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yea..my name is jamie..i go to lake howell..i skateboard,surf and i'm on the varsity soccer team and on a cfu team yeaya!. i love talking to people about their problems and such. i have lots of friends i love them all dearly lol. i love korn, papa roach, the doors, bob marely, and queen yeaya! and i also love king of the hill and the simpsons..their the best shows in the whole world! well please ask me your questions and i will answer them!

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I am so lonely. I can't get a boyfriend. I have been so broken lately. I don't know what to do to make a guy want to be with me. I have guy friends and i mean i am a unique person but i can't get a guy. i am not skinny but i am not too heavy. i am 15 and i probably weigh about 190 lbs. what do i do to make myself more attractive for guys to look at? are there any certain measures i should take such as loosing weight or changing my personality? please help...luv forever--->kelsey lou

i know exactly how you feel

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Im not yet either but Im scareed I will become. Earlier this night i tried to make myself throw up. Im 14 5'1 and wiegh about 103. Most people think Im crazy because I think Im fatter than most people, but I do. How can I overcome this feeling, and actions. I know that if i become either it will be very hard to stop. please! I need help very bad! Im not afraid to admit it. so please if you read this, answer my question! please!

♥ scared

hun i used to be anerexic afor like a year really its not worth it. ok well you want to hear someone give you advice saying your arent fat because im also 14..5"1 and i weigh 133..so next time you take a look at yourself look good cause you arent fat.
-jamie

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okay the other night my friend (who moved to the total other end of the u.s like a year ago) well her ex came to my bedroom window and opened it, climbed in, woke me up and was liek i like you alot and i was like half asleep and he all of a sudden took my clothes off and well basically raped me and then when he was done he jumped out my window and i havent seen him since..what should i do..he like raped me and took my virginity(hes 17 and im only 15)..idk what to do..now i cant save my virginity for like the right person or nehting...i need some help quikly..



no matter ur answers ill rate 5's cuz i need the help!!

oh my gosh! i am so sorry that is so horrible!! you should deffiently go talk to your parents about ti and then probally call the cops because peopel liek him need to go to jail. that is really wrong and you shouldnt have gone through all that im really sorry.
always- jamie

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im 5'2 and 115 lbs. everyone tells me im not fat or chubby. they say that my stoamch is flat but its not. no matter what i think that im heavy and that its noticable. are there any ways to make my stomach flat? and situps never worked for me. i want to lose it because im always afraid that im going to lose my boyfriend to someone whos skiny and pretty. any ideas? please and thank you.

hun im 5"2 at 133 pounds i wouldnt be complaining

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hey i sit with you in the morning i have brown hair umm im stupid ugly annoying i have french with you WHO AM I..O YEAH i have this freind that never comes to school and shes guna fail wat should i do...

aww you arent stupid or uglyor annoying!!! well you should talk to your friend and tell her how you feel about her not coming to school and stuff, because thats a really bad choice. maybe if you talk to her about it she'll hopfully think about what shes doing and change it, but i don tthink it will work. all i know is that we need to talk to her and smack some sense into her. hope i helped. au revior
always-jamie

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Ok, my friend Chris and I are TOTALLY weird. We both have shoes, and were like in love with them! We spit polish them, try not to get them into the mud, and admire them. My Baby Phats are sitting next to me right now and I'm admiring them as I type. Anyway, is this normal? I'm just wondering.

signed-
Baby Phat Lover

your a little to obsessed with your shoes there buddy. try putting htem in a differnt room and go in another room and if you find you cant be away from your shoes you have a problem and need to report to a doctor.
always-jamie

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So there's this boy who's Catholic (Or Christian.. I forgot) and he likes me, but would it be wrong for him to date me because I'm not very religious??

no it wouldnt. as long as you like him you guys shouldnt let religion break you 2 apart. it wouldnt be wrong, trust me. hope i helped.
always-jamie

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my cat bites (a lot) what should i do?

try not pissing it off so much. mabye that might work?

