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Is it normal to feel you have to compete with other women?


Question Posted Tuesday April 5 2005, 1:23 pm

Hi. I always think it's important for me to look prettier and do better than all women I know. Whether they are in my family or not. It's not so much friends, but especially people I hate. Is this normal? What should I do to ween myself off of acting this way?

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shootingstar25xo answered Tuesday April 5 2005, 3:53 pm:
It's definately normal to do that, especially if you're a preteen (like 10-12), teen, or in your twenties. Some people do it even when they're in their forties. I'm guessing you're probably a teen, and it's perfectly normal to feel competitive among other women. Most people, especially girls, do that, and it's because of multiple things, a major one being guys. If you want to stop doing this, or stop before it becomes too much, be yourself. Don't let yourself be competitive. hope i helped!

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LoveNJstyle answered Tuesday April 5 2005, 3:32 pm:
all women do that! its normal. hope this make u feel better. <3

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girdy_goo15 answered Tuesday April 5 2005, 2:58 pm:
well yes it's normal. you feel inferior so you need to be in the spotlight and the center of attention. well just try and accept that other people do have better qualities than you and you as well have better qualities than others.

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FunkyHoMoSapien answered Tuesday April 5 2005, 2:50 pm:
that is very normal. this happens naturally and can be a very good thing now and lata in life. if you dont wanna be like this, yur gonna have to work to stop doin betta than others. like letting them 'win' or do betta sumtimes. ova time you will fit into letting the women around to have sum of the joys of winning. hope i helped

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