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help asap!!!
okay the other night my friend (who moved to the total other end of the u.s like a year ago) well her ex came to my bedroom window and opened it, climbed in, woke me up and was liek i like you alot and i was like half asleep and he all of a sudden took my clothes off and well basically raped me and then when he was done he jumped out my window and i havent seen him since..what should i do..he like raped me and took my virginity(hes 17 and im only 15)..idk what to do..now i cant save my virginity for like the right person or nehting...i need some help quikly..
no matter ur answers ill rate 5's cuz i need the help!!
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you should tell someone or call your frined and ask for his number and call him and tell your friend what happened
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1) call 9-1-1 report it.
2) Your virginity, in itself, may be gone, but God knows that it isnt truly. See, He took it, but you didnt want him to, you wanted to save yourself for the right person, and he didnt give you a choice. So God Understands. :)
Hope I Helped-
*Kels*
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i think you should tell an adult. thats not alot of advice but thats what u should do
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Rape is a horrible crime..dont let him get away with it! What you have to do first is to tell your mom. I know this is going to be hard for you..but it wasnt your fault nd you were the victim. The best person to turn to is your mom. Shes your best friend and she will help you. The next step is for you and your mom to go to the police about it so they can arrest him. Do it soon or evidence will be lost. They will have to take a test from him and you. Dont hesitate..put him behind bars so he wont rape again!
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OMG!!!! thats horrible!!!You should report this to the police and this guy needs to be in jail. i mean he took something that is important to u. tell a trusted adult or someone who is close to you. call RAINN for confidental counseling 24/7 if you've been raped 1-800-656-hope. or go to this site [Link](Mouse over link to see full location)
i hope things go well for you. <3 Peachgirly
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That is really serious. First off, I would talk toy your friend over the phone about it (if your still close with ehr adn trust her) to see if she could help you out/ And check with her if any of this seems typical of him so that when you report this, which I would highly suggest, maybe she could help out. Tell someone you trus whos an adult though. Like a parent, a counsoler at school. Anyone. And a doctor you HAVE to see. You could be pregnant, infected, bruised(or anyhting lyke that), or my even be trasmited with some sort of disease. So many things could have happened so see a doctor ASAP.
Everything will be okay in the end, x0x Jordy|♥
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oh my gosh! i am so sorry that is so horrible!! you should deffiently go talk to your parents about ti and then probally call the cops because peopel liek him need to go to jail. that is really wrong and you shouldnt have gone through all that im really sorry.
always- jamie
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wow im really sorry. well i think you should tell your parents, one of my friends had this happen and when they went to tell their parents, they didnt believe them because it was such a long time ago and their parents think they just wanted attention. you should deffinitly talk to someone about it. whoever you're most comfterble with. he took your verginity and you didnt want him to, you didnt do anything wrong so dont think that, he did. i hope it all works out. again, sorry.
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thats horrible!! call the police, thats a crime and he should be punished for it. you dont want to hurt your friend!!! and about your virginity, it is sad that you lost it to some bastard that didnt deserve you...but forget about it. when you are with the one you really love that wont matter. give your love all of you, and dont let the bitch that raped you come to your mind. hes pathetic and needs help. if u dont want anything to do with him then call the police. i dont care. call the police. he violated you and he shouldnt have.
hope this helped!! if u need anything else please feel free to ask me =D
dont let the LIGHTS FADE OUT
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Wow, you definitely shouldn't have that done to you by someone who just expressed their feelings for you. You really need to talk to an adult and then call the police. Talk to your mom, tell her that this guy raped you and took your virginity and that you didn't know he was going to. This guy shouldn't get away with this and he probably will do it to some other girl. If he didn't use a condom, then there is a possibility that you may be pregnant. You don't deserve this and you need to tell someone.
-Karen
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Ok. First, go to an adult you trust. Tell them what happened. Then, whoever you tell will most likely call the cops. This guy NEEDS to be put away. Otherwise it could happen to someone else, ya know? IM me @ Yur Baby Girl504 if you need someone to talk to about all this.
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wow, the first thing i would do is tell my parents because what if he got you pregnant? Tell your parents to take you to a doctor immediatly! The report this to the police, he raped you, dont let him get away with it
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