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the old woman who lived alone?
i have had A TON of bad experiences with gys/men so i dont want to date and DEFINETLY DONT want to marry men are just so.............. disturbing and i want to change how i feel but i cant anyone know how i can change my reaction to gys??i rate sky hi
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Okay, i guess you should focuse on your family or people who need atention.Try going to a nail spa, it relaxes you and you can hopefully put your whole attention on something else. My sis. is 21 and she tried that and it totally worked for her. I probably don't have the answer you want to here, but that's all i've got for ya. I hope i helped. And if the spa did'nt work, you should ask your mom wat to do. She probably knows alot more than i do. Well ask me questions anytime, and i'll be there for ya. Love, Lacey
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Believe it or not there are a few good ones out there somewhere. Doesn't sound like you've found many of them but, they are there. I don't know that your opinion is going to change until you find a good one.
Maybe you should start out just having a cup of coffee or a short date instead of the dinner and a movie type thing. That way if he doesn't seem your type you don't have to spend a lot of time with him. Maybe you should look at the places you are meeting men. Guys from bars and clubs are not the best ones to meet. Try joining a gym or some group where you might meet someone with your interests. Hope you find one soon. :)
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You should try just becoming friends with some guys. It's true that a lot of guys are jerks, but if you take the time to actually get to know them a lot of them are really sweet. If you're hanging out with guys that are around your age they might be jerks because they are immature. It's a fact that girls generally mature faster than guys. Try talking to guys a year or two older than you. After you get to be pretty good friends with some good guys you'll change how you think of guys. ...I hope this helped.
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