Me and my boyfriend have been together for about 4 months. I love him so much but when ever he says I love you to me I dont belive it. He knows I dont. He kind of gets angry because I wont belive when he says it. Why wont I belive it? Is there something wrong with me?
SwedishFish1984 answered Monday April 4 2005, 4:26 pm: If you dont believe he loves you then its worth a break up. But if you want to stay together then just believe he does you have to make yourself. If you cant then believe me breaking up with him will be easy and you'll definitely get over it. [ SwedishFish1984's advice column | Ask SwedishFish1984 A Question ]
some_girl answered Saturday April 2 2005, 11:16 pm: you've only been with him for four months. Maybe he thinks thats what you want to hear, so he's giving it to you. Give him a while, he may not be in love quite yet. Eventually he will be. [ some_girl's advice column | Ask some_girl A Question ]
xo_FARiNS_07 answered Saturday April 2 2005, 11:52 am: is there a reason that you feel he is with someone else, or is it the way he ses it? like.. does he say it like he means it or not.. hope i helped.. please rate me.. ♥* [ xo_FARiNS_07's advice column | Ask xo_FARiNS_07 A Question ]
mrs_radcliffe answered Saturday April 2 2005, 11:42 am: mabe its because you expect more from him, and that you some how feel like you dont feel them say! way as he does. Just trust him from now on.
Sporkster answered Saturday April 2 2005, 11:34 am: Eh, I was the same way when my boyfriend told me that. Can be kinda hard to believe someone can love you as much as your boyfriend can. Just accept it, and be happy he loves you. Guys don't lie when they say they love you (or at least, a respectable guy won't). Believe him! Tell him you love him too (if you can truthfully say that). [ Sporkster's advice column | Ask Sporkster A Question ]
FunkyHoMoSapien answered Saturday April 2 2005, 11:00 am: it is very possible that you want more from him than just an "I love You". it could be the tone of his voice or his body language. you might not believe him because the of the way your relationship is goin. if you ever get da fellin that he might not see you as that kind of a lover, than you might remember that and incorperate it to when he says he loves you. i'm not 100% sure about this question, but i hope my advice is of use. [ FunkyHoMoSapien's advice column | Ask FunkyHoMoSapien A Question ]
therocketsummer answered Saturday April 2 2005, 11:00 am: It's kind of hard to determine why you wont believe him with the imformation you gave us. Tell your boyfriend to say "I love you" whenever he himself believes what he is telling you is real. If you trust him you'd know that whenever he says it now he believes inside himself that he loves you. At that point in time you should try and believe him because he might think you don't love him because you don't believe he loves you. [ therocketsummer's advice column | Ask therocketsummer A Question ]
girdy_goo15 answered Saturday April 2 2005, 10:59 am: either you are insecure or there is something your heart is trying to tell you. there might be something wrong with him that you can't see on the outside [ girdy_goo15's advice column | Ask girdy_goo15 A Question ]
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