I think i messed up majorly with my crush. we danced last night at a monthly dance our town holds and it incredible. the thing is, we got bumped into, so we kinda broke apart, and he asked me in a sad way "oh is that it?" and i didnt know what to say. i should have let him know how much i love with by saying someone like "does it have to be?" but i didnt. i feel like i lost him completely. he said he really really likes me as a friend. im in love with him and i think he knows that but my problem is that i dont know how to go about talking to him anymore. i dont know what to say or what to talk about. im so confused. i feel like i screwed up big time. if you want the whole story about what happened, i posted a question called "heaven for me, hell for him?"
thx everyone
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? LiL_Tasha76 answered Sunday March 6 2005, 12:52 am: hey..im goin through the same thing..but i went out with the kid before this...well i did lose him an i dont want that to happen to you...if you wanna talk to him...just talk about maybe hanging out sometime...like as frineds..if you both are fighting then just try talkin to him an sort it out...an if he gets all cocky then be the calm one...now if you both arent aruging then just talk to him about hanging out..i mean yeah i bet you realli wanna go out with him ..but hey maybe if you both get really close then you could eaither go out or become frineds of benfits...like not go out but do stuff together...something like this
You: Hey whats up
Boy:Nuthing to much just hangin out you?
You:Nuthing to much...i was wondering do you wanna just go out an hang out...you know as frineds?
Boy: "and whatever he says"
see i mean its ain so hard
now if you 2 are aruging
You:Hey look im soory about the other night
boy: Yeah it was pretty meessed up
an then you to just talk it out
i've been through this alot...so just try it ...lets hope it works !!!!
p_rOd answered Saturday March 5 2005, 10:19 pm: well .. i think u should just be like honestly i just wanted to tell you that i like you alot and i know u dont like me like that but its been on my mind latly and i felt i needed to tell you
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Cath answered Saturday March 5 2005, 9:37 pm: Hi Sweetie,
I cant find the whole sotryu :-( Where is it? Well from what I heard in your paragraph I don't think it HAS to be it. ...He didn't want it to be it. ...How about... if you made plans for the next dance. And... bruch tomorrow? "You know, if you want to." Tell him that!
I hope it wokrs out for you two! ...Let me know? You sound like you'd make a cute coupple! Aww... sorry. ~Blessed Be... [ Cath's advice column | Ask Cath A Question ]
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