hey!
i am kristen. i love giving advise. my "group" of friends has alot of problems so i am good at giving it and am experienced at it.
Gender: Female
Member Since: January 23, 2005
Answers: 24
Last Update: June 7, 2005
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i would really like to be more healthy. you know, toned muscles, eat healthy foods, etc. the thing is, i know exactly how to do it, what foods to eat, what to avoid, great exercises, etc. the only problem is i can NEVER be motivated enough to stick to a healthy lifestyle. reading through all this health advice really gets me excited about being healthier and such, but then when i actually go try it, i am never motivated enough to follow through! any tips? (link)
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join a swim team, that keeps muscles toned and it is a year round sport so you wont have a time when you have to work out. only get groceries at healt food stores, trader joes has great food that it healthy at the same time
hope i helped
-kcbswm599
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ok i am 16 and all my friends say they have had sex i feel i am the only one that has not.what shall i do?they keep asking me if i have had sex? (link)
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dont give into peer pessure!!!!! do it when it feels right and when you trust the guy ur gonna do it with. dont have sex just b/c everyone else is, and when you do use a condom so if it doesnt work out between you two you arent stuck w/ a kid or with a std like aids
hope i helped!
-kcbswm599
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Ok tonight my bofriend is comming over, and I don't know what to wear. He is comming over to watch the movie BoogieMan with me, and so what would be a good outfit for this occision?
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anything you r comfy in but still look cute, the lights will be out and he will be watching the movie not looking at what u r wearing
hope i helped!!!!!!
-kcbswm599
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what is the south beach diet?? (link)
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it is a diet written by many doctors, you buy it at borders, it is a book. it is like $20 i think
kcbswm599
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hi i've been searching far and wide looking for downloadable mp3's from the band new order. i've tried dogpile, google, altavista, singingfish, just about anything you can imagine. the weirdest things is that dogpile used to have a load of links, but now the majority of the results aren't even relevant or play short clips of the songs.
does anyone know where i can find free downloadable mp3s to link back for background music? again, the band's name is new order.
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try itunes
hope i helped!!!
-kcbswm599
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hey. im in desperate need of you to tell me everything you know about the low carb diet. I need to loose weight really fast. what foods can i eat and what foods cant i eat? how many pounds will i loose in the first week? summer is almost here and i htink i look horrible in a bathinsuit and i need to change that! please help!! (link)
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i sugest the south beach diet my dad lost 18lbs in one month and you lose belly fat first! you would probably lose weight faster b/c my dad didnt really exercise. so exersize alot and i would say use the south beach diet(the food is really good!!!)
hope i helped!
-kcbswm599
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is it bad to leave your cell phone on while you are charging it? (link)
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i do and its fine but if you turn it off it charges quicker
-kcbswm599
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I have so much on my plate right now. With the current school year ending soon i am applying for scholorships, running for vice-prez of my high school class, and dealing with all the extra school work. we have to write lots of essays, and do finals and stuff. I also have responsiblities at my church i am responsible for, and I'm cast in a play that will be opening in early june. Right now i'm also PMSing so i'm in physical pain with cramps and stuff and i'm in a really bad mood. I also get ance pretty bad sometimes... i use proactive, but right now i'm really breaking out and it's affecting my self esteem. i have too much to do each day, so i often dont get enough sleep. I also procastinate... alot. I have put soo much pressure on myself to get a 4.0 Gpa this sememster or at least mantain my 3.9, but i'm soo scared that i'll get below that. I'm a prefectionist and i get stressed easily. my room is a mess and i never have any time to clean it, so my parents are harping on me for that... and my other chores at home are lacking. I also feel like everyone in my life is changing, and becoming different. and i feel like i have no one to talk to. i'm going into high school next year, and i'm soo scared.. but i dont have anyone to talk to about it because i dont like letting people know my feelings, and i have trust issues when it comes to what i am really feeling and thinking. Anyways i just needed to get this off my chest and maybe talk to someone. and see if anyone has any advice about what to do to lessen my stress level, help me not procrastinate, stuff with my friends, and parents... or something. just umm help, please!!!! thanks soo much! i appreciate it, and this was long so thanks for even reading it!
