there's this guy that i like and i haven't told him that i like him but i'm not the kind of person that really does that. Well, over spring break the guy went on a cruise and today he had pics of these 2 girls that he met that were drop dead gorgeous. He kept talking about one of the girls and how they were gonna take him on a cruise next year and how he might move to indiana to be with one of them and i know that he can't have been serious because he only knew them for a week and i know he was just trying to get me and my friend to be jealous but then he kept being all like a jerk and it pissed me off. But i still like him. Its so hard because i really like him but he can be such a jerk sometimes. He can be a showoff and stuff but he's my friend. I don't know. I don't wanna tell him i like him because then he will be like all weird and maybe be disgusted. I don't know. Help me! (sry its so long)
soonerfreak128 answered Monday April 4 2005, 9:56 pm: Wow, I had a problem JUST like this! My friend that was a boy, well, I liked him. What I would tell u to do is just to tell him. He will not care, yea, maybe he will be disgusted but it will wear off him later and soon he won't even care. Plus, later on you will probably not like him anymore.
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xobreakingdawnox answered Monday April 4 2005, 9:12 pm: ahhh i totally know how you feel!! i used to feel like that to someone who was a total jerk. It's going to take a really long time to get over him, but eventually you will. If he's that big of a jerk you should try and get over him. start looking for more guys and evantually, after time, you will get over him adn move on. I think you should get out of your shyness and tell him how you feel. If he knows that you like him, he'll try and pay more attention to you and he won't be as mean to you. But if you sit there, and you don't tell him that you like him, he's going to keep treating you the same. If you're having a hard time telling him that you like him, try IMing him, sending him an e-mail, playing 20 questions, whatever! Just let him know! I hope that helps...good luck!! xoxo [ xobreakingdawnox's advice column | Ask xobreakingdawnox A Question ]
orphans answered Monday April 4 2005, 8:39 pm: Okay TELL HIM he wouldnt be acting this way if he didnt like you even the least little bit. If you dont have the guts to tell him have a friend to, and if your friend dont want to write him a letter. Letters are always reliable..... unless another person gets the letter which i doubt would happen just sneak it into his backpack, math book or notebook!
xoXCoNfUdLeDXox answered Monday April 4 2005, 8:17 pm: I really think you should tell him because if he's trying to make you and your friend jealous why would he want to do that if he didn't like you a little bit?I just think that he might like you should tell him. And i don't mean you have to tell him face to face. You can have a friend ask him what if you liked him what would you think about that?....like ask quetsions like that. or you can ask over IM or something. Well i hope that helps a little!
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