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i'm 13 and i have this one guy who likes me alot i dont like him as anything other than a friend..now that he likes me i hardly speak to him because i'm afraid people will start talking about "us." i miss him a lot though because he used to be one of my best friends! hes also a really good guy but i just dont like him. i dont know what to do or how to act around him!
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Well tell him you want to get it straight that you arent to gether and you will not be more then friends.. jus act yourself round him.. but dont do anything flirty then you want have to worry bout people talkin bout you guys..much luv dez
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dont stop talking to him thats dumb! and if he's such a good friend of yours, why would you want to? besides, if you stop talking to him that doesnt mean he'll stop liking you...trust me. he might think you're kind of jerky though cause that's just messed up.how would you feel if a guy did that to you?jerk,right? actually, if you stop talking to him and act weird in front of him and stuff, then there will be suspicions... (TRUST ME ON THAT!!!). there's this guy who likes me (and we're not even really friends) but i didnt stop talking to him and no one really says anything about it (except just like joking around and stuff). but before that, to another guy, i did the same thing you're doing to your friend and people started spreading ALL KINDS OF RUMORS! now we just dont talk BECAUSE of the rumors. you know what? you dont have to do anything about it because if he likes you...he likes you, and theres nothing you can do about it. just keep things going as usual. if this makes it easier, tell him what you just posted, and i'm sure he'll understand. just like it's not his fault he likes you, it's not your fault you dont like him.which is how you should think of it: just like it s not your fault you dont like him, its not his fault he likes you, so dont treat him like that!sorry this is really long and confusing, but it's just hard for me to sort out my ideas! still, i hope i helped! ♥ Mari ♥
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Let him down easy and don't flirt with him if you don't like him. That be like Lying.
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You shouldn't stop being someone's friend because of that. Tell him you just wanna be friends, and he should understand, and if people start talkin about you then just ignore it because friendship is stronger than anything! Hope I helped!
-*-..Becky..-*- aKa -*-..Lil QT..-*-
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I had the same thing happen to me. What I did was, I sat the guy down, and I told him the truth, but I did it in a gentle way, and I made him feel comfortable about the situation, act natural around him, explain to him that first of all, you like him as a friend, and maybe you're not ready to rush into a relationship. Pull him to the side after school, or in class.
MAd love,
Victoria
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Well, you've got a pickle (a problem) But i'd got the cucumber (the answer). Explain to him that you do not want to be his girlfriend. But let him down easy. Things could go bad if he isn't understsnding.
Good Luck,
*Browny4541*
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Just tell him that you just want to be friends. If you're really good friends, he'll understand.
Hope I helped.
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this happend to me and my best guy friend to i think you need to tell him that ..hey i really like you alot but ur my best frined and i dont like u that way can we please just go back to the way it was
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