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Hey! Here's some stuff 'bout me.

Name: Alissa, Lis, Biznitch [hehe]

Age: 14

Birthday: August 18, leo, baby!

Grade: 8th

Location: Orlando-ish, Florida

Words To Describe Meh: Immature [at times], weird, crazy, depressed at times, sarcastic, optimistic, intelligent.

Favourite Band: At the moment, Avenged Sevenfold, I guess. Courtesy of ERIC!! =P





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advice

I am 14,female.i dated this guy for 4 months(my first relationship. at first i didnt like this asshole at all but as the months passed i started to fall for him crazy. not experiouncing these feelings Ever, i was confused and depressed because i knew he would never like me as much as I did. so when he found out i liked him that much he started to take advantage of me. now im usually not the type to let ANYONE push me around but since i went gaga and stupid everytime i saw him i let him.so my friends forced me to break up with him but i got back with him in the next day. but then HE broke up with me just to laugh at my face. i still really like him(god knows why).i would still really like sweet revenge on this guy.what is the best revenge on this guy?making him jelouse?or just embaressing him?

Just try to take him out of your life. If he's your first relationship, of course you'll still have some feelings for him.

As for revenge, embarass the hell out of him. ;)
Hope I helped.

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i'm 13 and i have this one guy who likes me alot i dont like him as anything other than a friend..now that he likes me i hardly speak to him because i'm afraid people will start talking about "us." i miss him a lot though because he used to be one of my best friends! hes also a really good guy but i just dont like him. i dont know what to do or how to act around him!

Just tell him that you just want to be friends. If you're really good friends, he'll understand.
Hope I helped.

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I'm not sure if Frienship is the right catagory or not... Here goes: My friend, Chelsea, was a nervous wreck. She was so scared about telling her boyfriend she wanted to kiss. I told her to write him and note so she did. She said she gave it to him and he said he wanted to, too. That was a week ago and she says they still haven't kissed. I asked if it's because they never see each other except in school where they would get in trouble but she said he'll do anything else. Just won't kiss. Is he lying to her or nervous or what? Neither of us understand and she doesn't want to look dumb by asking. She's mad because if that is the problem, she'll probably never kiss him because they can't see each other out of school. Also, is this type of question common at all? Thanx!

It's most likely just nervousness. The first kiss with new people is always sorta nervous, and awkward, at least for me. Lol.

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Hey. This is gonna be long,but i really need help. Okay, I live, in Italy. i only have 4 close friends at this school, and I just joined there this year. Okay well, one of my friends, she's the bold bitchy type. I'm a shy type person ever since i moved here. Earlier up until about a month or two ago, we were good friends, we used to get along. Recently we've been having tons of arguments, and she's ALWAYS criticizing me, like, tellin me, dont say that,that's weird,blah blah. Or change ur MSN nickname, i dont like it.I've tried talking to her about it, telling her how it is. It doesn't help. We get into more and more arguments day after day. Even just now she was asking me something and i decided to give her the real answer. So i said,"well u criticize me a lo, balah,blah. And all that. And she said stuff about me. That I'm really annoying, how i'm timid and blah blah. I asked her why we get into arguments so much recently. And she said that im not reallly her type. shes never had a shy friend like me before. Blah, blah...and so i started telling her how she is, kind of. And i was like no offense again and agian...so she wouldnt take any, even though i knew she would, it was all i could do on my part. And then shes like"STOP SAYING NO OFFENSE I THOUGHT IT WAS JUST A PHASE BUT NOW I KNOW ITS NOT BLAH BLAH" I hate her. She's always saying shit about me. And then now she's like, i think we should just not be friends instead of being mad at each other 24/7. Well, i think so too, and i told her. And then She says i'm always deppressing...which i guess to some extent is true, because my home life is shit. My parents and my sis are always yelling at me, tlelling me to die and shit, and I yell back...so when im with them soemtimes i complain and am depressed. And i go to a rich school, and my friends are well off. But we are not. And she says that the reason the other people don't like me, now, is cause I'm boring and shy and im just quiet and dont go up to people so how i can i be open to new friends. I'm uncomfortable, i cant just go up to them. She says i should b more fun and crazy and the people think so too and then I'll make new friends. I can be a little more I guess, but not totally because my home life affects me. And my parents, i hate them. So what am i supposed to do about everything??? I'm only 13 and I wanna get out of this whole thing..die or move to a new place where I can be a new me with money and without parents.

First off, yeah, you probably shouldn't be friends with her anymore. Second, with your home life, I know this sounds like the peachy thing to do, but you should sit down with your parents and sister, and talk everything out. It really does help. My home life isn't exactly perfect, either. If that helps, and your homelife gets progressively better, you should sort of grow out of being shy, that's what happened to me, anyway. Hope I helped.

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Why is it when I look at certain people's typing, my eyes begin to burn? My eyes burn especially with sticky caps, and internet abbreviations.
(luv, gurl, boi, seckz, lol, brb, kay, ur, u, r, etc)
It's almost unbearable, how do I make it stop?

I know, it irritates me too. Unfortunately, there's nothing you can do to make it stop, it's just unintelligent people trying to get a break from typing. And for the sticky caps... that's just... pointless. It takes forever to type.

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