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Desperate for her
Well this all started last February...
I met sumone on the internet last January..and she was going to the theater in February.
I thought it would be great to meet her. At the time she went with another boy...her other friends went too. From the moment I saw her that February...ive loved her....so much that i isolated myself for her...What I mean is that her friends liked me left and right...so many liked me at one time it was hard to choose...but I knew it would break her heart to see me going with one of her friends...I rejected all of them and isolated myself for that one person. I have loved her for so long...and I thought it would soon come true that we may love eachother truely..
But we've become sooo close of friends...that she is afraid if we go together that we may break up and lose everything...even our friendship.
Ive told her that i would do nething for her and i love her more than the white hot intensity of a million suns. And ive also told her that i will always love her...i told her this wen i first met her...and here i am...still single waiting on her...ive havent turned down my promise and i was told that i could not keep it...I knew i would keep it...and she is the only thing that i look forward to in my life...she is my everything...
Now im a boy 14 yrs. and i always see these things where there are boys who only has a chapter of love in their lives...but in a girls...its the whole book. Well its a whole vice versa feeling for me...i love her with all my heart and would do nething
I would even let her go with sumone else as long as shes happy...because its as far as i can go...but im trying my best to show my love for her.
I dont want to get over her...shes the love of my life...just tell me what you think i need to do because ive waiting for close to a year now for her...and i know that I think about her until one o' clock at night and wake up at 6:45 just to think about her...im this desperate for her.
She has given me soooo much and i have given her just as much she says...but she just cant get over this one person but he hurts her like shes his slave in life...and i cry for her
I wish it would stop and I kno if we went together right now...paradise will be spread throughout my life because she is all I think about. It may seem that im saying the same thing over and over but I know that if i tried...i could write a book about her..
Someone please help me and i will give you a five if you give me nething..
just please help me
Im desperate for her....and sorry this is sooo long!
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WOW that's deep.
Since you love her that much keep trying. If what you are saying is true then you probably won't be able to just get over her and move on. So continue to do what you are doing.
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If you truely love her and you know it, tell her how you feel. You should even ask her out if you want to. I bet she likes you, because I know your a special person. It takes time for girls to want to go out with guys. Pray, and ask the lord wat to do. Maybe he'll answer you. He answers all of my problems. I hope I helped.
Love, Lacey
Hey hun! im lacey's friend and i wanted to leave u some advice also! Wow, you are such a sweatheart! Well i think you should let her know how u feel about her! My boyfriend liked me for a long time before i ever knew he liked me, so let her know because she might not even know what you have done for her. Well good luck with her hun!
Love always! Ariel!!!!
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You obviously love this girl alot and would do anything for her and if she knows this she should know that if you ever broke up you would still be friends because you are realy in love and its fisicaly imposisable to fall out of love mabey just get lost along the way and if she dosn't understand this im sure you can explane to her that from what ive heard you can't live with out her omg im like gonna cry ur so sweet (wow i just scared myself)
signed
Morbid
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omg that is so cute!!! i wish i was that girl!
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thats so beautiful!!! *crys* man u should seriously keep trying if you love her that much
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omg this is so long!! srry im not up 2 this reading level. haha, jp, but its hella long
-- aw thanks, sorry i had to go some where but it was nice how you said you would write a book for her. i think you should just write her a sweet poem or something and tell her how you feel. like you said youre desperate for her.
:)
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OMG THAT IS SOO EFFIN LONG!! :O
Sorry, but i dont feel like reading this all... sorry....
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I guess ask her out... if she doesnt have feeling for you then screw her...
i just read your last line..
lmao :)
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Awe that was really sweet feedback!! I still wish i could help you out!! :)
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omg that is the cutest thing in the whole world i swear i've been threw lot of shyt n shyt like that tooo .... well i really dont know what too tell you but all you can doo is tell her that you are not like other guys and you will love her and say if i didnt love you i would of given up on you long time ago but i love you way too much too doo that .... well you really cant make someone like / love you i wish we could doo that but noo we cant ..... and if she still doesnt doo anithin then all you really have left is be friends with her and stuff ... well hope i helped at all !! mwaz and good luck !!
♥ Samra !!
and can you tell me what happens ??!
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Keep after her. Keep doing what you're doing and she may very well go out with you. Reassure her that your friendship won't change a bit once you start going out and it won't ever change because you care so much about her. You're 14 years old so you do have time to wait for her if that's what you want to do. If you find that in a year or so she's not going for it then you need to rethink what you're doing. For the time being though, try to talk her into going out with you. She obviously likes you and I think that if you were to date that your relationship would be a good one. Good luck.
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I've been close to where you're feeling, so I'm definitely going to try to help. It's good that you want to see her happy, even if it isn't with you. That's important, because, no matter how sure you are that you could make her happy, she might not be. If she hasn't broken up with her boyfriend who treats her terribly, all you can do is be there to support her. Waiting for over a year is extremely unfair to you, and she really is lucky to have somebody who is willing to do that. Hopefully, she'll come around eventually. Just keep in mind that most teenage relationships end relatively fast and you should have your chance soon enough. If it goes on for much longer, I'm sorry to say, but you should either let her know how unbearable it is for you, or try to get over her. Maybe tell her this is her last chance. You're tired of waiting (It's kind of harsh, but it might work). None of this is fair to you, but I do understand how much you care about her. Give it some more time and good luck. You deserve her. It isn't your fault that you aren't together. Here's hoping things work out for you eventually.
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wow thats alot if you truely love her try and get her to love you back! thats all i hav to say.
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