my mom always makes me go to bed so early!! shes like okay 9:00 is your bedtime ..but im 13!! She makes me do this during the week and im never tired till like 1 am! And i have a laptop that im sneaking on with right now but she ALWAYS catches me..what do i do?>
chaos answered Monday January 31 2005, 9:12 am: Why would she make new rules when you aren't obeying the ones she has already made? Sneaking around and disobeying does not prove you a responsible person. Start following the rules. Then bring up possibly moving your bedtime, but don't bring it up at the last minute when its a bigger issue. Ask for a little compromise. And being difficult getting up in the morning is not going to help your case either (I have no idea if you do this, but if you want a later bedtime this would be a factor). [ chaos's advice column | Ask chaos A Question ]
DrummeR4LifE answered Monday January 31 2005, 1:43 am: lol same way same way :P helping explain this is also to do with when you were born, if you were born in the night (like me) your a night person and in the morning/lunchtime your an early bird. but anyway to the point... to have her not catch you, you have to be very sneaky. and all moms i'd say tell their children to go to bed early becuase the 'parents' want time alone. but i usually just stay in my bedroom and be very quiet while i do things until i'm tierd. You could also try talking to your mom about why she sends you to bed so early and why you stay up late but literally i know how you feel about going to bed early lol.
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GodRockz91 answered Monday January 31 2005, 12:43 am: My mom does the same .. But i homeskool so she calls it apart of the "schedule" You'll live .. Just talk to her about it .. Tell her what you think about it and maybe discuss a little later .. But don't get all defensive that will blow EVERY chance you have ..
angieroonie answered Sunday January 30 2005, 11:46 pm: all moms are annoying at some stage!!! lol. there isn't really much you can do. try reading a book for a little bit. it's good for your vocabulary AND puts you to sleep!!! lol. tell your mum you need to read for a bit before you go to bed. she should be fine with it because reading is healthy for the brain! good luck honey.
livestrong answered Sunday January 30 2005, 11:45 pm: You gotta talk to her... tell her you are the only 13 yearold with a 9 oclock bedtime even on the weekends try to compromise and get a new one... hopefully she will listen to you... and at least extend it on the weekends to 10 or something...
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Sherry answered Sunday January 30 2005, 11:44 pm: Well, I know people that are your age that have 9 o clock bedtimes. Look, the ONLY way you can get her to let you stay up later..is to obey what she says. Your bedtime is 9, sleep at 9...do this for a while and she'll trust you. She'll think your responsible enough to have a later bedtime. I know it sorta sucks, but it'll all be worth it when your bedtime is 10 or maybe even 11. [ Sherry's advice column | Ask Sherry A Question ]
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