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should i break up with my boyfriend?
My boyfriend and I have been dating for 9 months. I am 16 (sophomore) and he is 18 (senior). Recently we have been getting into stupid arguements because he seems to like arguing and always has to be right. I always give into him just because I don't want to fight anymore. He also never listens to me when I say "no" when he tries to touch me. We both lost our virginity to each other and sometimes I let him, but when I tell him not to, if im just not in the mood he, doesn't seem to understand that. We've talked about it numerous times and I've tried everything. Do you think this relationship can be saved? Because he means so much to me and I would hate more than anything to hurt him.
Thank you
-Confused
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well....you said you didnt want want to hurt him...well hunny comone...look at all he has done to you. He doesnt respect what you want when it comes to sex....respect is one of the most important things in a relationship, and if he doesnt respect you, the relationship cant work. Dince he doesnt respect you..hes hurting you. Dumping him might hurt him, but by the way hes acting..he doesnt deserve you. If you have talked about it, and nothing as changed..i dont see how it ever will. As it comes to you religions...its very good its so important to and i dont see why he wont talk to you more about his...i dunno of hes hiding something, im not familiar with the baptist religion...but it looks like he just doesnt know enough about it. He should support your beliefs, and if he doesnt...once again, he doesnt deserve you. I hope i helped! Thanx for asking just me, it makes me feel good people want just my advice..it means something i said changed someone for the better :) If you have more questions just ask.
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Wow hun sounds pretty complicated but i got advice for ya.. Um well 9 months is a while ive been with my baby that long to so far and i could imagine how feel bout makin this decision.. well youve tried to make him listen and talk to him.. but it seems to not work.. Guys are like that first of all bout the whole sex thing cause my boyfriend does it too.. jus tell him you really wish he'd respect you bout not wanting to do it i told my boyfriend that and he does now.. um if your boyfriend loves you he'll understand that and respect you sayin NO.. Argumeants are pretty normal in any relationship.. but basically try not to argue so much with him he'll probably give it up once he realizes he wins lol.. um anyways i would wait longer to see if it gets worse or if he doesnt stop then i'd break up with him cause hun i know you dont want to break up with him.. if it gets better then you dont have worries.. i hope the best for you.. much luv dez x0x0
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