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i just got braces~& i heard that you could have chewing gum but you couldnt have bubble gum

also what are some good foods you can eat with braces?

you can eat yogurt with braces because my friend sam ( she's a girl )said that her-self !
hope i helped

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Ok I am not happy with my life right now....and I have no idea why...I have friends and a bf who cares soo much about me...I'm a good student and I'm Secretary of my class at school...I have a lot going for me but I feel so empty inside...Please dont think that this is just for attention because thats why I cant tell my friends how I feel...I just feel like I need help...most of those things I said above were true but I messed up most of my friendships and lied to my bf about things. I'm a cutter and a snapper and I need help sorting out my life.

you need to go see a thearpist to help you sort your probles out

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I was friends with this girl named Tina for a whole grade before we grew apart. REcently, her mother died from cancer, and whenever I saw her after that she acted like she was fine, so I always made sure to act cheery and bright around her, and to pretend as though it never happened. My other friends all tell me I'm heartless and pretending like it never happened to her is just going to make it worse. What do I do?

tell her that you are sorry about her moms death and that you know how it feel to lose someone you love but if you need some one to talk to IM me at maytuff1

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sorry is this is long but I really need help so please don't skip over it
Ok my parents have been divorced my whole life I don't even know who my dad is. Well my mom has serious problems with finding guys. They usually beat her or cheat on her. I've had about a dozen stepfathers and all of them treat her like shit and she doesn't deserve that. Well my newest stepfather Richie has been with my mother for 2 years now and she is really happy with him. I've never seen my mom this happy before. He is soo nice to her. But the thing is he has a son (my stepbrother) who is constantly hitting me and raping me. I tried talking to my mom about it and she said that she would talk to my stepdad and my stepbrother. She did and then it stopped for a little while but then he did it again and it was even worse than it was before. He had a couple of his friends over and they thought that it would be fun to beat and rape his 14 year old step sister. I talked to my stepdad and he told me to stop making things up. He told my mother that I was making things up and they sent me to a shrink. Needless to say my stepbrother continued to do these things to me. I confronted my mother again and she told me to talk to my stepdad. I did and he told me that I was lying and that even if I wasn't I needed to get over it because we are a happy family and we all have to make sacrifices I told him that that was wrong and he hit me! Now he's been hitting me too when my mom isn't around. I don't know what to do. She is soo happy and she deserves to be. I don't want to ruin this for her. My question is should I just deal with this so that she can be happy or is there anyway that I can get help without ruining this for her?

tell your mom that your pregnant and then have a dna test done to see if it is your step brothers and if it is make him suffer go to the cops and say that he raped you and if he is older that 18 he will go to jail or prison and if not 18 he will go juvie that way you dont ruin your moms relationship and then they know your not lieing if you ever need any one to talk to IM me at maytuff1 hope it gets better

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alright, i used to mess around with this boy but i guess it never got serious between me and him. he was my first kiss.and i still like him ,but he has a girlfriend and his girlfriend is my FRIEND! and sometimes i see him when im with her..what should i do? :0)

tell him about your feelings

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i'm 13/female and i've never waxed or shaved before. can someone please help me by suggesting what brands are good and what i should do and how you wax or shave and if it hurts or not and other info thx

the kind of razor i use is venus and i personaly think it is one of the best razors that have ever used. shaving does not hurt only when you cut your self but as long as you dont go sideways with it then you wont cut your self i really can not help you on waxing because i have never had it done but i have heard that it hurts but anyways i think shaving is much easier than waxing
hope i helped
-Sassygurl74-
p.s. if you need somebody to talk to you can e-mail me at maytuff1@walmartconnect.com or you can IM me at maytuff1

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OK heres the dealio
i HATE showers...they just seem like a waste of time for me. Does anyone know any ways that will make showering fun?? no sarcastic answers please. Thanks

1:if you like to sing ,sing in the shower
2:if you like to dance ,dance in the shower
3:if you like to smell good ,take a shower
4:if you like to shave ,shave in the shower
5:if you like to pop the pimples on your back ,do it in the shower
6:if yo ulike to swim ,swim in the shower
7:if you like to give your dog a bath or your pet(s) ,do it in the shower
hope i helped
-Sassygurl74-

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What can you do to stop the annoying sound of hearing yourself breathe in your ear? Anything? Or you just have to let it go away on it's own?

i have the perfect answer listen to the radio all the time until your ears fall off
the best of luck
-Sassygurl74-

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In the Casper cha cha Slide, it says to do the charlie Brown. What is that? thankx

i think it when you jump back and forth on one leg and back to the other
hope i helped
-Sassygurl74-

