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help, my friend might be pregnant
i know you are going to read this and think its me, its not and actually i don't care what you think..anyways, my friend thinks shes pregnant. shes 2 weeks late on her period. she got some kind of infection where she had to take medicine that might delay her period a little bit. she took a pregnancy test and she said that if 2 lines show up, then shes pregnant..she showed me the test and i saw 2 lines, one was slightly darker than the other..but i saw 2 lines. she claims shes not pregnant, but is going to take another test. i dont know what to do for her...?
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ok so im answering this because I thought i was pregnant about a week ago. it is soo scarey. but my friend and i went to planned parenthood and told them i need a pregnancy test. everything was totally free and confidental. it took long the wait was like four hours!! but everything was FREE! they gave me a card since im underage and have no medical benefits because i cant tell my parents and so if i was ever pregnant i can get free help/abortion or whatever i want to do. i can get free birth control and examines too. so take her there. call 411 and ask for a local planned parenthood in ur city.its free AND they dont tell ur parents :)
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well tell her to take the test again, it could just be the medicene so don't panic util you really know. When she does you can always take her to planned parenthood and they will help you out.
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just let her get through it by herself. sometimes its best to let them do thingd by theirselves becuz their kinda different when pregnant.
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the only thing you can do! stand by her and help her through it. its a good idea for her to take anotherpregnancy test and confirm the results. if there positive then suggest she goes to see her doctor or the local family planning clinic. go with her and support her. its a really big thing that she is going to have to deal with and she may be in shock so support her and reasure her that its going to be all right. whatever her descision is on what she is going to do you need to have her back and help her through it!
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You cant do crap. Its her problem let her deal with it.
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all you can do is hope for the best!!
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What kind of medicine? If she was told it might mess up her period then that's the problem. don't worry about it. Has she had sex since her last period?
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If the results of the pregnancy test were ambiguous, it's best to get another test. It's best to go to a doctors for a blood test, which is more accurate than an at-home pregnancy test. If she's nervous and finding it difficult, offer to be there with her when she gets the results and support her. Offer to drive / accompany her to the doctors surgery if she goes. She might find it hard to come to terms with being pregnant if she is, and you just need to be there to reassure her that it's alright and that she has your support. If she's in denial about the possibility of pregnancy, she might need a bit of help from you to get her to go to the doctors, but it's really important she gets things confirmed either way as soon as possible so that if a decesion has to be made, she can have time to do so. All the best.
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just be there for her. my friend thought she was pregnant and she took the test and 2 tests showed positive and one showed negative. so don't worry too much. she's not pregnant but your friend might be. and if she is just comfort her. and be as supportive as you can. when she goes to the doctor go with her.
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I have seen the double lines test, and my older sister got hers confused so she compared mine and hers,and she was pregnant, the lines are hard to see, but she was pregnant, so I am thinking that your friend is pregnant, but to prove it to her, let her take the test again. She is scared of being pregnant and seems to be in denial. But remember that when she finds out, you should support and comfort her, and don't let her not tell her parents for a while. Make sure that night she practices in the mirror, and maybe the next day tell her parents. They need to know as soon as possible so they can decide, and listen to her choice. I am hoping that she will raise the baby, and either put the baby for adoption instead of aborting it. My sister has her baby right now, and she loves him very much even though it wasn't expected, she is 17, yes thats very young, but shes getting through it. No, we don't kno for sure if shes pregnant, but thats what my hope is for her.
-TheTeenGirl
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heck if i know
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If she didnt have sex then she cant be pregnant first of all. second of all if she took medication for an infection that might delay her period then wut is she worried about if she didnt have sex.......................................................................... WHOOO I TURN 14 TODAY APRIL 2nd HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO ME
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She should go to the doctor and see.
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Well if she is pregnant then just help her through with the situation and make her feel comftorble. Don't leave here because she did somthing stupid or that she is to young. But make her feel able to talk to you about anything while she is if she is. And wish the best for her!
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There is nothing that you can do for her physically. Your biggest support to her will be emotional support. Just let her know that you will be there for her if she is pregnant, and encourage her to see a professional doctor for a professional pregnancy test. Store bought tests don't work 30% of the time.
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i no this advice may not help..but the best thing to do is to be there for her through everything..if she is pregnant..then stay by her side the whole time..help her with everything until she finds out for sure if shes pregnant or not..i no i prolly didnt help!
~*Sarah*~
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