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I'm Lacey and i'm 16 years old. Wat's up yall. I like taking long walks, swimming, and I am a big fan of the Longhorns. I still like other teams though. I'm a strong christian. I have blond hair, and my eyes change colors. I like sports and i play the clarinet. well peace to all of yall.








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Well this all started last February...
I met sumone on the internet last January..and she was going to the theater in February.
I thought it would be great to meet her. At the time she went with another boy...her other friends went too. From the moment I saw her that February...ive loved her....so much that i isolated myself for her...What I mean is that her friends liked me left and right...so many liked me at one time it was hard to choose...but I knew it would break her heart to see me going with one of her friends...I rejected all of them and isolated myself for that one person. I have loved her for so long...and I thought it would soon come true that we may love eachother truely..
But we've become sooo close of friends...that she is afraid if we go together that we may break up and lose everything...even our friendship.
Ive told her that i would do nething for her and i love her more than the white hot intensity of a million suns. And ive also told her that i will always love her...i told her this wen i first met her...and here i am...still single waiting on her...ive havent turned down my promise and i was told that i could not keep it...I knew i would keep it...and she is the only thing that i look forward to in my life...she is my everything...

Now im a boy 14 yrs. and i always see these things where there are boys who only has a chapter of love in their lives...but in a girls...its the whole book. Well its a whole vice versa feeling for me...i love her with all my heart and would do nething

I would even let her go with sumone else as long as shes happy...because its as far as i can go...but im trying my best to show my love for her.
I dont want to get over her...shes the love of my life...just tell me what you think i need to do because ive waiting for close to a year now for her...and i know that I think about her until one o' clock at night and wake up at 6:45 just to think about her...im this desperate for her.
She has given me soooo much and i have given her just as much she says...but she just cant get over this one person but he hurts her like shes his slave in life...and i cry for her
I wish it would stop and I kno if we went together right now...paradise will be spread throughout my life because she is all I think about. It may seem that im saying the same thing over and over but I know that if i tried...i could write a book about her..

Someone please help me and i will give you a five if you give me nething..
just please help me


Im desperate for her....and sorry this is sooo long!

If you truely love her and you know it, tell her how you feel. You should even ask her out if you want to. I bet she likes you, because I know your a special person. It takes time for girls to want to go out with guys. Pray, and ask the lord wat to do. Maybe he'll answer you. He answers all of my problems. I hope I helped.

Love, Lacey

Hey hun! im lacey's friend and i wanted to leave u some advice also! Wow, you are such a sweatheart! Well i think you should let her know how u feel about her! My boyfriend liked me for a long time before i ever knew he liked me, so let her know because she might not even know what you have done for her. Well good luck with her hun!
Love always! Ariel!!!!

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ok, this is probably the dumbest of all questions-but i play golf a lot, and there is one true weakness in my game-sand bunkers-how do you hit it out of them without it going too far or too short (im not talking about sand far away, i am talking about sand around the green)

I play golf to. This is not a dumb question, it's a good question. You have to use the tip of the golf club. That's the easyest way for me. I don't know about you though. If you have a teacher in golf, they should know the answer to this question. If they don't, then thy are in the wrong place. Hope i helped. Bye. Love, Lacey

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I really like this kid and i don't really know him that well but my friends have told him that i like him and stuff so he knows i have his screen name and everything but im too shy to talk to him about liking him or anyhtingg help

i rate 5's !!

Do you talk to him? If you don't, that can be a big turn off. Get to know him first before you just decide that you like him. Anyways, I hope i helped! Love, Lacey

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ok..i like this kid and his names Ryan. he lives in chicago and hes 14. i no him bc my dad and his dad r like best friends. i just saw him a few days ago and i REALLY like him! hes sooo cute and nice to me!! his bro and my sisters keep makin fun of us..i wanna no if he likes me and i want him to know that i like him. the thing is i dunno how to tell him or let him no...i was gonna tell his brother...but i dunno..we're gonna c them soon again b4 they go back to chicago...i dunno wat to do??? i no ur good at this kinda stuff so wat should i do???? help me !?!?

*ACH ((u no me))

Hi! Try just going up to him and telling him. You have nothing to be scared about. You must be a great person, and i'm sure he really likes you. If you like him, then you need to tell him face to face!



