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Boyfriend Vs. Best friend
okay so I've been dating this guy for like well 2 weeks and i care for him with all my heart! and i think it might even b love! and i kno that he feels the same way i mean he tells me everyday how much he cares for me and stuff so im hoping he means it! well today my best friend just told me a bunch of stuff that i think is totally wrong about my bf like that he does drugs! and that he still is in love with his X! and ive talked to him about all this b4 and he told me that he would never do drugs and he loves me more that n e one! but then again most guys would say that right? so please help me! i dont know who to beleive
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Listen you dumb bitch, this is NOT love, real love takes time. This is LUST. I'm not even going to anwser this ridiculous question, because your boyfriend is a dumb fuck too. God I hate some people.
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First ask him about it then if you dont believe him ask his friends for the truth.
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Oviously it seems like your mate is jelous
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You've been dating him for 2 weeks? Hon, that's not enough to know you are in love with him. You may not agree with me, but I think the word "love" is SO overused when people don't even know what it means. If you're having doubts about your boyfriend, it is not love. If I were you, I would get both your bestfriend and boyfriend and sit down with them both. Have a long time with them and tell them you know one of them is lying. Explain to them you need to know the truth, even if it hurts, but you will still always be there for support. Honestly though, either your boyfriend or bestfriend are lying. And whoever the liar is, isn't worth your trust. I hope you find the truth.
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contrary to popular opinion, not all guys are out to just have sex with girls. some of them actually do mean it when they say that they care for someone. ok, the advice: gossip is a terrible terrible thing. watch out for it. do not trust what your friend says for face value, but do consider it. she could be bad mouthing your bf out of jealousy of relationship, or time taken away from the 2 of you; or she could be telling you what she heard that might not be true; or it could be true. just take what she says as a heads up. if he shows any signs of doing drugs, or being more than friends with his ex, then consider what to do from there. but for now, just keep your eyes open
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she is just being a carrion eating vulture, knife her.
-hitler
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If i were you i would talk to both your friend and your boyfriend.. it could be that your friend is just jealous of you.. or that you boyfriend really isnt the best guy. Dont loose a friend over a guy.. but just try to explain to her that u realy like this guy and he makes u happy (if he really does) if she really is a good friend.. she'll eighter understand or PROVE to you that hes on drugs and still in love with his ex. Good luck
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well you have only been going out with him for a week. you know youer friend alot better than him so dont sacrafice your friendship over a boy. She could be telling the truth about the whole drugs thing. most likely she is jealous that you have a relationship with someone. When a guy says he loves you he doesnt always mean it. its just a bunch of words. its his actions that prove it. you must be really confused. Just wait until the situation clears up a little bit. then it will be easier. but if there is a point where you need to choose a boy over your best friend. a boy isnt always going to be there for you like a friend will. keep that in mind
<3 kayla
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Two weeks? And you think it's love? How old are you? I say believe your best friend. She has no reason to lie to you, however, he has what he thinks is a very good reason to lie to you: he wants sex.
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