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anorexia
Theres a girl at my school (not my friend but i talk to her) and her boyfriend recently broke up with her. She's heart broken and feels that she isn't good enough. Now she wont eat..shes refusing to eat and its scaring everyone. She is dropping pounds by the second and is always depressed. I really want to help her, but I don't know her family personally enough to tell them. Should I let her suffer? i would feel wrong not telling anyone.
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I think you need to sit down with her sometime and really talk to her about what is going on. You need to just say that you want to help her and she is not helping herself by not eating and she just needs to kinda get over it. She will find another guy. Hope I helped ya!
**~eMiLy~**
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Tell someone! A counselor, a parent, anyone! Don't let her die - because she will. Trust me, later on, she'll thank you.
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Smear her with animal fat - it'll be absorbed through the skin and she won't have to eat.
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you should tell somebody and try to get her some help. like get her phone# and tell her parents they will do somthing about it and please do not let her suffer
-Sassygurl74-
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You definitely shouldnt let her suffer. Tell her parents IMEDIETELY! you can not let her not eat. Talk to her and maybe try getting her ex back together with her.
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talk to her about it and tell her that she needs to eat. shell get over him.
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why dont you go to a school guidence counceler, and tell him/her, tell them your concerns and the concerns of other in your school..maye get a small group oof 3 people to go with you..and tell your guidence counceler to not tel this girl your names..so its kept a secret between your group and the guidence counceler....he/she will call her parents if its a problem which it sound like it is. Hope i helped!
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maybe if you know her parents, then u should talk to them.
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put an anonymus note in theyre mail box saying....
dear blah-blah-blah family,
at school i have noticed that your daughter, (name), has been suffering from anorexia because of a break up and she is really depressed. please please get her help or rehab im really worried about her. im not very good friends with your daughter im just really really worried.
sicerely,
someone who cares
or something like that. hope i helped!
xoxMARIAxox
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You should tell someone, like a trusted teacher or her parents. If you don't want to personally tell her parents, write them an anonymous letter.
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should you let your FRIEND SUFFER?
yes. that sounds like the best thing you could do.
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Tell a trusted teacher. She need's to get help.:)
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listen this is a serious problem that your friend is going through...i am so glad that you are trying to help her dont let her just suffer because no girl deserve to suffer like that over some stupid ass, selfish, uncaring, no good for nothing little ass boy..now sice you dont know her parents that we'll thats not a help but i dont think it would be a good idea to tell her parents anyway..you need to have a long talk with her matter of fact i care so much about this cause it hits close to home for me so email me at danumba1brat@msn.com and we can talk about it more cause it might not be enough for you to just tell her since she might think you dont understand cause trust me she might not listen to you... but all in all just talk to her about it and let her know that that your there for her..let her know she can do better...and let her know that even though shes hurting now and she might not think its gonna be ok tell her that it is..tell her that there is people that care about her and dont wanna see her going through this...i hope i helped
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I think you should tell a guidance counselor - but talk to her about it first. Obviously, if you know her well enough to know shes anorexic which is a pretty private thing, she needs your help! I would feel wrong not telling anyone, too if I was in your situation. Think of the consequences if you DONT tell anyone, but then think of how much you'll be helping her if you get her help and be there for her. You dont have to be the closest to someone to care about them enough to save them from a huge mistake. ♥ Laura
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Do not, under any circumstances, let her suffer! Someone needs to be told. She could get seriously hurt herself by what she's doing. Tell a teacher at school, a guidance counselor, or an adult you know can do something. Even if you don't know her family personally, her parents need to be notified. Best wishes. ♥ Kristen
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Yeah, let her suffer, its her problem. When she dies she'll know she screwed up.
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