Hope i helped! Love, Lacey

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ok i am in alice in wonderland twisted and we have to do research on a specific scene. I have to do the flower scene and the flowers. But all i can find is information on the book. Which is good but i need more information on how they like relate to alice and stuff. Does anyone have any good ideas? please help! i rate highly!

If you search on google for that info, you're luckily able to find wat you're looking for! Hope i helped. Your Budd, Lacey

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i have had A TON of bad experiences with gys/men so i dont want to date and DEFINETLY DONT want to marry men are just so.............. disturbing and i want to change how i feel but i cant anyone know how i can change my reaction to gys??i rate sky hi


Okay, i guess you should focuse on your family or people who need atention.Try going to a nail spa, it relaxes you and you can hopefully put your whole attention on something else. My sis. is 21 and she tried that and it totally worked for her. I probably don't have the answer you want to here, but that's all i've got for ya. I hope i helped. And if the spa did'nt work, you should ask your mom wat to do. She probably knows alot more than i do. Well ask me questions anytime, and i'll be there for ya. Love, Lacey

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i went camping right. well i met this guy named kevin. we like made out and stuff and thats it. hes a virgin and all. i like him so much. i already feel like i love him. we spent a whole week jsut talking and getting to know eachother and a whole other week we got closer. then we both had to leave and go back to our hometowns. we live an hour away from eachother so it wouldnt workout. anyways were both going camping [ ironicly ] on the same exact days in july!! same place and everything. so i for sure get to see him again for another 2 weeks =] well anyways i just want to know..how can i like try to see him? hes an hour away and i cant drive yet. i can take drivers ed anytime now im just lazy. ughh its driving me crazy i dont know what to do. hes like so sweet and perfect. how could i make a long distance thing work? i like him so much =[

Okay, get his # and call him. My bf and i live an hour in an half away from eachother. Get as much info from him during camp as possible. Hope i helped. Love, Lacey

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what are some fun things to do with your boyfriend for a very small price? thanks

Go to the mall, hold hands, talk, or hang out one of yalls house. I don't know. There are plenty of things you can do without having to pay a penny. Hope i helped. Love, Lacey

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Today my boyfriend was kidding around saying that I (as in me) is going to start taking away kisses evreytime he swears (i always tell him not too) so i told him that i am taking them away, What is a cute tease of a kiss (just lips)!?!?? Like pulling away? Tehehe

%@#HSCHEER#@%

I have no clue. I've Never kissed a guy.

Hope i helped!

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How do you know if a guy likes you?

Also, what are some cute/ flirty ways to ask a guy out?

help! thanks! i will rate high!

You would just know! Don't ask guy's out, it turns them off. That's there job to do.Next time, don't use the word help, it seems desperite. Hope i helped. Love, Somebody!

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how do people get boyfriends? i cant get one.

First one to answer huh? Try just being yourself. That's wat i did to get my first bf. My cousin read this in a magazine and it said that you should make eye contact with the person you like.Make sure other people know you like the person, cause it will get around to him sooner or later. That should help i guess. You'll get one sooner or later, i promise. Okay? That's all i could think about, so i hope it solves your problem. There's a special person for a special someone. Love, Lacey

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hey well i got my period in the middle of march (it was my first one) and i still haven't got another one! is there anythin wrong with me? i know it usually takes a while, but does it take this long? plz help

when you start your period, it should last about 4 days and then leave. After about 27 days your period will come back. If it still seems not to come back after 27 days, you should contact a docter. I hope i helped you with yur problem.



Lovez, Lacey

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hi i have a huge problem i feel like everytime i make chicken sadnwhiches it gets soooooo soggey..is this because i am using too much dressing or is it my chicken!?PLEASE HELP ITS MY FAVORITE MEAL!!!

Try toasting your bread, and put a small portion of dressing on it. You could be putting to much meat on it. If you do it can get soggey sometimes. Maybe your not useing the right bread! Hope i helped!

Lovez,Lacey

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Other than crunches and running, do any of you have any tips or secrets that helped you lose a lot of weight around your waistline? Be specific - how long it took, how much you lost, etc. Thanks.

okay, I lost 10 pounds in a month doing this. get in a pushup position, lift any leg in the air and then pull it towards your face. do this about 10 times per leg and it's bound to help you. Hoped i helped.



