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boyfriend vs friends
a lot of my friends tell me to dump my boyfriend because hes hurt me a lot. but hes also made me so much happier. i dont know what to tell them to stop them from telling me what to do. no matter what they say im not going to leave him. i'd rather die first. literaly. it just gets annoying when they do this to me. its getting me mad at my friends which makes my boyfriend mad at them because i get mad at them. and i havent had too good of friends in the past either. we've been going out for 1 1/2 years. i dont know what to tell them. any ideas?
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ok i would tell your friends to mind their own buisiness and that you never asked for their opinions in the first place..and if they keep telling you to dump him..then there not friends their just being pains in the ass so i would just ignore them and if they don't stop threaten them (so to speak) just be like "if you don't stop telling me what to do i won't be your friend anymore" that kind of thing then maybe that will make them stop..but just tell them to mind their own buisiness..i'm sorry if i didn't help..good luck hun! *FrAnKiE*
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well usually i would tell you to pick the friends over the boyfriend any day.. but your friends arent the best of frinds.. if they were they'd just be happy for you..tell them how you feel maybe it'll work out. hope i helped! xox Ari
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Well lay it straight out to their face! Just tell them nicely but in a voice that you mean it, that your not going to dump your boyfriend. And see what they say.. If their good friends then they`ll understand! Also tell them that it gets annoying when they keep telling you to dump him.
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tell them that you really like your boyfriend and tell them how you feel about him. all that matters is that you really like him.
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Tell them shut up, its not that hard.
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I think you should talk to your friends about this all. Explain to them how much you care about this guy and you don't want to dump him. Just because they want you to dump them, doesn't mean that you'll actually do it. They should be happy for you because you finally found a guy that you love. Tell them how annoying everything that they say about you and your boyfriend is, how much it gets to you and how mad it makes you. Also tell them just because you boyfriend hurts you, doesn't mean he's not a great guy inside. And that is what a relationship is about. Sometimes people get hurt and you do fight, but that is just how it goes. And he's still with you, so that must mean something. Try to get your friends to understand your point-of-view. And tell them if they were in a 1 year and 1/2 relationship, you'd be happy for them.
♥ Krissy
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tell them if they had a boyfriend that they loved em as much as you loved yours would u want me(you) to try to convince you to break up with em?
hope i helped
♥ indeed2
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Just tell your friends what you just wrote here... Try for a second to see where they're coming from, and if you still disagree, explain to them you don't appreciate what they say and even though pain has been inflicted, much more happiness has been returned.
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Friesndy like that aren't good friends but some people don't realize how hurtful they're being. I'm sure they say what they say just to try to protect you because they care but they need to know when to lay off. Have a serious talk with them and just be lyke "guys, i'm happy with my boyfriend and as much as you tell me to break it off with him, it's not goind to happen.. i lvoe him too much. you can either accept it or not but lay off with all the negative coment and stuff. i dont need it." and from there see if they lay off. if not u dont need them.
you'll know whats right, x0x Jordy|♥
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You need to talk to your friends and tell them that their opinions about your boyfriend will not make you dump him. If he hurts you a lot but makes you happy, that's alright. Tell your friends to stay out of your love life and only you can control what you do and such. Also tell them that what they are saying is annoying and making both you and your boyfriend mad at them. Just tell them how you feel about all of this.
-Karen
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tell them that even though he hurts you sumtimes, he also makes you happy even more. its not their choice. it's all up to you and since it's up to you, you should just ignore them and live life wit your bf. over time they'll stop, and get bored of trying to break you two up.
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