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HELP!!
I am totally in love wif this guy in ma class which i fine the only problem ma best m8 hoo i have known since i was 3 fancies him 2 and i dont want to give up my best m8 but this guy keeps talkin 2 me and she keeps givin me these dirty looks and i havent told her that i like him. Plz Help Me !!
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haha <3 im sorry, i mean, why the fuck would u write, "she fancies him" ha this is great.
thank you for the good laugh<3
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talk to your friend about it...yes, she will be mad, but you cant throw your feelings away just because your friend is mad at you for liking the same guy she likes...hope i helped, and dont be afraid to ask me anything!!
-roxy2005
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I was in the same position and it's tough.
Tell your friend how you feel. If she doesn't accept it then you have to work out who's the most important to you-your friend or your guy.
I know the sayong says, "Boyfriends come and go but friends last forever" and all of that, but if a friend is being a bitch about it (and you've tried being nice) then it's probably best to go with the guy. If thw friend is really important to you, go with her.
Another strategy is to try and talk to him when she's not around.
Good luck!
Sophie xxx
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tell her that you like him to and if she cant accept that both of you like him then she isnt a good friend
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i know exactly what you mean, all you have to do is talk to your friend and tell her that this guy has been talking to you a lot, and it seems like he likes you, and tell her that hes not bad looking himself and that you think you could like him too.
and see what she says hopefully she understands.
good luck. and let me know what happens.
xoxo amore
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well there is always that saying "chicks before dicks" but sometimes that dosent help if you really like the guy...so if he likes you and you like him to (which it seems like you do) and if she is your best friend she should understand that you really love him and she should back away from him and let you have him...and if she gets mad at you and continues to give you dirty looks you should talk to her and if she keeps on being mad then shes not a very good friend at all...i have been in this same situation before to and i talked it over with my friend and she backed off and let me go out with him because she is my best friend and understood...it didnt pay off though because i am no longer going out with him...i hope i helped <33
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You need to talk to your friend and tell her that this guy has been talking you lately and that she shouldn't be giving you dirty looks, just because he has been talking to you. If you have been friends with her since you were 3 years old, you should tell her how you feel about this guy and she should understand and if she gets mad, she will eventually get over it. Tell her that it's not your fault that this guy has been talking to you and that she shouldn't be mad at you for that and she should stop giving you dirty looks. If you don't want this guy to come inbetween you and your friend, you both need to stop liking him because friends come before guys.
-Karen
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