-Dealing with life (13/f) (link)
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you shoul make a schedule for the week and thats all you do no changes, put in like the hours you go to school, when youwake up, the time you go to bed, homework, social time, ect. you could also try scheduling youga i hear its really good for stressful people. you could work on homework for other classes in classes that dont matter or are really easy.st ives face washes work really well for me. you could do like a 30minute therapest thingy(it is against the law if they tell anyone besides your parents i think)
hope i helped
-kcbswm599
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O.K., Im thinking about downloading AIM onto my computer, but Im afraid it will give me a virus. If I get a virus my parents will KILL me! Does anyone have it and can tell me whether its ever given you a virus or someone you know? Thanks! All my friends have it and they've never gotten viruses before, but I need to make sure. THANKS! (link)
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hey!
i have aim and have never gotten a virus
-kcbswm599
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hey everyone,
I was fiddling with a piece of my hair and i noticed nearly every individual strand is split! You just have a single piece of hair and its double at the ends, sometimes its quite far up and i touched one of the half-strands and it just fell off where it split. I straighten my hair everyday but i use a heat protection serum and i dont know if this has helped it split or not. I havent been to the hairdressers for a while but now im planning to and im going to get quite a bit off but the problem is some of the short, new hairs at the top are split too and i dont want my hair to be cut really short. I also want layers but not right at the top.
What i want to know is 1.what has caused my split ends? 2. do i have to go short or is there another way? 3. if you leave your hair to grow (like the new hairs) will the split ends rise up the hair strand?
thankyou for your time
Rachel (link)
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hey
1. straitening is a big problem in there. i had that problem now i take a shower right before i go to bed, put it up in a towel, sleep with the towel in, wake up(my hair is still kinda wet),put in garnier smoothing milk(it smells awesome and is only like $4), and blow dry it. it comes out just a strait!
2.there is shampoo and conditioner(pantene prov i think) and it repairs split ends. you could also talk to your hair dresser and i suggest getting an inch off and layered.
3. no they wont unless you make them
if you follow my advise your hair should have much less split ends by maybe the end of the month or sooner
good luck
-kcbswm599
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Me and my boyfriend loved eachother so much! Well.. Just to piss off my best friend he always said "I LOVE YOU! I LOVE YOU!" to her! i started to get a little mad! Besides my best friend has a boyfriend! When i slept over my best friends house.. she said "if your bf wud stop throwing things at me at lunch..i'd actually love him!" Well My boyfriend and me were talking on-line and he said "HAHA! Elise (my best friend) finally said she loves me too!" I was soo pissed off! Then he said "It would be soo cool to have 2 girlfriends!" "what wud you do if something like that happened?" I had enough! so i dumped him yesterday! should i be mad at my best friend or should i not be? I havnt talked to her yet and she still doesnt know i even dumped him! wud do i do? (link)
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talk to her about it
kcbswm599
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theres this kid that keeps following me like everywhere and its freaking me out...what should i do? (link)
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ask him to stop or why he is following you
kcbswm599
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Why do guys get angry when you have only been dating two months and they tell you they love, but if you don't feel comfortable saying it back they all the sudden don't love you? Especially the only reason you don't want to say it is because that is when people start getting hurt! (link)
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most guys say i love you as a way to get in your pants. i have tons of guy friends and though most of them arent like that...its a subconcious guy thing. get used to it, but dont accept it.
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wow, I don't really know what category to put this under, so I guess it works under friendship.. kinda. Anyway, I started cutting, I don't know why but I did. I don't want to, but it's really addicting.. 0.o so it's hard for me to stop. Only on of my friends knows and I just met him and I like him alot.. he cuts to, so I feel conferdable talking to him about this.. he doesn't do it so much anymore but I wonder if he is worried about me, I know my step brother is.. he knows to. Well he doesn't really know he just thinks I do it and he knows that I have a BiG possibatly of doing it.
