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oh well my friend has this really great boyfriend. and i think i might be jelous..but i dont know. she knows that i thinks hes cute/hot and i promised her i would never go out with him jsut for her. but im knida jelouse of her. what can i do? thanks!
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What I would tell you to do is just forget him. I mean, its her boyfriend and I know you will find a guy for you and what do you know, maybe some day SHE will be jealous of YOU! But its not a good idea either to go out with him if they break up because she might get mad. So, just keep looking for a guy and I know you will find one! Hope I helped, bi!
**~eMiLy~**
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Well i can tell you one thing you cant do..... let the boy come between your friendship if you do that you have no hope!
~*SAYLOR*~
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Well I would just tell her that you have feeling for him and that you might be jelious
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Get out and find that someone! It will keep you off him and her and you wont be jealous. Even if he isnt at your school.. go to the mall go anywhere and start flirting! Good boyfriend are few and hard to find but start lookin hard!
hope i helped
bad advice today :(
~ KiNkY4bLiNk182
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HEY! ok look, i've been having the same exact problem so you're not the only one, girl! ok this is what i have done... i went up to my friend and told her, straight out, i thought i was jelous of her! i mean yes, it sounds SOO stupid but it will help! maybe she is jelous of you in some way too! she will tell you that you have nothing to be jelous of and if she gets mad at you for this then say that you're not trying to break them up it's just maybe her and her b/f have something you want, like a relationship!
* HoPe I HeLpEd!*
-*Marissa*-
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Don't worry - everyone gets jealous :) The thing is, he isn't perfect, however much he may seem it. Remind yourself that everyone has their faults. You'll soon forget about him - just get out there and have some fun! It might be good too to have some alone time with your friend so that you don't feel like he's taking her off you. It's great that your friend knows how you feel about him though - so many people make the mistake of never telling their friends and, instead of having a laugh and a giggle about it five years down the line, they end up never speaking again. You probably don't like him personally that much - just the idea of romance and of having a great boyfriend. You'll get one soon, don't worry :)
Finally, don't let the jealousy consume you - tell your friend that you're a little bit jealous and she'll maybe have a little laugh and tell you all of his faults and why you shouldn't be! Just remember that it's fine to be jealous - everyone is at some point!
Blessed Be,
Rach xxx
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Its okay to be jelous but try to stay away from him because he is your friends boyfriend. You can still think hes cute and hot or whatever but dont do anything that will make her mad. Try to find yourself a boyfriend. x0
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Nothing. Everyone gets jealous once in a while, some people are jealous constantly. She's your bestfriend, and if she really is your bestfriend, you will leave her man alone. Just because someone is cute/hot it does not mean he's YOUR soul mate and that you should ruin a good relationship. Just get out there and find a guy that's perfect for you.
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find your own slab of meat.
-hitler
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its good that you admit that you are jealous of her. theres nothing you can really do. just let her enjoy herself and you are just going to have to deal with it. you dont want to make her feel bad about falling in love with someone.
<3 kayla
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In my opinion theres a golden rule that you abide by with your girlfriends..and that is dont go after one of your girlfriends man. I dont care if your girlfriends say it doesnt bother them or w.e..BECAUSE IT DOES. Yeah so ppl say..fighting over a boy is stupid but..when you get a bf and your friend likes him too..and is jealous youll see how it feels. Girls are territorial..well..most of them are. Also it shows what kind of character of a person you are when you do this.
So my advice is forget about this guy..even tho he is prolly totally hot and a nice guy..he likes your friend.
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its alright to be jelious - yah i have tons of friends with hot bf's and i have a bf of my own.. so what! as long as you dont break a promise. its alright to look but dont touch:) find a cutie of your own.
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i think you should flirt with him only if she breaks up with him. you should wait untill she gives you the ok untill you put a move on the hot guy becuz guys will come and go but friends will stay forever!!!! good luck!!!!!
¤JeNnIfEr¤
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It's normal to be jealous, especially if she talks about him all the time. But there are plenty more guys that will like YOU, and she will be the jealous one ;) But don't let a guy ruin your friendship, I've done that and it sucks. Focus less on him and more on the available guys around you. And if you feel like you need a break from guys, focus on something else altogether. Perhaps bats, perhaps Asian gangster vampire movies. Whatever you like most. Always remember: You are alive! Take advantage of it!
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