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the truth?


Question Posted Tuesday March 29 2005, 8:26 pm

Okay so I have been dating this guy Max for 7 months. Well his ex girlfriend Chanet still likes him. Max isn't the smartest guy so after school he goes to this thing where he studies for the proficincy. Well so does Chantel. Apparently yesterday Chantel and Max didn't go to the proficiency and they went ot this girl Heathers house. Well Chantel is bi and Heather and her use to date. Well Heathers little sister Stephanie is a friend of mine and she had some other people I know over at her house. She told me today in 3rd that she went up stairs to where Chantel and Max were hanging out and that they were freak dancing and the music was really loud and that Chantel said Max and her made out. Of course Stephanie told me but this was 3rd period. So I naturally started freaking out. Then my next class is lunch. And the WHOLE junior class knows what happened! So I see Max at lunch and he tried to touch me and I moved away because I am soo disgusted with him and the situation. So then I go with my friend to go get a water and when we come back he is gone. Like 12 people came up to me and told me again what Max and Chantel did. I was so overwhelmed that I think I made myself sick. I haven't talked to Max for the rest of the day. What do you think really happened? Max told Stephanie that nothing happened but everyone says he did. Please help me. I am so confused. Please

-understandeably confused


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karenR answered Wednesday March 30 2005, 1:46 am:
Well everyone probably wasn't there. So they actually know just as much about it as you do.
Maybe Stephanie was jealous and made the whole thing up. I guess you need to talk to the boyfriend and get his side of the story before you decide who to believe.

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laceylikesthecolorblue answered Tuesday March 29 2005, 9:00 pm:
sorry to tell you this, but i think you should
just dump him, cause he's obviously not the one for you. If he likes you, he would tell you everything, so he's obviously needs to go.

Hope i helped. -lacey

P.s. we should keep in touch.

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mrsrhettbutler answered Tuesday March 29 2005, 8:57 pm:
Before I answer this question, I would like ask if you and Chantel are friends. If you are, then she is a horrible friend, and she is probably telling the truth. If you are enemies she may just be saying these things to hurt you. But if you are not really either, then you really should talk to Max about it. The thing about dating is that if you are dating someone then you have to trust them. Until you have proof that all of that happened, give him the benefit of the doubt. However, always be on your guard for that girl. Girls brag just like guys do, so she could just be bragging. For your sake I hope she is.
E-mail me and give me more details...
-Rachael-

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selectopaque answered Tuesday March 29 2005, 8:51 pm:
"What do you think really happened?"

Are you serious? This is your question??

You write out this big question, giving every annoying detail and you end it by asking a bunch of strangers, who have never met or seen either Max or Chantel what happened some night??

I just don't get it. How can you possibly think that anyone on this site knows what happened more than someone who was actually there? Listen to your friend Stephanie. She has no reason to lie to you does she?

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