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Well hello everyone. My name is Bunny, and i'm here to give you all advice. First things first, i'm very straight forward. I'm not about to sugar coat things for you. I tell it like it is. That's not saying i'm mean, just don't expect me to tell you that everything will be okay, when you obviously have some work to do. With that said, i really do give great advice, and i'm here when you need me.

xoxo,
Bunny

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i decided i need to get into shape. so today i did 100 sit-ups (within 15 minutes.. i know, that's a LONG time =(..). is that too much to start with? does anyone have any other good exercising tips, for your stomach? (besides sit-ups and crunches).

also, can you do sit-ups by laying down and then going up, instead of bending your legs? Because i don't bend my legs.. so maybe it's not considered a sit-up.

thanks in advance!

if you want to get abs, you need to do cardio along with crunches, or your stomach will just get bigger, because muscle will build underneath any fat on your stomach.

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I'm getting a hair straightening iron for 20 bucks. It's a ceramic ConAir with gold colored plates. Will it work as good as an expensive one, like a CHI?

conair has never worked for me. andis straighteners are about the same price and work about 363265032650943 times better.

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I have glasses and I think that is the reason why no boyz like me. My friend, Zoe, is beautiful, gets all the boyz, all the girlz wanna be her friend, and she gets like an I-POD and an electric gutair and stuff. But, anyway, I think I am nice, cool, quiet, all my friends even say so, so I just dont understand why no boyz like me. I think its just becuz I wear glasses and that hurts. What can I do to get a boy to like me?

I am 13 years old.

*I* wear glasses. believe me, it doesn't have ANYTHING to do with your glasses at all. If you're interested in a guy, get to know him, and show him all of your great qualities. If he likes you, he likes you. If he doesnt, its NOT because of your glasses, and if it is, he's shallow, and not worth your time. Your time will come, and you WILL find someone.

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okay well i just wrote a question about going on a diet togain weight since im only 100 pounds... well i was jw... but do guys prefer girls that are skinny... or girls of average weight??

all of my guy friends seem to enjoy a girl of more of an average weight. i know a girl who is very skinny, and sometimes they comment on that fact, and how it's not so appealing.

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Ok...

im dating this guy its gonna be 2 years soon...but hes really jelous like he always think im flriting with every guy i talk to..and i had this best friend we'll call him tyler..well since me and my boyfriend are fighting alot about the flirting thing im hanging arould tyler more and i think im starting to like him more than a friend but i still love my boyfriend and im extremly confused..i need some help fast!

thanks if ur advice isnt mean ill rate all 5's

My thought is that you're liking Tyler only subconciously, to "get back" at your boyfriend. You may not even realize you're doing it.

It's time to have a chat with your boyfriend. Tell him that what he says offends you, and you don't like it when he says things like that, because it's not true. BUT ONLY if it really ISN'T true. If you ARE flirting with Tyler because you DO like him, then tell you're boyfriend that you've had your eye on someone else, and call it quits.

But if you don't like Tyler, and you're boyfriend actually is reading it all wrong, then tell him that. He's only doing it because he likes you a lot, and doesn't want to lose you.

Either way, talk with your boyfriend. The sooner the better.

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ok i had a best friend rachel and we were the bestest of friends then one terrible day she moved and we kept in touch but then she moved to indianna and she never called when she was in indianna and me and her havent called eachother since (we werent mad at eachother) i miss her so much i had a dream i met her again, and i was crying when i found out it was a dream i need help please! i will rate 5's on advices that arent mean!

Do you have her phone number? Address?

Well if not, find it somehow. Give her a call or write her a nice long letter. I'm sure she'll be glad to hear from you. Tell her that you miss her terribly. Maybe you can even make plans to see each other again this summer.

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OK heres the dealio
i HATE showers...they just seem like a waste of time for me. Does anyone know any ways that will make showering fun?? no sarcastic answers please. Thanks

Showers are important. They are NOT a waste of time. You are not 4. Bathing does not need to be made a game for you. Grow up and use some hygene. Jump in the shower, lather up, rinse off and thats it. It's quite simple.

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theres this guy, my boyfriend. sometimes i feel like i like him and other times i feel like i dont. he is crazy over me. i feel like i want to dump him but i dont want him to be upset. (this guy also gave me chocolate 4 no reason and we have been going out for about 3 weeks) i need help!!!!! il give 5's and feedback to the first 4 good answers i get! PLZ HELP!!!!

You need to do some soul searching. Take a step back and look at your relationship. Are you with him only because he's "crazy about you"? or are you with him because you truly like him? Forget about chocolate and presents. If you genuinely like him, then don't dump him. But if you're only with him because you don't want to hurt his feelings and/or you have your eye on someone else, it's time to end this relationship. If that's the case, do it soon. Don't lead him on for any longer.

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So im making a bet with a friend, and if i win i get to make her do soemthing completely non sexual (and i do mean completely) and im at a loss, cant come up with anything. while your answering feel free to make suggestions for her as well, shes having trouble too.

Make her give you 50 dollars. After all, it IS a bet, right?

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Me and my best friend Ashlee are REALLY close but lately shes been really into guys. I mean, I am just not the way she is ..I mean were 13 but I guess Im kind of prude. Well, one night Ashlee got invited to a party with my other 2 friends Lindsay and Courtney. A few other people in my circle of friends (And I) didnt get invited. But, I didnt think much of it and I didnt care at all. Then, the other day, I was on the phone with my friend Alex (Shes one person who didnt get invited either) and Alex told me that Courtney, who was at the party, told her that the party wasnt really a party. It was just a few guys and Ashlee, Lindsay, and Courtney. Courtney said they played spin the Bottle and Ashlee (Who had never kissed anyone before) made out with 4 guys at the party! The worst part was that she didnt even tell me. I dont know what to do! I told Alex (Swore on my life, basically) NOT to say anything about what Ashlee did (especially to Ashlee) because she would know Courtney told Alex and Alex told me! Im so depressed! what do i do?