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Hi! Okay i am a really thin person....i am NOT Anorexic i swear! I eat actually alot, i just dont gain the pounds as fast! But my hands in the winter they will like turn colors...like in gym they will trun purple and red and stuff. And if you squeeze them they will turn red! Is this normal...my one friend said it could be a blood clot! Help me

you should go to your family doctor and get this check out you never can be to careful
the best of hopes
-Sassygurl74-

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i had my first real boyfriend last year and we got really serious, we said we loved each other and we did it lasted about 6 months but he moved, and i never thought i wouldnt be able to get over him like this or would miss him this much, its been like a year sence we broke up, and i still miss him bad, how do i get over him?

lost in love

you can never really get over him. but you keep all the good memories that you had spent together but you can also make new memories. hey and they might even be better than the first ones theres nothing more that you can do but you can call him and keep in touch.
the best hope and wishes for you
-Sassygurl74-
p.s. if you need someone to talk to you can IM us at maytuff1 or e-mail us at maytuff1@walmartconnect.com

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when do you start showing when your pregnant?? and does anyone know how much tests at planned parenthood cost?

i think it is about 2 months after you are pregnant is when you start showing im not exatly sure how much the tests at planned parenthood cost but i know its not cheap!!!!!
hope i helped
-Sassygurl74-

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this boy named jerry is unbeleiveable.. i mean he's claming he has feelings for me but im unsure.. he's in 10th grade and im in 8th next year we will both go to high school its exciting.. well anyways.. his friends complain and write me advice notes asking how they can get their buddy jerry back because he talks n spends his time thinkin all around me (cute huh) well he doesn't want to start a relationship now because we did before but we can never find the time to work it out.. so i don't know if even though i really like jerry i should play the waiting game.. or if i should just go on and find other men.. untill the 9th grade...? thanks for your help

you should keep it low and just be friends with him if he wants you he will get you so i guess you can play the waiting game with him
-Sassygurl74-

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Theres a girl at my school (not my friend but i talk to her) and her boyfriend recently broke up with her. She's heart broken and feels that she isn't good enough. Now she wont eat..shes refusing to eat and its scaring everyone. She is dropping pounds by the second and is always depressed. I really want to help her, but I don't know her family personally enough to tell them. Should I let her suffer? i would feel wrong not telling anyone.

you should tell somebody and try to get her some help. like get her phone# and tell her parents they will do somthing about it and please do not let her suffer
-Sassygurl74-

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okay so I've been dating this guy for like well 2 weeks and i care for him with all my heart! and i think it might even b love! and i kno that he feels the same way i mean he tells me everyday how much he cares for me and stuff so im hoping he means it! well today my best friend just told me a bunch of stuff that i think is totally wrong about my bf like that he does drugs! and that he still is in love with his X! and ive talked to him about all this b4 and he told me that he would never do drugs and he loves me more that n e one! but then again most guys would say that right? so please help me! i dont know who to beleive

First ask him about it then if you dont believe him ask his friends for the truth.
-Sassygurl74-

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I've been wanting to ask, what's emo? I've heard it a lot, but don't have a clue as to what it is, and nobody would tell me because they are such teases.

its a type of music . it means emotional
-Sassygurl74-

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Let me start out by saying that my sister is a nightmare. A big fat nightmare who makes your life turn into serious Hell. She is a thirteen year old snob who gets in everyones business, demands things from my parents who take it even though they don't like it. She has been damaging my life the most by trying to beat the crap out of me in front of her friends when I was severly sick, she didn't beat me up, but she kept trying to, and it made me upset, and I cried because it my body was aching. She has tried to smart mouth me in front of her friends, when my mom tells her not to do something, when shes not around, she will do it anyways, and when I try to stop her, she get up in my face, and says, "What are you gonna do about it?" Now, when things like this happens, I call my mom, and she'll just say, "stop it" even though thats probably about the hundreth time shes done it. She also lies, very bad. My parents know, but not as much, she tries spying on my phone conversations with my boyfriend, she is also known to read my other sisters diary to her friends on the phone, and laugh about it with them. She also told all of her friends something SO personal, I am not going to say, but it was so personal about my older sister. My parents do nothing about this. No matter how many times I try to ask them nicely, or I just slam it in their faces, they go talk to her, and she plays the innocent one. I told my mom tonight that she has made my life a living Hell, and all she said was, "well, she said the same thing about you" That made me so angry, because she looked at me like she believed her over me or she didn't know who to believe, HELLO! I am the innocent one here, everyone always says mean things about her, so they know shes the one whose rude! She is also known to hurt me in front of people, she'll grab underwear with blood in it, and will announce to everyone that its mine! When its really hers! I have dealt with this for a long time, and today, I just couldn't take it, I screamed in my room so loud, and tore all of the posters off of my wall, and scratched my face. I have gone crazy! When I heard somebody pick up the phone while me and my boyfriend were talking, I ran to my mom and yelled, "GET HER OFF THE PHONE NOW I HATE HER SO MUCH SOMEBODY JUST KILL HER!" And then, I went rambling on to my boyfriend how much I just want to kill her, and now I keep day dreaming about ways that I can kill her. I also kept saying, "shes a slut, a whore, a b*tch, a little sh*t, and an a*shole." I know shes a slut, but I will not get into detail about that. But I am asking somebody to please not tell me I need anger management, I know that this behavior is not abnormal, what person would not go crazy after dealing with a lying sister and parents who won't do anything about it? My behavior is scaring me, I've never hated somebody this much, I usually just like everybody, but everytime I think about wanting to kill her and it makes me feel good I get scared! I can't really talk to my parents, I've screamed it in their ears, and I've told them nicely, they don't listen to me.