Lovez, Lacey

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Well I'm single right now and have been for a few weeks. There really isn't anyone that I wanna talk to right now that I think could be a potential g/f, cause I just don't have that feeling about them. I've just been talking to my ex lately (who I still have feelings for), but it ain't exactly the same on the other side with her. I mean she likes me, but I don't think it's gonna be enough that she'll want to get back together, even if I did have the last thing that would complete her "perfect guy" list, and we've talked about all of this too. Anybody got any solutions to what I should do? There isn't anything I can really do to get back with her, it's all her decision.

okay, i've been saying this to alot of people lately, but if you like her so much, you should just be yourself. Don't try to be a person that your not. There iz no such thing as perfect, at least to me. Thing i call perfect iz when you are yourself! Well, I hoped i helped. If i did'nt, i'm really sorry!



Lovez, Lacey

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I told this guy how i felt and he said that he likes me also but just a little bit how do i get him to like me more? I mean like i understand that it will take time but i need some help i mean i REALLY REALLY REALLY LIKE this Guy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Plzz write back,
Torn in 2
.P.S.I Rate High

okay, if you really like this guy you should just be yourself. I did change for a guy once and it did me no good. He should like you for who you are and not by who you are'nt! I hope i helped. If you have any more questions, ask me and i'll be there for ya!


Lovez, lacey

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Well... Theres this girl i really really like..and i knw she likes me back..but she alrdy has a guy...what shud i do?

Okay, if she likes you then you should be happy. If she likes you so much she will probly break up with this guy of hers. Love comes and go's. I promise you there will be someone probably evan better in your life.Hope i helped.

Lovez, Lacey

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Weird question, but okay.. do you find it normal to like someone alot that you've never met? I think that its normal to an extent- like a celeb.. but what do you think?

Yes it's normal. I like a guy and i don't even know him. It's okay to like a guy that you don't know anything about. when i met one of my cousins for the first time i thought he was really cute, but i dont think it's common to like a celeberty of my family. Well hope i answered your question okay. Truely- Lacey

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Okay so I have been dating this guy Max for 7 months. Well his ex girlfriend Chanet still likes him. Max isn't the smartest guy so after school he goes to this thing where he studies for the proficincy. Well so does Chantel. Apparently yesterday Chantel and Max didn't go to the proficiency and they went ot this girl Heathers house. Well Chantel is bi and Heather and her use to date. Well Heathers little sister Stephanie is a friend of mine and she had some other people I know over at her house. She told me today in 3rd that she went up stairs to where Chantel and Max were hanging out and that they were freak dancing and the music was really loud and that Chantel said Max and her made out. Of course Stephanie told me but this was 3rd period. So I naturally started freaking out. Then my next class is lunch. And the WHOLE junior class knows what happened! So I see Max at lunch and he tried to touch me and I moved away because I am soo disgusted with him and the situation. So then I go with my friend to go get a water and when we come back he is gone. Like 12 people came up to me and told me again what Max and Chantel did. I was so overwhelmed that I think I made myself sick. I haven't talked to Max for the rest of the day. What do you think really happened? Max told Stephanie that nothing happened but everyone says he did. Please help me. I am so confused. Please

-understandeably confused

sorry to tell you this, but i think you should
just dump him, cause he's obviously not the one for you. If he likes you, he would tell you everything, so he's obviously needs to go.

Hope i helped. -lacey

P.s. we should keep in touch.

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My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 6 months, and lately I feel as if I'm losing him very slowly. Everyday he seems less and less interested in me. (Example) He gets off the phone more often without a reason, and isn't passionate when we kiss. I'm wondering if he's slipping through my grip, or is there a way for me to stop this...

14/f
Retro_romance

O.k.i personaly think he's trying to move a little fast with you, which iz not good. It may be good to you, but I think he just iz interested
in kissing and stuff like that. He's obviously not interested in who you are, so i think you should break up with him or things could possibly get worse. HOPE YOU TAKE MY ADVICE!!!!!!!!!!!! Not Bad of a quwstion you asked.

SIGHN= Lacey

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