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Bff Or BFS (boy friend stealer)
Me and my boyfriend loved eachother so much! Well.. Just to piss off my best friend he always said "I LOVE YOU! I LOVE YOU!" to her! i started to get a little mad! Besides my best friend has a boyfriend! When i slept over my best friends house.. she said "if your bf wud stop throwing things at me at lunch..i'd actually love him!" Well My boyfriend and me were talking on-line and he said "HAHA! Elise (my best friend) finally said she loves me too!" I was soo pissed off! Then he said "It would be soo cool to have 2 girlfriends!" "what wud you do if something like that happened?" I had enough! so i dumped him yesterday! should i be mad at my best friend or should i not be? I havnt talked to her yet and she still doesnt know i even dumped him! wud do i do?
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don't be mad at your best friend because she was probably joking when she said i love you because she has a boyfriend but i think that is was smart of you to dump your boyfriend because he shouldn't be talking about having 2 girlfriends at one time especially when you were his only girlfriend. so i think that you did the right thing.
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I would be mad at my best friend. Tell her that the comment she made about loving your ex was innappropiate and that it caused you to break up with your boyfriend. It doesn't sound like she intentionallly tried to break you guys up but i probaly wouldn't trust her around any of your future boyfriends
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She didn't really do anything. You let jealousy get the better of you I think. They were probably just joking around, but I don't know. Still, not friends fault.
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I would definitely get mad if I were you. "I love you" are three words you shouldn't just throw around, especially to a girlfriend's bestfriend!!! As for your bestfriend, she should have thought about your feelings.
Maybe your bestfriend and ex-boyfriend were only trying to joke around. You should have talked to them about it and find out if they were just playing around. If they were, you should have explained to them it was not funny to you at all and they should think about YOUR feelings. If they weren't playing around, well...I think you'd know what to do here...dump them both.
It's a little too late here for that since you already dumped your ex-boyfriend. But not too late. You need to talk to both of them, ASAP. If it was all a misunderstanding, I think you all should try to fix things back up. One little problem shouldn't come between ya'll.
If things really don't work out and you decide those two only cause you pain, you should forget about them both. Since your bestfriend doesn't know you dumped your ex, tell her! Tell her you did it partly because of HER. They both hurt you and you've had enough. Hopefully the guilt will sink in, but if it doesn't, it just shows you they're both trash. A boyfriend and a bestfriend should be there for you always. They should always consider your feelings. I really think you need to find some new people that really deserve you. Hope things work out.
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Alright now you don't have to take the following advice but I advise you to. Now listen if your best friend went behind your back and was saying private stuff to your boyfriend and he went with it not even thinking about what you feeled then no do not forgive your so called best friend you need to get on with your life until she says sorry to you and you really think she means it then ask her why in the hell did you go behind my back and talk to my man? it will get to her and she'll say something most likely like i don't know and if she says that then don't beleive her, she's just lyin so when you get another boyfriend she's going to go behind your back being jealous and all especially if your black and do it again so through this whole advice listing when you asked me should you forgive your friend oh HELL NO!!!!
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well if you ask me it's not exactly her fault! i mean think about it some people even if they have a bf still can like some one if u kno what i mean
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Well, as the previous poster said, you could've been jumping to conclusions... Maybe you should've talked to your bf first..
ALso, they could've been really insensitive to your feelings... As they say, "It takes two to tango."
Personally, I'm leaning towards the joking thing.. I think you can still patch it up, if you choose.. you should talk to both of them that you don't particularly like it when they say "I love you" to each other so freely..
Basically, it's a play of feelings... and the fact that maybe they're not so in tuned to you your feelings..
Bottom line: Talk to them. Try to straighten it out.. You don't want to lose your best friend and your boy friend for something that might even be tht big of a deal. Give them a chance to explain and follow your gut! ^___^
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i dont see why you would be mad at your friend unless i didnt understand it correctly, but i think you should be mad at your ex-boyfriend because no one deserve to have their bf/gf to say i love you to other people when your going out,even if its just a joke.your bestfriends with her dont be mad.bestfriends dont come often.
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Well your boyfriend might of been joking about that, I doubt he acutally liked the thought of having two girlfriends, but you never know. As for your friend, she has no right to say I love you to your boyfriend. That's wrong, but did she mean it? If she didn't mean it, and your boyfriend didn't mean what he said either, you jumped to conclusions too fast. Make sure that neither of them were kidding because then you'd have no right to be upset with either of them. Talk with your friend to get all the details worked out and if she did mean <strong>I love you</strong> then yes, you should be a little upset.
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