You're growing up. It's 110% natural to become interested in boys.

Things like this are going to happen. You're going to have a friend who may be a little bit "loose". You can't help it. It's just the way that person is. I have a couple of friends like that. I used to scold them for their behavior. But then i realized "Hey, its none of MY business. It's her reputation, not mine."

It's as simple as that. Ignore it. If you don't feel comfortable with the way your friend is now, spend some time away from her and make new friends. But don't push her away completely. You guys are growing up. No need to end a friendship over that.

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I like to joke around a lot and be funny but overall I'm a really sensitive person. When someone says something hurtful I think about it over and over and feel worthless and depressed. Things get to me so easily it's pathetic. Other times I get like obsessed with things until I get it. Like I wanted a cell phone really bad, and that's all that I thought about until I got it. I can't help being this way and it really bothers me. Please only answer seriously...
What should I do?

I can get like that sometimes too. I live to laugh. And i won't lie either, sometimes at other people's expense, but always in a joking way.

Sometimes what we say can hurt other people, even if we didn't mean it. And sometimes people say things about us that really gets to us. I would know, i've been there many times.

If someone says or does something that really hurts you, simply say "Hey, that was mean. Please don't say things like that about me. I don't say them about you."

BUT, if you DO say things about other people, then hey. If you can dish it out, you better be able to take it.

It sounds like you need to toughen up a little. Now, i'm not saying to become cruel, or snap when other people say things about you. I'm saying just to not take things to heart. Especially if it was meant in a kidding way.

As for the obsessing thing, thinking about something you really want is normal. I wouldn't be too concerned about it unless your "obessions" start to interfere with everyday life.

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I have a friend who is heavily into drugs. She isn't doing it to have fun, she is doing it to escape problems in her life. She has had a very difficult life, so it isn't like an emo thing. I am too close to her to help her. I have been through this with her many times. My question is, what can I do to try and get her away from all of the drugs without making her mad at me. Also if there is anything you could suggest, where I could help her, it would be much appreciated. Thank you all so much in advance. This problem has really got me down.

~Nokomis~

I feel for you. I have had friends who have abused drugs. It would always upset me to watch them do it, or hear about it, because i knew they were stronger than that.

If your friend is going through a rough time, she needs you more than ever. Pull her aside and say "I'm worried about you. I don't want you to get hurt. We should talk about this."

She may not want to talk about it right away. That's perfectly normal. But don't ignore her. Remind her occasionally that you belive that she can settle her problems in other ways, and that you're always there if she needs to talk. She'll come around.

But if she doesnt seem to want to talk at all, or if she becomes hostile towards you, or you see a big change in her additude, it's time to get some help. Talk to a parent, a teacher, a counseler or whatever. You could potentially save your friend's life. This is an important subject. Just keep in mind that your friend needs you more than ever now during this hard period in her life.

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Ok, this past week, I went to Disneyworld to march in the parade with the band. (yes, I'm a bandgeek...) Well, my really good friend, Nicole, was sitting with me on the busride to Floriday (24 hours, yuck!) and the way there and the 1st few days of Disney were fine, but then she started getting on my nerves. At the time, I didn't think she was a lesbian at all. She was just NOT giving me my space and was hanging around me A LOT. She basically wouldn't leave me alone. And from then on, she started acting really weird. I'm gonna tell you the things that she did, but they're not gonna be in order lol. Well, for one, we were at Epcot and playing in the fountain like 4-year-olds, but hey it was fun lol. She kept picking me up and trying to get on top of me. And then, long after we dried off, she had wet spots on her boobs. So disgusting. On the bus ride home, I'm like, trying to sleep, and every time I look, she's watching me. Then later, I woke up later that night and her butt was pressed against mine and if I'm not mistaken, it was moving up and down. Then on the monorail, she has all this room, but is like, on top of me. So I move over, and she moves closer, and that kept happening. Just a lot of that kind of stuff. So me and my new friends Kelly and Molly and my other friend Amber ditched her at Magic Kingdom, and yeah, we're not talking (not that I care). But now, I'm just really freaked out. I told my friends, and we thought about it for awhile, and a lot of stuff she told us before was all starting to make sense and we really think she's bi or a lesbian. So what should I do? I don't really want to be her friend anymore, and I'm just really freaked out. I could probably say more, but I don't want this to be too long, so if you want more details, IM me on x HappyBunni16 x. Sorry so long, but I'm really scared.
P.S. I have nothing against lesbians, just when they hit on me and my friends.

Hold up. This is not right.

"I have nothing against lesbians, just when they hit on me and my friends."

If you didn't have anything against homosexuals, you wouldn't want to stop being friends with them in the first place.

I think a lot of this may be in your head. Sometimes when we have such a vivid concept in our minds, we make ourselves believe and witness things that aren't really there. Such as the incident on the monorail, or in the hotel room.

Having a few bi/lesbian friends myself, it makes me sad to read this. If she was your friend before, it should make no difference what her sexual orientation is.

But no matter what, you need to talk to her. And soon. You CAN save this friendship, and you SHOULD. Friends are always worth it. I guarentee you'll feel differently after you've talked to her.

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