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well i am moving to Colorado next year before school starts and like i am really outgoing and stuff and i play volleyball, and that starts before school so i can meet people by doing that to, but i am like really scared of the change and i dont know waht to do to make the move easier????
Please help me out
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Well it is very sad to move from your friends/ everyone. I think you will meet a lot of friends at volleyball. If you love volleyball then you know that the people there have the same interest in you. I know it will be hard but you will have to do it. Just be calm and try to understand that you have to move. Also try to talk to your friends online and on the phone. Also just do it with anyone you will miss. At least you can still keep in touch with everyone you care about.
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In the past 3 years I have been to 3 different schools. Yeah, it's scary to change, but if your outgoing and have a sport that you can get involved in then it will be really easy for you to make friends. Don't forget your friends back home though, and take advantage of this last year that you have with them. And remember to be happy, because now you'll have friends all over and very good people skills.
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remember all your old friends and call them often. Make scrap books of all the fun youve had together. When you miss them a lot just look at it. what ever happens, just look at all the positives and start your reputation at your new school good. First impressions are the ones people have in their heads for a while. im sure youll be fine once you make friends, they always make everything easier.hope i helped!!
~luv lyndsey
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i no how you feel but just take it in a positive way, stay in touch with your old friends and just go on with the new! :) dont worry about how you think you might act, have a proitive atitude about yourself and the move, there will be gls there that will just come up to you and they'll be your friends and help you out so dont worry! :D
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Everything changes for a good reason .. Um .. Just know who you are and have cofidence in yourself ..
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Aww, i have to admit, moving is very VERY hard. Keep in touch with your old friends, think of it this way, CHANGES ARE ALWAYS GOOD! Just be happy, dont make it bad by being like 'oh i hate this' be upbeat, not stinjhy! You sound excited!! Im sure youll do fine!
♥ Michelle
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Sometimes change can be the greatest thing to happen to us. It's a great way to learn and live a more exciting life. Just think of it as a new chapter or adventure in your life. Who knows you may meet people with the same interests as you. Stay out-going and positive and people will be drawn to you.
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wen you get there take it easy and talk to a l0t of ppl and try to be friends with every1 ! make sure you still keep in touch with ur old friends ! yea i remember wen i had to move all the way from europe to st.louis ! i had to learn english and make friends ! but now thers no problem so yu`l be fine !! x0
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Well, I dont know much about moving...I havent experienced it but a good friend of mine has...and you can ask him questions at his column : zach_attack. One thing I can tell you...keep in touch with your friends! Because even though it wont be the same, at least they can talk to you! Oh and change is sometimes good...you have to go through change..and this move will help you grow!!
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i moved 16 times in my life (i'm 17) and as much as i hate to admit it, it doesn't get much easier. but you do learn to just be nice to everyone until you find out who is you real friends. good luck. i hope it goes well. catch up with me when you've settled in. by darl.
~ANGE
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On the day that you arive in Colorado go out on the town and see all the sites. Keep in touch with all your old friends through MSN AIM or Yahoo. Tell them about your trip and what Colorado is like, and ask about your home town.
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