My dad is very protective of me and it seems i cant go anywhere specially with a boy.I am a female 13 teen year old and i dont go out with boys because i cant go out on a date or even meet them alone. I have a cruch on a boy i know but i am scared to ask him out becuase my dad wont let me date!?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Domesticity category? Maybe give some free advice about: Parenting? jesuschick answered Sunday January 2 2005, 8:21 pm: I know how that goes, both of my parents were that way when I was thirteen, too. The only thing that worked for me was being so responsible that they had no reason not to trust me, I mean I kept my room spotless and kept my grades up and did things without them even asking me to. I also spent some time with my parents just talking... I mean if they feel like they know you then they're much more likely to trust you with boys because they know you're judgement is good. Once you do some of these things you could say something like, "Dad, I know you really love me and don't want to see anything bad happen to me, but I feel like sometimes you don't quite trust me with guys. I just wanna hang out with a friend, and not being able to is hurting me because I feel like you don't even trust your own daughter." Keep in mind he's not trying to be mean or anything. I know it gets frustrating but all those things sure worked for me!! I hope your dad will let up a little on the boyfriend thing! Good luck and God bless!! xoxo*Jesuschick [ jesuschick's advice column | Ask jesuschick A Question ]
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