ok, so a guy i know and love is stareing at me now that i have boobs... but what if thats all he likes me for? i want to love him , but i dont want him to break my heart.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? karazimonki answered Thursday April 7 2005, 9:53 pm: Ask him why he stares at you all the time. Alot of guys ghet with a girl because their pretty but then get to know them.
Advice one
If you guys were togther before you got boobs then he should still like you for you. If he decided that he now only likes him because of your physical appearance then he is REALLY!!! shallow and don't get you heart broken even know you love him break his heart.
Advice two
If you guys were not together before you got boobs then I wouldn't stay with him I really wouldn't be with him at all but I'm not you so follow your heart.
Good luck!
Karazi Kenzee [ karazimonki's advice column | Ask karazimonki A Question ]
maria2653 answered Thursday April 7 2005, 1:24 pm: well....go out with him see how it goes and if hes just a sick minded pervert then just dump him and slap him across the face! thats what i do [ maria2653's advice column | Ask maria2653 A Question ]
HyperactiveMiss answered Wednesday April 6 2005, 1:24 am: Personally, I don't think you should go with him. Are you sure it's love? Many people don't really know the true meaning of love. There should be a lot more he should be interested in, rather than just your boobs. Wouldn't you want a guy with more self control anyway? lol. Don't be afraid of "breaking his heart". He'll find some new boobs to stare at, I'm sure. lol. [ HyperactiveMiss's advice column | Ask HyperactiveMiss A Question ]
karenR answered Tuesday April 5 2005, 11:39 pm: it wouold be nice if some guys would give you some advice on this one wouldn't it!?
I don't know what the fascination is but all guys young and old alike just love boobs. They don't care how big or small, Live or in pictures.
Maybe because they don't have any....They just love them!
So, If he likes you he probably likes you for your personality but he's still going to look at your boobs. Older guys have a little better control about it, but those young guys in hormonal overload....don't worry about it. No diffrent than him thinking you have a pretty face when you think about it. Just tell him to pick his tongue up off the floor and take you out on a date! :)
soonerfreak128 answered Tuesday April 5 2005, 9:04 pm: I can already tell you that you definetly dont need him because if he is just going to like you for that, I would never have anything to do with him. Plus, that is just gross.
xOxhypnOtickissezxOx answered Tuesday April 5 2005, 3:13 pm: well i think that he might just like you for that but it is possible that me might really like you i think that you should talk to him and see what is up another thing i know how you feel alot of guys just like me for my looks its kinda annoying lol well i think you should talk to him how long have you known him and were u friends with him before
craazylau answered Tuesday April 5 2005, 2:29 pm: Well you dont know until you try it out! Its guys hormones- even if they're really nice guys they will still look at your boobs cos thay're guys! Be flattered and dont worry- chances are he's a great catch especially as you have feelings for him anyway! Good luck [ craazylau's advice column | Ask craazylau A Question ]
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