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i hate preps so if u think ur all that, dont bother talking to me. im not mean, i have just have strong opinions on anything and i usually dont tell ppl what they want to hear, so they end up hating me when theyre the sorry asses who shouldnt be asking these gay questions anyways. and i hate when people hate my advice because its not what they wanted to hear. if u kno what u want to hear, why ask a question that people will tell u otherwise? wow people cannot handle the truth.

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There is a new girl in my school. She was recently expelled from her Catholic school because she got an abortion. One of my friends was friends with her for a while since they lived near eachother and now she's coming to my school. I have my opinions about alot of things and abortion I have a very strong opinion about it and I'll argue my point until my face is blue. I'm 1000% against unless you were raped or you are having difficulties with your pregnancy and it could cost you your own life. Just by knowing this, I already do not like her because of that reason and that reason only. My friends all know that if they were to get pregnant and get an abortion, I would probably never speak to them again. I am not a virgin, but I do know that if I was ever to get pregnant, I would never get an abortion reguardless of my situation. I just think it's wrong. But please, do not bash me because of my beliefs just answer me this, could you at the very least understand why I wouldn't want to be friends with her? Is it wrong for me to feel this way?

well, it is her and her parents decision and you cant change what happened. now, i have a very strong opinion on abortion too. im totally for it and i'd love to debate you, but i haven't got time for that. but what i'm wondering is when you consider it to be a living being. my personal opinion is right when it comes out. and i think that teens are not able to handle pregnancies therefore leading to abuse and neglect from the unwanted child that they could have "gotten rid" of. im not telling u to love her or whatever. but what i'm saying is that people deserve second chances and if you judge her on one of your beliefs, it isn't fair because her's are different.

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I have only been in one relationship before, and that was with a guy who was completely clueless about everything. That relationship really didn't last long.
But now there's another guy on the scene, and I am aware that he is a little more experienced.
I am very self-concious, I am not happy with my lower body (from the hips down really), and I'm not sure how comfortable I would be doing things with this guy. I really really like him, but I have never done anything beyond kissing before and I think this guy would want more.
What should I do? The relationship is in its early stages and I have made it clear that I want to wait, but for the time being it would be nice to have an idea of what I should do.
There is also the problem of me not knowing WHAT to do, which also contributes to the problem.
All advice welcomed.

it all depends on if you want to or not. if alls he wants is head, and you dont want to, then dont go out with him. plus your only 14 and 14 year olds shouldnt be doing that. be safe, the less people in this world the better.

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I heard that there was like either an organization or a website that you can get a card pledging to abstinence, does anyone know anything about it?

make one and label it

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omg! i already had a question about this kid Brandon, (who i like and is 15)..he is my cousins friend, and im younger than him..well last time i went over there and my aunt and uncle weren't around, he started touching me..i mean, my butt, my chest, stuff like that..omg and i havent told my parents! what should i do?!!!

well it depends on if you like it. if you dont just ignore it or kick him in his balls and ask him how he likes to be touched in places meant for you only. if you like it, stop complaining.

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I went out with this guy on April 20th, 2003 and we went out for about 9 months. He stopped talking to me all of a sudden, had his friends lie to me and tell me he was in jail..and all this other crap. I soon figure out he had 3 other girlfriends ! Anyway, it look a long time but I got over him. It's been over a year and when I think about him, I dont cry or anything. But latley I've been kinda depressed because pretty soon its going to be April 20th and I think about the good times and just....how do I forget about this guy? I dont want to be 30 and still remembering April 20th as the day I met him! I want to forget him!

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okay, your 15. get a life. if he doesnt want to talk to you, or be with you, then he doesnt want to. when guys break up with you, they dont think about you. trust me. April 20th is your new day to not think about him, but throw darts at his picture.

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i had my first real boyfriend last year and we got really serious, we said we loved each other and we did it lasted about 6 months but he moved, and i never thought i wouldnt be able to get over him like this or would miss him this much, its been like a year sence we broke up, and i still miss him bad, how do i get over him?

lost in love

first of all, how old are you? you cant possibly be serious with a guy if your on this website. and if you want to get over him, 1) shut up and stop thinking about him, 2) get a life with other friends 3) be sexy like cocoa

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I went to the mvoies and the person i like was there his friend was with him and i think he told the person i like that i like him. The person I like started talking to my friends but not me he would avoid looking at me. He also used to like me, what does this mean?

well, just flipping let him know you like him. who really gives a crap? and if he doesnt like you, oh well. get over it. or kick him, your choice.

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