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i miss him
i had my first real boyfriend last year and we got really serious, we said we loved each other and we did it lasted about 6 months but he moved, and i never thought i wouldnt be able to get over him like this or would miss him this much, its been like a year sence we broke up, and i still miss him bad, how do i get over him?
lost in love
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you can never really get over him. but you keep all the good memories that you had spent together but you can also make new memories. hey and they might even be better than the first ones theres nothing more that you can do but you can call him and keep in touch.
the best hope and wishes for you
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first of all, how old are you? you cant possibly be serious with a guy if your on this website. and if you want to get over him, 1) shut up and stop thinking about him, 2) get a life with other friends 3) be sexy like cocoa
love me, hate me, either way i'm on your mind
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You need to get out and do stuff with your friends.It happened to me just do other stuff to get him off your mind.
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Okay. There is no real way to get over a person. I'm going to tell you that now. You can't take a medication and expect everything to just go away. I've been through the same exact thing..but I didn't have sex. But I don't think that really matters. I have been through it about three times. I lost the person I loved. People might say that not to talk to him or anything or to try to talk to him. It all really depends on you, yourself. One day, when no one is home(and youre ready) you need to get ice cream (or whatever suits you) and buy a lot of tissues. Take out everything you have of him and just take a few hours to cry over it all and look over everything. Flash back to memories and cry as hard as you can. Get a shoe box and put what you have of him in it (letters, pictures, ect. If you have big things that won't fit..find a box that will.) Decorate the box however you want and slowly close the box to try to put away your feelings. This sounds really stupid..but it is what me and all my friends do something like that happens. Put away the box, and if you ever feel bad you can go back to it. Have a journal in it and keep notes about your feelings. Eventually, you will stop going to the box so much and start to move on. You will learn to be happy, and by the next time you go to the box, you can look at it without crying, and write a closing entry on your journal. That is what I do. I know it sounds stupid...but it helped me a lot. I don't know. If you don't like it...thats perfectly okay... But I'm just trying to help you with what I done. I hope I helped and good luck, I know it is not easy.
Much love.
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..i feel your pain...same thing happened to me..only he moved like 6 months after we broke up. This might sound pathetic but its been 2 yrs since we broke up and over a year since he moved..but i still miss him too. Time makes it a lot better. I still miss him..but its not the kind of miss where i cry over him or get depressed about it. So try hangin with friends..going out..keeping busy..and over time it will get easier.
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Time. Everybody's diffrent. You probably shouold go out more and be with others. Do you have any contact with him at all? writing letters or email? If not you could do that, at least keep up a friendship.:)
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