When I look at my scares.. I cry, and I think 'is this really who I am?? is this really me??' cause I don't seem like this kinda girl who would do this.. I am real caring and nice and funny.. so I don't get it.. how do I stop.. do you have anything to tell me about what I wrote? just anything, please.. I wana stop.
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okay, the textbook answer is therapy, but thats not the one id say... look, make a list of what it accomplishes verses what it ruins...like swim season if you do it on your thighs, shorts and capris, short sleeved shirts...the fashion list goes on, but if that doesnt do it for you, what about friends family and everyone you love? you have to lie to them everyday, think about how hurt youd feel if your best friend kept a huge secret from you forever...lastly, cutting leads to other things, it is so addicting and a lot of times it is about stress so cut stuff out of you life as opposed to yourself. being around people that dont really care or people that think that cutting is okay only makes everything worse. the best way i think to relive the whole cutting addiction is chocolate, run, chill with your good friends, the ones that care about you, listen to soothing music and think about yourself for once, think about how much everything hurts and write about it, write about how you feel (cliche i know...) before and after you get the urge. finally, tell someone, its going to be hard and if you are like me, you will bawl your eyes when you tell, but its so worth it. if you really want to stop, its the only way, it starts with isolation but it wont stop that way. expirience changes the world doesnt it? look, you know that this behavior is hurtful, i can tell you do, so use the scary expirience to help other people, tell them that it doesnt work, help them through it. its so hard, but you have to stop now or else you wont ever stop.
-a concerned alumni
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What is that song.. like "i will remember you, will you remember me?" whats the name of it and who sings it? (link)
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Sarah Mclachlan- "I will remember you".....if you like her stuff id recomend the live cd, the lyrics are great. have a good day.
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alright, so there is this guy that my bf is not-quite-but-sorta friends with. nick, the dude, is trying really hard to get in our realtionship. he's always asking questions and saying things that he has no right to say. he asked my bf if we had sex in his truck. i honestly don't think its nick's business what my bf and i do or do not do. what can i do to get this guy to get the hint that no one likes him and he is not wanted anywhere near me. thanks in advance.
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pissed off (link)
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maybe he likes you and is jelous of your bf
kcbswm599
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Theres a girl who is a complete and total slut shes trying to take my boyfriend away from me I dont like her and she knows it i have talked to my boyfriend and he promised he wouldn't go for her...what should I do? (link)
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if he said he wouldnt go for her so trust him but if he does than you isnt worthy of you
hope i helped!!!!
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are sit ups or crunches good to do because I am skinny but I have really tiny love handles. I am 5'6 and weight 128 and I wanna get down to atleast 120 what can I do? (link)
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both are good. but if you do that you will gain muscle and muscle weighs more than fat. my advise is eat right but not off the food pyramid that is insane (6 to 11 servings of bread a day!),exersize, do yoga, and dont watch tv during the day
kcbswm599(please rate)
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female/13 see i got a boy friend but mii best friend is a boy and it seems like i havent spent any time wit my best friend lately because im so focused on my boy friend so what should i do ? im scared of losing our friendship
signed, confused
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dear confused,
try spending a little less time with your boyfriend and more with your bestfriens or hang out all together and have a little alone time with each. hope i helped!
kcbswm599 (dont forget to rate)
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Ok I asked the question about bangs a while ago. Anyways, do you just get them cut on one side of your part? Like I part my hair to the side so should I get mine cut on just the larger side if that makes sense? How long should they be? I don't want them to be really long though if that makes sense. Can anybody help me with these. If you know anything else, then let me know too. Thanks. (link)
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hey
i used to have bangs and i didnt like it but thats probably because my mom made me get them...anyway just ask who ever iss cuting your hair i'm sure they will help and tell you what would look good on you
kcbswm599(dont forget to rate!)
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