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boyfriend vs. bestfriend
female/13 see i got a boy friend but mii best friend is a boy and it seems like i havent spent any time wit my best friend lately because im so focused on my boy friend so what should i do ? im scared of losing our friendship
signed, confused
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Set a time with him, be like Hey wanna go to the movies on sat? And tell him you are focoused on 'school' and thats why you havnt been able to hang out a lot!
&heatts; Michelle
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Well its a no brainer but its okay to get help. So i would just call your bestfriend and ask if he'd like to hang out and come over for a bit. Watch a movie. Build a snowman. Cook cookies. Watch TV. Go to the mall. Go skating. Go play hockey. Go to the movies. Anything works just remember friends come first exspeacially best friends!!-trix
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Maybe the three of you can hang out? Being that hes a guy ..they might click better. If not..and you dont like the idea..or you try it and its awkward..then set aside a day for him! On the weekend. If you go out with your bf friday night..then hang out with your friend on saturday. If you go out with your bf saturday..hang out with ur friend on sunday. Theres enough room in the weekend to hang with your bf and your best friend! If you do that..then you wont lose your bf.
-melissa-
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srry if this doesnt help but all i can say is
boyfriends come and go but friends are forever u probaly heard that everywhere but it helps jus think about it and you will make the right choice
hope i can help
~mimi~
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dear confused,
try spending a little less time with your boyfriend and more with your bestfriens or hang out all together and have a little alone time with each. hope i helped!
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tell your boyfriend that you think your friend and you are spliting apart and tell him you wanna hang out with him too, maybe with a group of ppl. tell your friend that your sorry that you havent been hanging out with him alot and that you want to..if your boyfriend gets jealous and even after you explain to him that your friend is your friend and you want to hang out with him then sorry hun but idt you should go out with him cuz he has to like your friends too! hope i helped ,please rate xOx risSii
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You have two options:
1) Tell your current boyfriend that you'd like some time off...not really 'dump' him but just say you need a little break because its taking a little too much out of your time.
or you could
2) Dump your current boyfriend if you have more feelings for your best friend, and from the looks of it I think you do ;). If you choose this, then don't take things too fast with your friend or else you'll make the friendship worse.
The option of what to do it all in your hands, but whichever one you take, it'll be fine!
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I don't think your friend should mind because your friend should want you to be happy. Maybe you can split your time. A few days a week with your boyfriend and the rest of the week with your friend. Also, your boyfriend should trust you if you spend time with your best friend who's a boy.
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