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Erggg...I'm 13 and i STILL weigh only 70 pounds!! i'm not worried that i'm short, it's okay with me, but i really need to gain weight! i dont wanna die form this! And pigging out on junk food dont help either....

well im jealous

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ok.. i got a C on my first quarter report card and then i got a D on my second quarter grade, and i failed my final because i was sick and wasnt able to take it. which brought my semester grade down to an e... does that make me have to take the class over again or did i pass. be cause techically i passed with a d. but i still failed my final.. so im really confused :-/.

please help!
I rate high!

nope u failed. have fun in summer school. that sucks sorry.
always-jamie

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My freckles are really dark and ugly. Any ideas on how to make them fade permanently or temporarily? Can I get rid of them? Please help! I'm tired of being covered in polka-dots, whether they are angel kisses or not!

love who you are

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I am 14 and a female. There is a guy at school that I think is really cute. We both have history together and I will sometimes see him looking at me. I want to talk to him so bad, but I have never said anything to him before. What should I do?

just talk to him. ask him something or ask him about the homework besides whats he gonna do? just talk to him and see where things lead, they may end up good!
always~jamie

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abercrombie and fitch was the most popular store pretty much to shop at. now hollister is..its just like abercrombie practically but i guess u could say thier pants are cheaper..anyone who doesnt know..abercrombie pants are 70.00 and up while hollister is 40.00 .. anyways everyone is now wearing hollister and i havent gotten around to going yet. when i go to hollister i dont want to buy all this stuff and have people coming up to me saying i have that u copied me..and so on. should i care ..or should i just be up to date?

you shouldnt care. geez i hate people that ask stuff like this everyone is wearing something should i wear it to? geez just be your own person.
always-jamie

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Ok well im going to paint my room a light green and im wondering if i should get a different shade of green for my bedspread and stuff or should i get a light orange one? please help me out! Thanx!! :o)

you should get a light orange or a different light color. it would be bright and pretty!
always-jamie

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okay everybody,

I have a friend who is 12, but she's kinda tall, or atleast, that' what everybody says, and she's starting to hate it, czuse she think it's kind of annoying, so to reassure her, can someone tell me what the average height for someone who is 12, weighs 90 lb, is? I want to know, so I can tell if she really is too tall or not.plz help

there is no average height for anyone. its in your genes how tall someone is. tell her not to worry about it and shes beautiful. she shouldn't really care if shes tall or not. or if she cant accpet being called beautiful she can yell at her parents for being tall.
alwyas-jamie

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I am a 17/m and i really like this girl. I have a plan to ask her out. The only problem is that it involves two weeks and Valentines day. The plan is to leave notes in her locker with no name just ending it the same way. Should i go for the two week plan or should i just ask her?

ok the note thing is stupid. ask her out on valentines day that would be the cutest thing in the whole wide world!
always-jamie

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I asked this girl out once before and she turned me down for another guy, but she said that she really liked me she just wanted to see if there was anything between them. They just broke up recently. I still like her. Should i give it a try?

go for it!

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I have been talking ot a junior for 3 weeks. Im a freshman and we both go to the same school. He told me that he likes me and i said i liek him to i really do though but i kinda dont anymore. I dont know if i should give hima chance or what. I usuallyalways lead guys on becuause i liek them at one point then the other i dont. what should i do.

are you courtney?

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oh my god..i have a french test coming up TOMORROW and i dont know anythingg ..im faling that class and i havent studied..anyways its for a huge grade and i hve to get an A to bing up my grade! How can i get thru all the material? =/ please gimme some suggestions!! fast!

why dont u try studying

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I am a 17/m and i have problems talking to girls. There i admited it. Now i need help. Please give me some advice.
P.S. I will rate good for HELPFUL advice

you should just go up to them and talk to them like you do with your friends it really isnt any different. if theres a girl you like just go up to her and say hi and shit maybe crack a joke, be comfortable. thats all i gotta say. hope something works out.
always- jamie

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