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I like this guy. ill call him "carl". and i already went out with him but people told me that he cheated on me so i broke up with him. and after that i got really sad cuz i still loved him. so i called him a week later and we talked for an hour. and we became friends again which made me happy. then he asked my friend if he should ask me back out and she said yes so i thought he was gonna. then one of my friends told me she likes "carl". so i got really sad. then he asked her out and now they are going out. but she told me before he asked her out that they made out a little. i was gonna cry. and i REALLY REALLY want him back. what should i do? i rate good
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You broke up with him. That doesn't mean he doesn't still want to be your friend. He may have decided not to ask you out again because he was afraid you'd break up with him again.
The thing is you were broke up, and he was fair game. I know you won't want to hear that but its true. You'll need to decide if you want to say something and break them up, and probably lose your friend. Is he trustworthy enough to risk that? Up to you.:)
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If you want to know the truth i have to say that if your so called best friend is really your best friend then she shouldnt have made out with the guy you like and have gone out with. even if its just a little it doesnt seem right. i went through this same thing so from experience i am gonna tell you that he never really liked you....there are better guys out there that will treat you better then this guy "carl" did and your best friend is not really your best friend if she said yes. bestfriends dont go out or make out with bestfriends ex boyfriends. its just not the right thing. talk to your friend and tell her how you feel....if you feel confident enough take the chance and talk to carl too.
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I think you should talk with your friend and ask her why she went out with your ex. Also, I think you need to tell your ex that you still have feelings for him and maybe he will understand. If he really does care for you to, then you guyz should get back together!! Hope I helped, bye bye.
**~eMiLy~**
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You definitely need to tell "Carl" that you still have feelings for him and that you made a big mistake of believing that he did cheat on you without asking him about it. Your friend that went behind your back and starting liking "Carl" isn't a good friend at all and you don't deserve a friend like that. "Carl" probably does still like you or has feelings for you because if he asked your friend if he should ask you back out, then that tells you he does have feelings for you. Talk to "Carl", tell him how you feel, and there is a chance that you two could get back together. Forget about your friend who went out with him because what she did was wrong.
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Well I think you should tell him you still have feelings for him. And your friend who's goig out with "Carl" isn't really a good one because girl rule states, that a friend cannot date a friends ex.Because that's just wrong and since she knew you still liked him @@. Anyways you should diffintily tell him. and i think that maybe he still has feelings for you and if you two do get back togeher drop that friend who dated him because she shouldn't have been looking at your ex like that.
*Hoped I helped*
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Well i think the best thing to do is move on..life is to short to sit around and wait for "carl".You want to live like there isn`t a tomorrow cause it`s a gift.Moving on may seem hard but once you have you will be so happy that you did`nt make yourself miserable over that one guy..you really can`t make someone love you honestly..love choices where it will stay and where it will not and maybe it will just come and stay for a little why then it will move on to somewhere else.Life isn`t all about love though..so don`t waste it worrying about it.
GOOd luck.
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Tell your friend your feelings toward him... and then go from there.
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