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ok so i always like a guy and i always want a bf and then i flirt to make them like me. then i go out with them and like 2 weeks into it or so i stop liking them and want 2 break up with them and after like a month+ i finally break up with them and then i realize taht i still like themand sometimes i go back out with them and sometimes i don't. but then as soon as i don;t have a bf i want 1 again. why do i do this? and how do i stop?
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you're desperate for attention. maybe you don't get enough from your parents or family so as a result need it from a guy.
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You want the idea of a boyfriend. you like the idea of someone that you can cuddle with, hold hands with, and all that good stuff. you probably also like flirting. I don't know how you stop doing that.
♥ Katie
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Look before you ask some one out MAKE SURE YOU REALLY LIKE THEM. that way there are no hassels. and if you dont really like them dont wait another 2 weeks to break up with him. just follow ur heart and you will be alright. -mike
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It sounds like you have a huge commitment problem. But don't worry, that's normal. What you need to do is just stop for awhile. When you start liking a guy, wait awhile before you ask him out, so you know you still like him after awhile. Once you're in a relationship, the friendship is gone, and maybe you only liked him as a friend. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
~*Erin*~
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Sounds like your a lonely person.. my friends are like that.. they never hold a relationship or anything.. but their different they blame the guy and make up something to break up wit em and say they loved so much but if they love em so much they wouldnt do that.. well i hope i helped.. i guess your not ready for a stable relationship and wanna see whats out there.. ~*DEZ*~
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You do this because it's the circle of relationships. I do it too! Every girl does it, except ugly ones. LOL. Well, it's perfectly normal to do what you do. All of my firneds do it and I do it too.
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decide not to have a boyfriend for a little while. use the time to work on figuring out a little bit more about yourself. you probably don't like the guys after you start going out with them because you never really liked them in the first place- you liked the idea of having a boyfriend. figure out what you want, and when you feel ready to have a boyfriend again, make sure you give it time. don't rush into things. people say that it never works if your friends first, but usually its the best way. that way you'll be sure you like them enough to have them as your boyfriend. you'll be moving a little bit slower than your used to, but in the end it'll be worth it.
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I used to be like that. Well actually Ive been taken for 8 months now.. So maybe it takes a few serious relationships for you to actually move past that stage. You are just flirtacious or whatever they call it! You'll pass that! Trust me! You are a mini me! :-P-trix (plz rate)
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you just get bored with relationships. it shows that you arent ready for a committment yet. it wont stop until you are ready to settle down with someone in your life. when a person you really really like and one that you are reaaly really into comes along, you will be ready to settle down with him for a while and your problem will go away. you will want to have a somewhat committed relationship with him.
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