I said we just want to help, especially our friends. You have to choose between your controlling friend and the Christian... Do you really want a friend who is controlling everything you do? It sounds like you need to either just lose your best friend, or tell him that you ARE going to be firends with the Christian but that doesn't mean he has to be. Tell him you're going to be friends with the Christian, but you wanna be firends with him too. If he can't accept that then he's a loser. Do what you know is right. Hope I helped!! xoxo*jesuschick
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