Also, do not even think about having me talk to my sister, she is greedy, and selfish, all she cares about is herself, seriously, if its not her way, theres no way, shes a spoiled brat. So I guess what I'm asking is does anybody think I might be taking this too far? I know that I'm not, but does anyone think different? I know that this shouldn't get to me, but I have to live with her! I need ways to take my anger and sadness out, because all of my posters are ripped off of my wall. Also, my dad is getting me a therapist, so I can at least have somebody to talk to, but the whole time I'm probably going to ramble on about how much I hate her and wish she was dead, I have truly never felt this deeply of hate. My silly boyfriend wants me to fight her, but I'm not going to. But I hate her enough to. So, could anyone say something about this, like advice because I am in a huge puddle of misery. I just wish somebody would just think, "Maybe Sarah [me] has feelings too" when she makes fun of me, I wish she'd think, "Maybe since Sarah has depression, I shouldn't call her names because she feel pain too" And it makes me cry at night wondering how I'll ever get out of this Hell hole, somebody please give me comfort or anything that could help me. I've told my parents about my misery, so don't think that I havn't told anyone about this. I will rate.

Dear Sarah ,
try to calm yourself down .things will get better soon. and if you need someone to talk to about this here is my e-mail address : Maytuff1@wal-martconnect.com . ( because i understand how you feel ) or you can instant message me at : Maytuff1
- Sassygurl74-

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One of my teachers is always making fun of the students. I know it is just in good fun but 2 girls started crying over this. Should i tell someone or just let him go on making fun of everyone?
Please i need help!

you should tell someone even if it is good fun. like the principal is a good person to tell .
-Sassygurl74-

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okay- here goes.. well.. lately my dad has been acting wikkid weird.. everything you say to him, he turns into an agument... my mom tried to tell me its because his dad (my papa) just dies in november, buthe has been acting like this only sincethe end of february.. well.. any way, my point is i really wanna know how i can get him to either stop turning everything into an argument , besides "talking to him" because, really, that doesnt work because he'll just get mad and FLiP OUT! PLEASE HELP ME!! i rate really good!!

First of all i'm sorry to here that about your Grandfather. ask your dad " what's wrong , i really want to know " ( ACT REALLY INTERSTED )if he says nothing then ask him if he wants to go to a therapist for help . p.s. hope it goes well
-Sassygurl74-

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okay im 14/f.

i started babysitting at the beginning of the school year. the lady who hired me said that she needed someone she would be able to rely on. she pays really good money but recently her hours got changed and i'm working 3:30 to 6:00 when usually i only did 3:30 to 5:00. i don't even get to eat with my family. and when i get home all i wanna do is just go to bed.

the kids are fucked up. they get disciplined but their mother just laughs when she yells at them. they're really spoiled and get their way all the time.

the other day i was watching them and i was swinging on this swing. well their dog attacked me for no reason. when i told the mother she said "oh sometimes you just need to hit him" he even ripped my pants! there's a small hole in the pants and there's a HUGE bruise on my leg from where he bit me.

when i got my paycheck their was no money for the pants that the dog ripped. i'm really sick of them and i wanna quit but i don't know how to say it. if the dog bites me again i'll have no problem but what should i do in the mean time? i was thinking of giving her my two weeks notice but chickened out. what do i say?

if i was you i would ask for the money to replace your pants . and if she doesnt give you the money quit baby-sitting for her and the little brats
- Sassygurl74-

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