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i know you are going to read this and think its me, its not and actually i don't care what you think..anyways, my friend thinks shes pregnant. shes 2 weeks late on her period. she got some kind of infection where she had to take medicine that might delay her period a little bit. she took a pregnancy test and she said that if 2 lines show up, then shes pregnant..she showed me the test and i saw 2 lines, one was slightly darker than the other..but i saw 2 lines. she claims shes not pregnant, but is going to take another test. i dont know what to do for her...?

just let her get through it by herself. sometimes its best to let them do thingd by theirselves becuz their kinda different when pregnant.

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I've always been told that I am a talented actor. Lately though, I have been restricted from acting by my parents. This is due to my average and not superior grades. I've been trying for nearly 7 months to get the great grades my parents require so that I can do the thing I love most. I just can't get focused enough, I come home and just forget to do my homework after my chores. I am smart, and know that I am capable of good grades, I just can't get my brains together. I would like to go to a study group, but my parents won't let me do that either. How can I get back in my honor roll tactics, and into theatre acting again?

Get a wipe board or bullitin board to hang in your room write DO Homework or study for math quiz on it and put it somewhere where you'll always see it. If you can do your homework right when you get home and then chores. Explain to your parents if you get your homework dont earlier you can bring up your grades. Study for tests/quizzes at least 2 days before time.

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I don't want to sound weird but my school keeps their heat so high and I sweat alot- I've tried alot of deodorants but it really doesn't help with the horrible heat in the school! It's still a bit brisk outside- does anyone have any ideas on how to stay cool, especially after gym and not to have nasty sweatmarks underneath my arms? Thanks!

If you have a homeroom representative or a president then tell them to tell the principal about it. Or you can tell your teacher. But my best bet it too tell the Janitor to lower the heat. If you want to stay cool id wear shorts and a tank top. Maybe try the spray on deoderant and in the locker room for gym take a paper towel or toilet paper and wipe away the sweat. If its happening during classes then just go to the bathroom and do it.

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Me and my boyfriend have been together for about 4 months. I love him so much but when ever he says I love you to me I dont belive it. He knows I dont. He kind of gets angry because I wont belive when he says it. Why wont I belive it? Is there something wrong with me?

If you dont believe he loves you then its worth a break up. But if you want to stay together then just believe he does you have to make yourself. If you cant then believe me breaking up with him will be easy and you'll definitely get over it.

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Theres a girl at my school (not my friend but i talk to her) and her boyfriend recently broke up with her. She's heart broken and feels that she isn't good enough. Now she wont eat..shes refusing to eat and its scaring everyone. She is dropping pounds by the second and is always depressed. I really want to help her, but I don't know her family personally enough to tell them. Should I let her suffer? i would feel wrong not telling anyone.

You definitely shouldnt let her suffer. Tell her parents IMEDIETELY! you can not let her not eat. Talk to her and maybe try getting her ex back together with her.

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This boy asked me out the other day for this friday. I really, really like him. But the thing is, I'm afraid I might say something. I don't want to give away his name...he's actually "famous" or w/e (my dad's a prop manager for the show he's on).
So we're supposed to go out this friday and its going to be hard. I know he's a normal guy...and so far I've treated him normal, when I see him for like 2 minutes at a time... and thats just on the set. Whats it going to be like out in the public with other girls everywhere?? And what do we talk about? Should I bring up the fact that he's on tv? That my friends want to meet him? IDK!!!!

Well, If this guy is on T.V. I would definitely give it a try! Just dont try to let anything slip out that might make the date awkward. At first talk about normal things but if it comes to a point where you are quiet you may want to bring it up. You probably dont want to go to a popular place where there will be other girls because then they will take control over him and you dont want that. Go to some place that isnt the most popular place. If you want your friends to meet him then you can tell him if you want. Give it a try and let me know how it goes! Hope I Helped!

>Michelle

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