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I am a 17/m and i have problems talking to girls. There i admited it. Now i need help. Please give me some advice.
P.S. I will rate good for HELPFUL advice
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your just shy, but girls like a guy who can be shy and sensitive and who can make them laugh and have a good time, be yourself and have fun, theyll respect that and youll feel better
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just talk on the internet its alot easier to express ur feelings tehre! gl!
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girls love it when guys talk to them, even if they dont like them more then a friend, as long as your not like someone who just constantly follows someone around and wont leave them alone. just compliment a girl on her outfit or something and then just start talking to her, adventually you will start to feel comfertable. hope i helped
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you should just go up to them and talk to them like you do with your friends it really isnt any different. if theres a girl you like just go up to her and say hi and shit maybe crack a joke, be comfortable. thats all i gotta say. hope something works out.
always- jamie
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If you don't feel comfertable around girls have one of your friends come with you that always helps.Or find something yall have incommen.
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Find something you have in common and talk about that. Once you get going it will be a lot easier.
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well for starters, you should start hanging out w/ girls that your comfortable with. just be yourself.. if any girl doesnt accept you for who you are then shes not worth it. dont worry so much about what they think though.. other than that i think you should be good to go.
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i have the same problem talkin to boys lol the best way to talk to us :P is to just maybe stat off talking about school and just try to creat a conversation. maybe make some girl friends and then you could get more used to talking to them. um... maybe talk about movies or try to see if they have anything in commen with you. um... if you wanna IM me i can tell you alot more :P because its kinda hard telling you in this little box. haha but anyways just keep it cool and dont act nervus. you'll be fine :)
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Just be ureself and have confidence and even a simple hello will start a conversation. also don't worry and just relax. Good Luck! :)
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Considering the replies you've already received, I wouldn't blame you. Most girls are absymal and only partially conscious.
Since you WANT to talk to girls and are trying to fix your problem, you probably aren't the source of the difficulty.
The best advice I can give you is to look for girls that aren't mainstream. The ones that look available, perky, always around and surrounded by other girls are the WORST ones to try to talk to. They have their own agendas, and accosting a girl surrounded by a hundred clones will never get results.
Look in the art room, the library, the dark corners and the edges of the crowd. The girls who have a mismatch group of friends are the ones who have conversational skills and diverse interests. The more artistic or unique they seem, the more self-educated and creative they are. These girls are usually approachable. Walk up and ask if you can sit with her, or say hello and ask her what her sign is, whether she thinks it'll rain, or any random thing you want to know. Picking your target is the most important step, believe me. Go with your instinct, if you have good ones.
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Sometimes you have to get their attention where they become interested in talking to you. If it's a particular girl my advice to you is to find out what her interests are so you would have something to talk about. Now what i like to do to catch them off guard is make up something to where I am doing something like a survey and their opinion would be very important. Like for instance asking that girl what movies are good right now and even what is their favorite movie. Tell her your doing research and that you need a few girls opinion. This way she thinks your actually doing it when in fact you are learning more about her.
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Aww, you are soo cute!!!!! OMG! Okay anyway, what happens when your around girls? I mean just be yourself, if its too hard maybe you can talk to her on the phone or on aol! If you need anything else im me! I really want to help you, you sound so inocent and cute!
♥ Michelle
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dear.start talking
you can think of something you like to do and talk about that for starters and maybe they will talk about what they like to do too.
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l0l start saying hi to them and start conversations like wat r yu doing this weekend o0r like.. well stuff like that ! make urself belive u rnt shy and that you can talk to girls and its no big deal ! we dont bite ! l0l good luck !
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well i guess i can help you out there. i am 17f and i know a fair few guys that have trouble talking to me. just start off little... say hi when you walk past girls you know or flash them a winning smile ;) slowly work your way up to conversations... talk about 'safe' things. like 'what did you do over the week end?' things like that. before you know it, you wont be able to shuttup around girls!!! lol. good luck hun.
~ANGE
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