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Should I date him?
Theres this guy that I have been friends with forever and he has always liked me. The other night we were in his room and we kissed but it was just a peck. I didn't even like him and now after that I am starting to like him. Theres only one problem. He's a really mature and great guy and hes my type exactly and I think he'd make a terrific boyfriend except for my mom thinks hes too young for me. I'm 14 and he's 12. I promise you, I think he's more mature than me, hes definatly more experienced he already lost his virginity. I'd have to keep this relationship from my parents. I really want to date him because personality wise, he's great. Looks wise, he needs to have a growth spurt. He will soon. Should I wait a few years till he does? And then my parents might let me, or should I sneak it and date him now and take the risk of humiliation? I really am liking him and I don't want to wait! But I think it might be best...I need opinions!
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I think what you need to do is sit back from this situation and look at it in a wider perspective. If you and this boy have been good friends forever then maybe you should consider jut staying that way. There's nothing wrong with just being friend with him and it would probaly be better that way. If he's only 12 and already lost his virginity, maybe you should think about the pressure that might bring on you. In a relationship it shouldnt matter who is more experienced than who. I think that its wonderful that you are into this guy for his personality, but if the odds are against you guys and you would have to sneak around to date him, maybe you should wait till you're both a little older. Maybe wait until you're both in highschool when the age difference isnt really a big deal. If you guys are really as good of friends as you let on then he will still be there for you in the years to come so don't worry about missing your chance. I hope I helped!
-Stefiny
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go ahead do what you can before its too late
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What I would do is convince your parents that you think he is right for you. They might be convinced and let you go out with him and he could be your boyfriend. That is what I would do and I hope I helped!
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Well its a tricky one because i understand how people are going to see this but at the end of the day its your life! dont listen to what people are going to say. you like him and thats all that matters! talk to him about it and explain that you like him and ask him how he would feel about you two dating. explqin that your worried about your mom and ask him if he is ok about it! you could even try explainig it to your mom but remember its your decision to make not your mums!but tellin her would be better than sneaking because its only going to catch up with you in the end! so go for it girl!
hope i helped!
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talk to him and ask him how he would feel about you dating him and if he wants to then go for it. you can't help who you like and your parents will just have to accept that. and plus in a few years he might have a gf or you might not like him anymore
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Since he is only 12, regardless of how mature he may act I would just wait.
Don't even start sneaking around because it will get you nothing but trouble. Just be friends for now, you have plenty of time for the rest of it when you're a little older.
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i think you shold date him cause if you dont you might miss out and then regret it foreva. and he's most likely gonna have his sprut very soon. so go out wit him, but keep it on the down low so you dont get caught.
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