My GF and i have been together for 8 months now and every once in a while she will get kinda upset at what i do sometimes but we always work it out. there are somthings that she does that bothers me too but i never bring it up i always ignore it, do you think i should bring it up or not? i need some help
K2204 answered Sunday April 3 2005, 11:16 am: No dont! because I have the same probelm with my boyfriend of 14 months. and when you bring up that kind of stuff, its very hurtful on the girl! well i know, for me anyways, i dont like it because then it makes me feel like he doesnt like me or something!! and i am sure that there are things about you that she doesnt like all that much either! just keep it in!!! :)
HyperactiveMiss answered Sunday April 3 2005, 5:40 am: I really think you should talk to her about it. A relationship should have a balance, not "oh the boyfriend has to give in to everything". Keep it equal and talk it out. If she refuses to talk or gets too hotheaded about things, maybe she's not the right girl for you. [ HyperactiveMiss's advice column | Ask HyperactiveMiss A Question ]
karenR answered Sunday April 3 2005, 12:20 am: It just depend's on how much it's bothering you. If it really really bother's you then by all means say something. If you don't she think's it ok with you and then later it will be harder to get her to stop it.:) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
blinkgurl813 answered Saturday April 2 2005, 11:57 pm: Hey.. you sound exactly like my boyfriend lol You should definately bring it up! It may be hard but you really need to tell her how you feel.. itll bring you closer because if your upset by something.. then how are you two going to be happy. I really hate it when my boyfriend doesnt tell me how he feels and then i feel really bad when i get mad at him but i cant help it. Just tell her how you feel and what bothers you and everything should work out! [ blinkgurl813's advice column | Ask blinkgurl813 A Question ]
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