I went out with this guy on April 20th, 2003 and we went out for about 9 months. He stopped talking to me all of a sudden, had his friends lie to me and tell me he was in jail..and all this other crap. I soon figure out he had 3 other girlfriends ! Anyway, it look a long time but I got over him. It's been over a year and when I think about him, I dont cry or anything. But latley I've been kinda depressed because pretty soon its going to be April 20th and I think about the good times and just....how do I forget about this guy? I dont want to be 30 and still remembering April 20th as the day I met him! I want to forget him!
gp4l answered Saturday April 2 2005, 9:29 pm: sweetie its gonna take you a while to forget him and there is nothing you can really do about it...i know that you probably wanna forget about him and never be reminded of him again but you just cant make things go away it takes time for you to mend and thats natural.. i wish i could tell you something to make you forget about him but it really just takes time and eventually even though it might not seem like it to you, you will forget about him i promise and when i say this i am speaking from experience...i hope my advice helped to ease your mind i wish i could give you more advice on what to do but what i told you is really all there is that you can do... [ gp4l's advice column | Ask gp4l A Question ]
Teza answered Saturday April 2 2005, 10:27 am: Find your self someone that is better than him and keep your self busy. Meet new people. [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
ballerina04 answered Saturday April 2 2005, 8:11 am: I kind of had the same problem a few months ago. You have to remember you deserve so much better than what you had. You deserve a guy who cares about you, and only you. Basically, remeber there are so many other guys out there, and you can't get hung up on this one person. Good luck! ♥ Kristen [ ballerina04's advice column | Ask ballerina04 A Question ]
sparta answered Saturday April 2 2005, 3:24 am: hey,
I am sorry your having such a hard time forgetting this guy. Its always hard losing someone you really cared about. Its even harder when you find out they were a bad boyfriend.
You probly won't ever forget about him, and thats ok. You really liked him, you don't need to forget about him. Keep on remembering all the good times you two had. With time it won't hurt so bad to remember those things. One way to help you feel better is to get out as much as you can. Try to date someone. Even if you aren't over him totally. Tell the next guy you find the truth. If he is the right guy he might be able to help you get over him.
If you don't feel comfortable going out and seeing other people, just try and go out with some friends. I wish there was some magic cure to help you, but when you care about someone only time will heal you.
bluntXbutXtrue answered Saturday April 2 2005, 3:15 am: okay, your 15. get a life. if he doesnt want to talk to you, or be with you, then he doesnt want to. when guys break up with you, they dont think about you. trust me. April 20th is your new day to not think about him, but throw darts at his picture.
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